Nikita

Hi, I've bought my sister a Sony Cybershot camera for her birthday. I'd really like to personalise a case for her, I.e a case with a picture of us on, or her dog etc. I've googled it, but not had much luck finding a site that does this. Can anyone recommend? I'm in the UK

What does my dream mean?

Last night I dreamt I was a surrogate mum for a really old school friend (I haven't spoken to this person in years so I'm not sure why it was her!). Anyway I went through the whole pregnancy and gave birth to twins, a boy and a girl. But when they were born I questioned that they were actually hers because they looked so much like me! Especially the boy! (In my dream my parents came to see me in the hospital and I said to them 'look! He looks just like me & Martin!' -Martin is my ex fiancé who I don't speak to anymore, we broke up years ago!). Throughout my whole dream I was in the maternity ward and asking for DNA tests as i was desperate to prove these we're my children before someone took them away!

This is the second night in a row that I've dreamt of babies! Yesterday I dreamt I was protecting someone's child but I don't remember all of the details now :(

Just to clarify, I'm 25 and have been single over a year now. I'm a very career-driven person and I'm not very maternal AT ALL! This may sound silly, but I can't help thinking is this my body clock started ticking? Or does it mean something completely different? Please help!

Ita my friend's hen weekend and we're having t-shirts made with funny and rude names on them. We've thought of a couple that are hilarious but I'm stumped for anymore! Suggestions please?! Names are:

Nikki

Paula

Michelle

Holly

Sonia

We really want rude ones which incorporate our names e.g 'K.Y.Kellie' and 'Kim Alloverme' don't be shy- the ruder the better!! :) thanks! Xx

I keep feeling really faint, have heart palpatations, trembling cold etc my doctor says that i'm having panic attacks related to my depo injection. But when the 'attacks' are occurring, it doesn't feel like i'm worried or stressed etc it feels as though i'm ACTUALLY ill and WILL pass out. I was just wondering if there was a fundamental way to tell the difference between feeling faint because you're having a panic attack or feeling faint because you're actuall ill e.g. low blood sugar, anemia etc.

If anyone could give me an insight to this i'd very much appreciate it.

Sorry i haven't put too much information down, i just don't want to lead anyone's answer in any way.

Thanks :)

Hi I was seeing a guy last year for a few months, I found out that he was lieing and cheating on my so I left him. I then got with someone else and we were together for 5 months. It may sound stupid to u all but we just fit together so perfectly, I mean his mates' girlfriends...were all my old friends from school!! His dad even knew my uncle really well! I'm 24, he's 26 and it's amazing that we hadnt met eachother before!! Anyway needless to say, I feel head over hills for him...then he started acting weird...we only ever went out as a couple with all our friends. He would always keep his phone on him and the amount of girls sniffing around was unreal (tbh totally honest-he's not amazingly attractive though!) so anyway he told me that he loves me, can't believe he's finally found me blah blah blah...then about 2 months ago now he basically dumped me cuz I'm 'clingy' when I asked him to explain he said it was cuz I 'hug too much in bed' !!!! I was DEVASTATED! anyway about a week after that he txt saying he misses me, please come round etc I did, we had sex....and u can guess the pattern from here...we have sex, he tells me he misses me but doesn't want a relationship etc until I got fed up of being used and ended it all about a week ago. I'm gonna be honest, I do love him and I do what him back, I SERIOUSLY thought he was the one! But now I see I was a mug and he used me. But now....I really feel like all men are the same and all they want is sex! I don't mean to be horrible but that's how I feel!!!! Help me?!!! :'(

Hi I have shoulder-length hair that I dye dark brown, my hair also has a natural wave which is awful and ive found that if I don't blow dry my hair, when it dries it looks greasy! I straighten my hair EVERY DAY because if I dont, the natural waves in it look awful! My hair is really weird whereas it's greasy on top but really dry at the ends! It also won't grow! :( I don't know if anyone has some tips that I could try to make my hair healthier and grow?? But please bear in mind that I do have to dye my hair (as my natural colour doesn't suit me) and I need to always look presentable for my job, so having greasy-looking hair isn't going to go down well! I live in the uk, so please also bear that in mind if u suggest any products. Many thanks and please help!!! Xx

I have toothache from where I was clenching my teeth in my sleep. I've had it all day and it won't seem to go away but I feel as though I've been tensing my jaw without meaning to. Do u think it'll go away on it's own? I've been putting bonjela on my gums. I really don't want to have to go to the dentist!

A couple of nights ago, i dreamt that i'd woken up and gone to the mirror and some of my teeth had fallen out! (i say fallen out, they looked like they'd been broken right down to the gums but in my dream i said they'd fallen out) Including my front two. I went to the doctors and he said that this was a symptom of pregnancy and that i was about 4/5 months gone and that they should grow back within the next month! what does this all mean??

what nightclubs in kent (uk) are open tonight (christmas day). REALLY want to go out!!!

so from the start... i was engaged to an abusive person for 4 years and the we finally broke up about 3 months ago. i was single for about a month but i'd always liked someone from afar for about 5 years. this person is the son of my parent's best friends. he's 7 years older than me and has a son. i'm 23. to be honest he's a bit of a loner and i'm a bit of a party girl at heart but i thought he was sweet so i badgered my mum to set up a date for us. in the end we made up some excuse so that i could get his number and then i txt him telling him that i liked him. i was so sure that he would blow me out but he didn't! so we went on this date and got on quite well. but from that point the relationship has gone TOO FAR TOO FAST and now i'm REALLY DEPRESSED! in a nutshell from the first date my parents told me that if i ever broke up with him (cuz he was hurt really badly in the past) they would never speak to me again. now i'm living with him, tied into a rental contract for a year and was forced to get engaged to him! thing is...i don't love him! he's not the person i thought he was and i find it repulsive when he tries to touch me (not meaning it crude but it's a real problem!) he doesn't look after himself properly, we have his son (who's 7) every other weekend and he is a little ****! he's quite literally taken over my life, he's not controlling but is by my side ALL the time! he's just really irritating me! what i'm about to say is going to sound strange and most narrow minded people will take it as me being a gold digger but i had a lot of debt and was working 2 jobs. he paid my debt off for me so that i didn't have to but it wasn't even my choice! he just took it upon himself to do it! and i know i shouldn't moan because he done me a huge favour but i could have done it myself! and its like another reason why i cant leave him. what makes it worse is that his mum told my mum that if our relationship doesn't work out she's afraid that he would kill himself!!! so if i leave him he might top himself!!! what do i do?! please help me i'm being deadly serious! i'm so depressed because of this i've even thought about killing myself as i can see no other way out. i know it sounds trivial to some people but having to be with someone you don't love just brings you down so much. help please x

is it wrong to marry someone if you don't actually love them?just care very deeply for them? i fell in love when i was 16 and he broke my heart, it took me 4 years to be able to go out with someone else and since then i have been in a couple of serious relationships but they all turned out to be controlling and abusive. for ages i have been saying that i just want someone who will love me for me and give me space to be myself. i've finally found this man and things are going really well. i know it sounds really daft but he is PERFECT for me and wants me to marry him. the problem is, although i do find him attractive and i love him....i'm not in love with him. but i honestly don't think that i'll be able to love anyone again like the way i did my ex when i was 16 and to be honest, i don't really want to because it was hell when we broke up. everything about this man is completely perfect. is it ok to marry your best friend as oppose to the one your madly deeply in love with? all i can think is that i will be so happy with him...maybe i will learn to love him? x

i have a notebook which has all my music on. i want to make a cd but can't because i obviously don't have anywhere to put the cd! lol so is it possible for me to get a memory stick, download my music onto that and then plug it into a desktop and make a cd with it? if so then is there a certain type of memory stick that i need? and if this isn't possible then how to i move my music from my notebook to a desktop so that i can make this cd?! thanks

there are a few questions on this but mine is just really simple. i get that if you are american of african descent you call yourself 'african american' but what if you are of caribbean descent? do you still say 'african american' although you're not actually african? don't bother posting nasty stupid or racist comments, it only highlights your lack of formed brain cells.

i'm 23 and i don't yet know what to do with my life! i work for a top UK bank and i'm doing well within my career but it's just not what i really want to do. don't get me wrong, i do love my job and i am really good at it but my heart just isn't in it. i need some really good career advice as to which road to travel down?! i've always been interested in law and wanted to be a barrister when i was younger. i studied Law at A Level but didn't get to sit my final exam due to personal circumstances. it's what i've always been interested in, should i go back to it? i was thinking of doing my law degree while still working for the bank. but i also want to do other things that i am quite passionate about and would love. i'd quite like to get into social care and/or counselling as i'm also really interested in this and whilst i was studying law i also did psychology. but then i'd also like to go into forensics as i'm fascinated by criminology and forensic detective, i spend the majority of my time glued to the crime and investigation channel and am really interested in pathology and criminal profiling. how does one choose the correct path?

The way i see it, i'm 23 if i go for a career change i need to do it now, i just don't know how you decide which one is the best way forward for you. please help! or at least direct me to somewhere that could help a little to find what would be best for me!

btw although i am doing well within my job i really do not want to stay within the financial sector so it is not an option to continue on with my career within the bank.

thank you!

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i have a strange question. i want some SERIOUS advice as to what this could be. about a week/2 weeks ago i banged/scratched my leg on the side of my bed (by accident of course) but i forgot all about it. then a couple of days later, i happened to brush my arm against my thigh and i felt a HUGE lump. when i went to look i had a MASSIVE bruise and scratches on my thigh, then i remembered banging my leg. the bruise has now gone from being purple/black to being the funny green/yellow colour it does when it is getting better. but when i touched it recently i felt a small hard lump in the middle of the bruise, is this normal? the bruise still hurts to touch but the lump is slightly bigger than a pea and it feels really hard. is this just like a piece of grisle? or do you think i should get it checked out? i know it sounds stupid to ask this question on here but i don't want to waste my doctor's time if this is normal. thanks

Hi, i need a little advice around a work visa. my friend has dual citizenship (british and australia) and he plans to go to australia for a year to work and see if he likes it. he's asked me to go with him and i really want to as i think that it would be a fantastic opportunity. However, i'm not sure if i qualify for the correct visa as i do not have a trade. I need a visa that can be extended to permanent if need be and will allow me to work for a company for more than 6 months. please help!

please don't take this as a racist question-i am not racist, my nephew is bi-racial and i am very proud of him but i have a lot of african and jamaican friends, and it seems that ALL of them cheat! and all of them have not had their fathers in their lives either. so it leads me to the question, why do a large number of black men (obviously not all) not stay committed in a monogamous relationship? is this something to do with culture? only serious answers please. and i do not mean this to offend but am genuinely interested in an observation that i have made and am NOT saying that ALL black men are adulterous!

this is going to be a bit complicated so sorry!

basically i need to know what a good shampoo is...i want my hair to have more volume BUT

my hair itself gets really greasy very quickly, but my scalp is very dry and my ends are very dry and i can't find a shampoo that can tackle all of those problems AND give me volume! please help!

by the way my hair is bleached blonde and grows quite quickly so it has to be done regularly.

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Hi, i need a little advice around a work visa. my friend has dual citizenship (british and australia) and he plans to go to australia for a year to work and see if he likes it. he's asked me to go with him and i really want to as i think that it would be a fantastic opportunity. However, i'm not sure if i qualify for the correct visa as i do not have a trade. I need a visa that can be extended to permanent if need be and will allow me to work for a company for more than 6 months. please help!

Like the dynamite mc vs TNT song...what does it mean to 'rush the dj' ?!