Blue_Girl

Do most guys out there like going "down" there during their girlfriend's period? My BF can't get enough of me this time of month. I just think it would taste gross..what are your thoughts?

Are you bored? Are you at work? Just wondering what the main consensus is.

I'm 38 yrs. old and VERY nervous....I'm a good person and easy to get along with, good looking by most people's standards but I'm shaking like a leaf here at work...counting the hours down..it's almost like I don't want to go but then again I do...does anyone else ever feel like this?

Thanks in advance:)

I am very much in love with someone and have been for 5 yrs...we dated for 3 1/2 yrs. and then he broke up with me for someone else....since then he has broken up with her and we have resumed a "friendship"....we are the best of friends and he says he loves me but only as a "friend"....well now...the old girlfriend is trying to get back in again and I know that he really cares for her....he has been talking to her again and I know it's only a matter of time before they might possibly get back together or that he might even meet someone new for that matter. We have so much fun together and I love him more than life itself, I would do anything for him. I can't bear to lose him again....I'm thinking irrationally and I just want to end this misery I have inside of me....I can't make it go away....I can't stop loving him...I've tried to meet other people but no-one in 5 yrs. has even begun to come close....is there anyone out there that is going thru something similar? I feel dead inside

and you are at work....you punch your ID and Password in thru Charter.net.....it comes up and you look at your email...then you delete it for good....then when you get home, you open your email up (through Outlook) will you see the opened and deleted email from earlier?? I'm trying to monitor someone's email....but I don't want them to know I looked at it.....

Or is it just me? I'm beginning to get a little annoyed...it used to be fun to answer and read thru some of the questions but now it seems I'm going through at least a couple of pages to get to anything decent and worth answering....I guess I just wish people would start taking this a bit more seriously again, like in the beginning...Any thoughts????

I have a serious question to ask, I must admit I am a little embarrassed because I NEVER thought I would even consider this or think about it but....I'm just wondering how many women are contemplating or considering going bi or starting a relationship with another woman? BECAUSE they have been so unlucky in love with men or are still grieving over a lost relationship....they are fed up with trying to make things work with men, are sick of the games....etc. etc.... The problem is I am 36 yrs. old...have never been bi, I do think other women are beautiful, so I am attracted to the same sex..but I have a teenage son and under no circumstances do I want to set a bad example....I'm just looking for someone to love me and accept me for who I am....just wondering if there ARE other "scared" women out there...thinking of the same things?? I feel so alone in what I feel at times...I guess misery loves company! Thanks in advance for your answers! Have a Great Weekend all!

Over the weekend, my "friend" and me went out to dinner, I have known him 5 yrs. we have been getting along fine but after dinner he excused himself to go to the bathroom and didn't come back, didn't come back....three waiters came over to me and kept asking if I needed anything, etc....then one of them pointed out that my "friend" was at the bar talking to some guy....earlier in the evening my "friend" mentioned that he knew this guy through an aquaintence....so anyway, this is fine with me but now it's going on 30 minutes and he never came over to me to ask me to join them....he just left me there.....I mean, the least he could have done was clue me in...I finally stood up and waved to him..getting his attention and pointed towards the door, saying that I was leaving....he kinda gave a sarcastic smile and partially waved...I walked out practically on fire, I was soooo mad...now mind you, I'm a pretty easygoing girl...not too much bothers me....what do you think?

My friend got me hooked...I watch him play all the time and now I'm on my computer playing online about 4-5 hours a day!!!

I LOVE it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We're friends and were more at one time...got into a small tit for tat the other night....his ex called and left a message....I wondered what she wanted (I was jealous) and he told me nothing...none of my business....I left.

I'm sitting here at work and I've got her CD in.....I think this is probably one of the most romantic songs ever.......makes you feel like slow dancing with your head against the chest of the man you love.....ahhhhhh....where is he? Sigh:)

We share everything, he says he loves me but isn't "in love" with me, but I have never felt closer to a any human being in my life as when I'm with him, I know that I can't possibly be wrong that he doesn't feel somewhat of the same way...otherwise he wouldn't spend almost every day with me. I just hope that I'm not around until he finds someone else...but he promises that we will always remain friends....Please advise....I'm not one to give up hoping and this has been going on for 5 yrs. on and off....we are attracted to eachother as well. Am I REALLY wasting all my time, I don't feel that I am because I enjoy his company sooo much!!

We spend every waking minute together practically...but he goes for women that cheat, are married, money hungry......the list goes on and on....but I am none of those things (honestly) and there IS most definitely an attraction there....wouldn't he be happier with me vs. these selfish women??? Or is he that confused and messed up?? He REALLY is a great guy AND smart...so why this constant mess of a love life?? What do you think his reasons are or his thinking behind the choices vs. me..... Men maybe you can advise much better and clue me in a little!

Is anyone familiar with the book "Secret Postcards" ?? I just happened to be in B&N last evening and I passed a book that caught my eye under Grad. Gifts...it's actually a very brilliant idea....a man decided to hand out leaflets in subways, on the street, most everywhere just asking anyone to please send him a postcard with a secret that they have NEVER told anyone in their entire life...it of course would not be revealed to anyone....he posted some on a website he had apparently and then he put them all together in this book...it's such an awesome idea I think and I was about bawling at some of the secrets that these people revealed for the first time in their life. Some had to do with rape, being made fun of as a child, admitting something embarrasing that they had done, etc...you name it, it was in the book....I really highly recommend it, it's quite moving to see all the pain and pent up hurt inside some people, anyway I thought it would be a good eye-opener for my teenager??

We spend every day together...up until recently, he needs time alone to get over an ex-girlfriend. We actually went out for 3 1/3 years...then he dated someone else...called me up after they broke up and here we are now. He says he's comfortable with me, I swear we act like we're married... we are best friends, have almost everything in common, act silly together but he says he's not "in love" with me but he loves me..?? He falls for women who cheat on him, are married, cold and unresponsive, sexually unavailable....I have never and would never be this way with him, he always says he wants someone like me.....well here I am you big dope....right in front of your face. We are still attracted to eachother too, so that's not an issue...and I'm 36, he's 45 so we're not young kids here who are confused!!!! Please someone tell me what's going on!!!