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Ok I have self puplished a book, http://www.lulu.com/content/1167656 , problem is it is not selling so any ideas how to get it publicised without spending much (if any) money?

OK, I am falling for someone who lives 1/2 way round the world (You know who you are!), I want to make a move but can't get out there because of work commitments, any advice?

To me this song is deep and complex in its meaning, parts of it seem to be about the freedom of expression love can bring others seem to be about its fickle nature. In either case I love this song.

Lacuna Coil - Heavens A Lie

Oh no,

here it is again

I need to know

when I will fall in decay

Something wrong

with every plan of my life

I didn't really notice that you've been here

Dolefully desired

Destiny of a lie

Set me free

your heaven's lie

set me free with you love

set me free

Oh no,

here it is again

I need to know

why did I choose to betray you

Something wrong

with all the plans of my life

I didn't realize that you've been here

Dolefully desired

Destiny of a lie

Set me free

your heaven's lie

set me free with you love

set me free

Set me free your heaven's lie

set me free with you love

set me free

The following is an extract from an update I made to my profiles at 2 websites (who I will not name due to their adult content and that a lot of minors use this site), I have left out names to avoid putting too much pressure on the other person.

"It took me 2 years to truly get over my ex, it was hard, we were very close, but I finally feel I have truly moved on.

I think (or I hope) I have found someone new; she says "I really like the sound of you", however due to Uni commitments can not move forward until the end of exams. I respect that decision, learning is important and if it makes her happy it is better in the long term. That said hope that after her exams we can get to know each other properly and begin to explore the potential future I can see.

I am writing this here to show that I am committed to this path, having waited so long to start down it this minor delay seems insignificant, and therefore I have stopped looking at new people for anything other than friendship."

Ok this girl I know has been dumped by her BF, I have been there for her as a friend, but in doing so have developed feelings for her. At what point should I try to move things forward or should we just stay friends?

OK first off EVERYONE has some kind fetish, it may not be called a fetish, but it is; just some are more extreme or unusual. But if your meet someone in a "normal" way at what point would you bring yours up or at what point would you like to know about your partners fetishes?

I find this incredibly annoying, if someone has changed their mind why don’t they just say something! It is behaviour like this that causes us men to get paranoid and possessive, and you don’t like that either!