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okay so here it goes I recently broke up with my boyfriend of almost two years.....which was devastating...very ...okay and at the same time my best friend met this guy and he is amazing he is so so sweet and romantic and makes her happy but she stopped hanging out with me she completely changed we were not your average best friends we were more like sisters and I honestly depended upon her for my sanity she use too feel that way as well but now it is like I never existed I do not know what to do I lost the two people that meant the world to me ......and by the way I didn't do that when I was with my boyfriend I still hung out with her constantly....please offer some advice I'm crushed and confused

well I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years and he is an amazing man talented,smart,funny,romantic, and of course sexy as hell....but you see we broke up about 4 months ago and about two weeks ago we started seeing each other again he has a past of drug abuse but didn't use them when we were together until recently when we were broken up...well I HATE DRUGS ...I'm talking pills and coke not Mary jane well anyway he did them in front of me last weekend and I got upset he said I was already trying to change him I just want to help him he said he wasn't sure if he still loved me but then I got into a car accident friday ( nothing too serious ) and he was singing a different tune...anyway me, him and another couple were supposed to be going away for the weekend and he backed out thats why I crashed I was driving really upset...anyway he brought cocaine wtih him he said he had some but I thought he was kidding so I approached him with it and he said I don't want to discuss this

Okay si if you have read my other questions you will know this is about pretty much the same thing...well I am back with my ex boyfriend first thats great and I am so happy...I love to know that I can make him feel good but as I have mentioned previously he has had a history of drug and alcohol problems..He has gotten much better but has still not stopped I don't mind the drinking as much as the drugs .well anyway to speed things up I HATE DRUGS>>>> and the other night I slept at his new house and he snorted an oxycotton right in front of me I wasn't mad just really hurt..adn confused I think it shows no respect towards me because I have stuck by him through thick and thin for 2 years and he didn't have the respect to at least not do it in my face I'm glad he is honest that he hasn't full recovered but it was painful to see..so I really don't know what to do I love him so much but to see him hurting himself and me feels hopeless but I can't give up I don't know how???please HELP>>>

This is not the girl who usually is on here, this is her best friend...and I need help...I'm going to try to make this as short as I can..I've been in love with my best friends older brother for 5 years now...he was my first love...anyway he was too old so I had to wait...and I've been waiting for 5 years, and I swore off guys ..but I started to get lonley...and I found this amazing guy..he's the guy EVERY girl wishes she could find..not being conceited but he REALLY REALLY is...anyway..I'm finally old enough for her brother....and I'm in this totally PERFECT committed relationship..in which my current boyfriend knows EVERYTHING about her brother and vice versa...And he's unhumanly understanding..anyway..what on gods green earth do I do??? I can't picture being without either of them....and plus if I cut off the first love I lose my best friend of 5 years which I also CANNOT live without...But I love the guy I'm with..He's my first real honest relationship...I CAN'T MAKE THIS DECISION!

I was with him for two years and we lived together he had some bad problems with drinking ..He is 24 and I'm 18 I love him very much and don't want to give up on him because everyone has walked away from him.I know this sounds like a sob story but we still love each other he just keeps stringing me along.....HELP ME OUT HERE PLEASE>>>>>>>>>>>>>.

Okay well let's start by saying this is for my best friend but I have to help her...okay well my best friend has been in love with my older brother for 5 years they never really dated but they were really close and still are he is the perfect man for her but recently (5 months ago.) she met this guy and he has been just as amazing and understanding he knows she loves my brother and he talks with her about it all the time they are together all the time and get along wonderfully but my brother told her to wait for him and she did but this new guy was unexpected....sorry it's so long but do you have any idea who she should pick her time is running out because she did make a promise to my brother and he really does care for her.....but she cares for them both....I'll add more if I left anything out....please help...

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he is currently 24 and she is 17 he wanted her to be legal and if you are going to say that is so young to fall in love go **** yourselves

Okay well let's start by saying this is for my best friend but I have to help her...okay well my best friend has been in love with my older brother for 5 years they never really dated but they were really close and still are he is the perfect man for her but recently (5 months ago.) she met this guy and he has been just as amazing and understanding he knows she loves my brother and he talks with her about it all the time they are together all the time and get along wonderfully but my brother told her to wait for him and she did but this new guy was unexpected....sorry it's so long but do you have any idea who she should pick her time is running out because she did make a promise to my brother and he really does care for her.....but she cares for them both....I'll add more if I left anything out....please help...

he is currently 24 and she is 17 he wanted her to be legal and if you are going to say that is so young to fall in love go **** yoursel

Okay well let's start by saying this is for my best friend but I have to help her...okay well my best friend has been in love with my older brother for 5 years they never really dated but they were really close and still are he is the perfect man for her but recently (5 months ago.) she met this guy and he has been just as amazing and understanding he knows she loves my brother and he talks with her about it all the time they are together all the time and get along wonderfully but my brother told her to wait for him and she did but this new guy was unexpected....sorry it's so long but do you have any idea who she should pick her time is running out because she did make a promise to my brother and he really does care for her.....but she cares for them both....I'll add more if I left anything out....please help...

What would you do if you were going to prom and you didn't want to go with anyone except someone you can't go with because they were being stubborn ........my bf says he's to old what can I say to let him know it doesn't matter and it shouldn't after two years.......

Okay what exactly does it mean when a guy tells you one day that you are his world ....his life support and that he misses you every second of every day....then he is an asshole like two days after that then he says he is sorry he is just stressed ....and blah blah blah ....I don't get it how can someone mean the world to you but at the same time mean nothing ....sorry I rambled I just don't understand I love andmiss him all the time as well but hello confusion....any ideas on what to do....other then kicking him to the curb........any ideas why he does this ? do any of you do this? HELP>>>>>:) and thanks in advance for any input....

I was with him for two years and we lived together he had some bad problems with drinking ..He is 24 and I'm 19 I ove him very much and don't want to give up on him because everyone has walked away from him.I know this sounds like a sob story but we still love each other he just keeps stringing me along.....HELP ME OUT HERE PLEASE>>>>>>>>>>>>>.