navywifemomof4

http://www.architecturalhouseplans.com/home_plans/... , that is the website for the house, to built in Arkansas, we own site, excavation already done. I want a rough estimate for a GC to do foundation/basement outside structure(excluding siding), roof(exluding shingles), and everything in house unfinished(studs only), except for the main floor, I want the drywall hung on the main floor and plumbing/electric throughout entire house. Rough estimates please. Exact details of the house on this site. http://www.architecturalhouseplans.com/home_plans/... Thanks in advance.

I want to prepare an elaborate Thanksgiving dinner, please list some must haves(each individual has their own opinion)and hopefully I can get some great ideas. This dinner will be for 20 adults and 20 kids. So some kid friendly ideas would be awesome as well!

I am 25, and my husband is 27, we have been married for 7 years and share 4 beautiful children together. 4 years of our marriage were nothing but bliss and happiness, then he deployed and I with three kids got lonely and slept around a few times while he was away.

Now he is putting me through hell. He met a girl through work and they hit it off immediately, she makes him laugh and makes him happy, something he said he hasn't been for so long...which I didn't know, he pretended like things were fine at home, just a little stressed about work, which it was really his affair he was stressing about. So he wasn't planning on it but actually fell in love with this mystery girl. Then he asked me to leave so he could continue his life with her because he couldn't handle the unhappiness with me anymore, he only asked me to leave after I discovered text messages on his phone to her telling her "I cant wait for you to be my wife", and "I love you", "You have changed my life forever"...I mean what wife wants to read that crap. I have been on an emotional roller coaster every since.

He was going to give me three days to prove my love to him and I told him that I was not the one that needed to prove anything, I give him the choice to work things out at home and keep his children in his life or I would move a few states away with my kids and start over. Threes no way with his job that he could raise the kids on his own without having them in childcare constantly. So...He chose his family...I know this...however I still have the hardest time getting over what has happened. It has only been two weeks since I found out and I am still extremely paranoid and freak out every time he doesn't call or comes home late or makes an excuse to get off the phone with me.

I feel like I am only tearing our marriage apart when all I truly want is to build it back up to what it once was. I know all marriages that last a lifetime go through their own issues, maybe not cheating, but difficult times. I just want to let it all go.

Every night it seems like I grab the bottle to help me get over this and go to sleep, otherwise I am up trying to figure out who this girl is or worrying about the time they spent together. He has only been having an affair with her for two months, however his heart is completely in it for her. So, I am trying to cope with my broken heart as well as his. I mean how can you just give 7 years up for 2 months, was it that great? Its comments like those that are just tearing us apart, but I feel I cant help myself.

All this pointless drama has started to affect our oldest son in school. He never had issues before, but now he is aggravating and acting out. For the most part I try to hide my feelings in front of the kids and we made a pact not to fight in front of them anymore, but hes old enough he can tell that we are unhappy. I was very happy before I found out my husband was cheating, now, I want to be happy more than anything, I just feel miserable and like I cannot move past this.

I just want to know if there is hope for us. I want to know that other people made it through and there were no more affairs later on...that he can let go of her. I was a strong believer that you take your marriage vows for better or worse, and this is defiantly worse, and maybe sickness too. Please give me your opinion, I want to save my marriage! This man still means the world to me and I adore him.

What does this mean?

I looked on their website and I cant afford 60 bucks a bottle?

We just took this recruiting job and its such ****. My husband has to work till almost 8 every night of the week, we have four children and I put them to bed at 8 so he doesnt hardly every get to spend time with them. On the same page, he is having to work on the weekends also. IT SUCKS! I just feel like I cant deal with this for three years, that is how long he has this job. It is so demanding! I have already talked to dh and the guy over him and it doesnt matter really...they dont care! Work comes before family in this job, thats so wrong! Life sucks, check out my blog and you will see how things went from good to shitty in a week! Any suggestions?