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Firstly, thank you for all your sincere answers. (Sorry for the long q)

My ex wife has been living separately for the past 1 year with her BF.

She wanted a divorce but I was ready to reconcile. However the more keen I was to reconcile, the farther away she went.

Over the past 8 months, I have relented and agree to go for the divorce. She has been extremely rude and stressed that she wanted a divorce and nothing more with me.

Now, I came to know that her relationship with him might be strained. (I believe that he is no longer in love with her and is trying to cut her out of his life)

She is not in town now and she recently sent me a text message asking me if I can forget the past and start a new life together. She then called me a few times, and sent me another message that she is willing to reconcile since her Granny is ill and wanted us to be together.

I am all for a reconcilation and definitely want her back, but I feel that she sent me this message because her BF cut her off. I didnt respond to her calls/messages because I thought if she was really serious, she would either email me or meet me instead (when she back).

She is scheduled to return in Jan.

I dont want to be her Plan B but at the same time, I want her to know that I am waiting for her.

I want her back and am willing to forget and forgive her for what she has done. While at the same time, I also accept that I handled certain situations poorly.

Am I doing something wrong?

BTW, I live in India, so would appreciate if you could give me relevant legal or spiritual answers.

Can someone please tell me which is the nearest train station that i can get down at to go to Kharghar?

How far is Thane? How to reach Kharghar from Thane?

I am new to Mumbai and am on a very short trip with a tight budget.

Please help

My wife of 10 months recently left me for another guy that she met and fell in love with at work.

Well, thats the shortest way i can put my situation.

We had a year long courtship and were the envy of all people who knew us.

I thought she had the same feelings as I had for her. Well our families were really tough and things did get really difficult at a lot of times, which led to me making a lot of compromises to get married to her. Though we were both very sexually active at the beginning of our relationship, i noticed that her interest quickly waned, we used to make love once in 10 days or so. She was a stay at home wife and since we had debts that we carried over from before our marriages, i insisted that she work. I agree that we did have our fair share of arguments, petty fights and I am a very sarcastic person when I am hurt. Specially when my Wife would fight with me. She never liked it, but she would also return the sarcasm. Nonetheless, we would both say hurtful things against eachother that we regreted immediately after the fight.

She has been suffering from chronic gastritis for the past 9 years which became worse since she would not want to sleep while i am doing my night shift at work. I gradually nursed her back to health but realised that she was getting attracted to another guy at her workplace. Though i didnt know it at the time, he proposed and she accepted it. They would talk for many hours over the phone without my knowledge and she even fought with me, when I asked her if there was anything between them. However she did break the news to me and her feelings for him became deeper and they would spent more and more time over the phone and online.

She refused counselling and didnt want to hear anything to the contrary that her family or relatives wanted to say. She at one point grudgingly accepted to live with me but love the other guy and called me Selfish and promised to punish me by living with me.

She recently moved out of my home to live with him. She comes from a broken family and her mom had abandoned her when she was an infant. Her Dad is not in very good talking terms with her. Her Grandma raised her up and is a very authoritative person. Her Family is very money minded and suggested that she make sure she takes a lot of alimony from me when i eventually divorce her.

She is very stubborn and has mailigned me in front of her family and relatives (A few of them have understood both sides of the issue and are very supportive of me)

She tells me that she just wants to live with him but there has been a change in mind. She recently told me taht she wants to be alone.

Before she went, she insisted that I start dating other women, and also helped me create profiles on dating sites online. I recently met a lady who had similar experiences in her life. (She is divorced too). We started chatting and I like her a lot. Cant say love, since it is too fast and i still have not healed from what my wife did. Though I know I cannot marry another person until i am divorced, I want companionship. I still love my wife and the thought of what she did and said has hurt me immensely. I still want to accept my wife if and when she comes back, but i dont want to loose out of an opportunity for true love.

I am craving for love just as any other person who has had a very 'loveless' childhood and teenage. (Its not because I am desparate to jump into bed with another girl) I am ready to love this new girl that I met online, but since we both have been hurt in our respective marriages, want to take this relationship as slowly as possible. We really dont want to rush into things, but i think I am falling in love with her and we might be going for our first date soon.

What i really want to know is, considering the fact that she was very sexually attracted to me and we used to steal every possible chance to kiss and be very physically intimate with eachother right from the 1 st day that we met eachother, do you think she would be doing the same with that guy?

She has a lot of pride and ego within her and I am theorizing that even if she realizes that she made a mistake, what are the chances that she would come back to me?

Question 3; When she does come back to me, what do i need to do to make sure she does not take me or my love for granted ever again?

She was a namesake Catholic and I firmly believe that Satan was able to snatch her away due to the acute lack of her faith in God.

I want answers that are spiritually heavy and in lines of been a true Christian.

Symptoms:

-Vaginal bleeding 2 weeks after menstruation

-Bleeding contains clots, thick pieces of tissue

-No abdominal pain

-History of peptic ulcer

-Bleeding since 3 days now

-No history of cancer in the family.

-No tenderness in breast.

Could you please help me with this?

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I have an aquarium, (a filter, but no socket to plug it in) lot of pebbles and stones, a piece of wood.

Used to have fish, but had to dry it out for various reasons. The tank has been empty for past 1 year.

I can't go through the heartbreak of fishes that die in a new tank syndrome.

I want practical ideas and help with a new pet. Turtles?

Hi...

Could you all tell me how I can make the cheapest long distence phone calls within India????

Oka, a little more background.. I live in India and I have a BB connection. I also have a Cellphone (HUTCH). The person I want to call does not have a Computer at home.

I hear that tools like Skype and Net2phone allow you to make calls from PC to phone..

What I want to know is:

A. Can I make the call from a Computer within India to a Mobile phone within India?

B. What software and how much does it cost??

Please help!!

(Only serious answers please)

Could you please tell me if there are any UG courses in Tourism in Bangalore?

I am 23 years old and have finished my Travel and Tourism in Frankfinn was am the best student in my class.

I hate to work in hotels and would not want to work as a Air hostess. I love travel and tourism and also love teaching.

Could you please advice me on a good course / career option relating to travel and tourism??

Hi.. Please help !!!

I would like to know the train number(s) for trains from Guwahati to Bangalore.

How long does it take to travel from Guwahati to Goa and

what is the name of the train? and

What are the stations that it passes?

And please dont ask me to refer to the IRCTC site. It does not answer my questions.

Thanks for any useful info you can give.

My Dad passed away recently, and needless to say is a huge vacuum in my soul. It is his birthday today and I want a tattoo. Can you help me?? Please give me some pictures if you have one. Thanks a lot.

One of my client is getting this funny error which Microsoft says this link -> http://support.microsoft.com/default.aspx?scid=kb;... would fix which it doesn't.

Issue is clicking "Find"/"Search" in Outlook 2003 on IMAP folders. Doing the local .pst folders works fine. Full error reads like :

There are too many Find Public Folders dialogs open. You must close them in order to use the Advanced Find. Do you want to close them now?

Yes / No

If I click yes, nothing much happens. He has rebooted, made sure only one instance of Outlook is running etc.

He has all the relevant Service Packs.

He has the Windows XP. Have tried creating a new profile but still no go.

Any Ideas??

I am in India, but am multi ethnic, hence have a very varied set of beliefs. I have been with a Indian girl for the past 3 years, but she she has cheated me many times and is in more ways than 1, not the kind of girl that I would want to be with. But she is madly in love with me, and would cry to death if I break up with her. She does not believe in the same kind of things that I believe in, we do not dress similarly, dont have the same hobbies, have different pasttimes, and so on.. But recently, I met a girl on Yahoo Answers, and she is an American in the US, and we instantly clicked !! She has kids out of a previous marriage but is in my age group. I think she loves me a lot. But I definately love her and her kids a whole lot. The distance between us is excrutiating and I constantly miss her. I have a lot of things planned for our future together and I broke up with my current girlfriend. I never believed in Online relationships,

Hey Folks, I love answering questions and I think Yahoo Answers are the best thing to happen to Yahoo since its email. I had some questions of my own, so here goes..

Do you feel the questions asked here are too stupid, or too obscene?

Why are people asking these questions?

Why are we talking/having too much sex online, when offline works?

Do you believe in Long distence relationships?

Do you believe that you can judge a person if you met/talked to him/her online?

Are people cheating more often now??

Are we more sexually active now than ever before?

What is it with Sex?

Why are we losing our virginity earlier?

Why are we not waiting?

Why are some sick sad people trapping young girls online?

And on and on and on..

Anyways.. a million questions, hoping that I will get atleast a few good responses.

Cheerio!!