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I've had my tongue pierced for almost a month now and I just changed from the long bar to a smaller bar with acrylic balls.It feels tighter. My tongue honestly didn't feel or look swollen anymore when I decided to change it. Also there is a small flap of whitish color skin underneath right where the ball sits that developed about a week after. I have had no discomfort with it or any abnormal puss it's just there. Is that flap always going to be there? and it is normal for it to feel tight after I changed from the long bar to a shorter one?

Ok so my boyfriend and I have had sex 3 different times the past three weeks. I was supposed to get my period yesterday. The first time according to my period tracker was during a day i was fertile and was unprotected but as far as I know he did not *** inside me. The second time was just a quickie and was protected and he pulled out. And the third time was this past saturday again was protected but this time he did *** inside me with the condom on. I am not really freaking out to much, I am to the point in my life if it happens it happens. I am not on birth-control and my period is usually never late. I am just wondering if I could take a test this soon, or should I wait a couple more days?

I took the compass test before i started college last fall and placed into remedial math class. I took the first one and passed but the second one I received and IP. I am just wondering if i can retake the math section of the compass and skip the class altogether without it showing up on my transcript. I am really freaking out because I want to be a doctor and go to med school but High School didn't prepare me for college at all and I keep falling on my face here. I know that the remedial classes don't transfer to a four year university but what I don't know is if it would show up on my transcript for when I apply to med school.

I am currently attending a local CC and I will only be completing my second semester in may, I am really confused on whether I should go on to and apply to transfer to a higher 4 year university or take another semester and transfer in the spring or even just complete another year. My grades for my first semester were horrid due to medical problems that caused me to miss a lot of class time and little time for me to focus and be on track, this semester so far things seem to be looking up.

I plan to be a dermatologist, but I am still not quite sure what to major in, as far is bio/chem/or possibly business.

anyone with any insight is much appreciated. Please help, I don't really have any idea what I am doing and well I'm the first in my family to go to college so they are just as puzzled and confused as I am.

thank you for your help :)

I was diagnosed with is HS (Hidradenitis suppurativa) about a year ago but i have been battling with it since i was 14, i am now 18 and it have it in a pretty weird spot, between my breasts. It has been non-active so to speak for about 6 months or so, meaning i haven't had a flare of the lesions. but i have gotten one lesion on my thigh, but i took my antibiotics that i was prescribed and it went away, i sometimes have lesions on my outer labium but i don't know if this is due to the HS or just ingrown hairs because i am also pron to them as well, the reason why i don't know is because the lesions never burst open and produce the puss the just subside within a few days.

In short I am just really embarrassed by this disease and wondering if someone can help me with what to do, or ways you deal with it.

I know this is going to sound weird but i just got finished masturbating(using my fingers a dildo) and when i orgasm i noticed there was watery blood coming from my vagina. it was a dark brownish. i had my period last weeks so i don't know what is wrong. kinda scared me a bit. Could i have been to rough and scarped the vaginal wall. or possibly gone too deep? nothing hurts though.... I've never bleed before. what could be the problem?

Okay so i feel like an argument lol so what better way to do it then with a little debate over religion.

My opinion on Religion is that it is a load of crap. Yes a believe in God, because evolution makes no sense to me and just some unexplainable things happen. Any who, i don't believe in the bible. I honestly feel that i can go out and say i am the daughter of god and he has came to me and made me write this book for you all to follow and i could get people to follow it.

I think the only reason we have bible is because the ruler of the Romans at the time(forgive me for my laps of not knowing) wanted a way to rule his people thus instilled a church and created the rule of the church and the religion of the Roman CCatholics I am sorry I can't believe something MAN wrote and is saying that this really happened. I am not saying that it didn't. It could have but honestly it seems pretty far fetched...

So teens: anyone else think the same way?

I was talking to a guy friend of mine a few weeks ago on fb chat and our football season at school just ended and he was on the team, so I asked him how it felt to go straight home after school(we are both seniors and senior boys don't practice any more like the under classmen) and he was like it is horrible and he hates it, and that he was going to trying to get a scholarship. and i jokingly put "you are half black and an athlete, all the scholarships are made for you, I wish they had a white people scholarship lmao" all he typed was "..." i asked him why he typed the dots and he said because i have no comment. and I was like there is meaning behind your dots, and he was like somethings are better left unsaid, and I told him obviously you have something to say so say it. and he told me that he has no comment to my racist comment. I told him him "i am sorry if offended you i didn't mean anything by it honestly it was a joke, i am prolly on of the most not racist people you will ever meet(my family is hispanic and black plus the my best friend whom i am in love with is Honduran) all he typed was "k" and signed off. I honestly don't think it was racist but was it? or was he just over reacting?

Ok so i was dating my boyfriend for a year before we broke up about 2 weeks ago, neither of us wanted it, but we were constantly fighting due to him working and going to school and being tired all the time and me being clingy. I just wasn't working. so we decided that we would stop hanging out and just talk here and there for 6 months and then in december go out and see if we could make it work. i guess you could say we are taking a break. but the thing is i don't want that. he is the only person that i have ever felt that has really loved me. with out him i am so lonely. and i know he feels the same way but every time i bring it up to try again he says you know its to soon to try. though i feel that if we know whats wrong then we can fix it. and yes we have had this fight before and tried and things went rite back to the way they were but i know what it is like without him, i wouldnt screw up again. i just want him to have a long conversation with me about this but it just turns into another fight on how i am just trying to get him back, and what makes this worse is his ex girlfriend wants him back and he has been talking to her and it just kills me inside! i love him more then anything, and idk what to do. should i tell him how i feel or just let everything work out the way its suppose to?

ok so my boyfriend is a college student at AI and they just started a new quarter and so his schedule is as full as it can be, plus he is working full time. and i know there is no time for me at all! not even weekends because he is working. but anyways this past week i haven't talked to him but maybe five minutes a day and then last night for like two hours. and then today he had the day off but i couldn't see him because i was with my family and i haven't seen him in weeks( i hardly ever see him because of issues) anyways tonight he went to see clash of the titans with his mom and he won't be home till like midnight and he has school at like 6:30 in the morning so i don't get to talk to him and i'm a little upset( he just started school and he just got this job so we have been talking like everyday for like 3 or 4 hours for like 10 months since we can't see each other) and so idk if i will just have to get used to this and then i won't get upset when i don't talk to him for awhile, because next week i won't talk to him until the following monday...

please tell me how i can stop being upset.

i know i must sound just pathetic but when you know what has gone on between us and the **** we have been through you might see where i am coming from.

I'm not going to lie i'm fishing for compliments but honestly i have very low self-esteam and just wondering to another persons prospective am i the least bit attractive?

call me whatever you want it wont hurt me. i was honest i just wanna know!

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Dog Tags.

She stood there looking out the window

all dressed in black, immersed in her thoughts.

She was silent as could be, though in a room full of people.

People whisperer about her, she paid them no mind.

She was drowning in her own sorrow, drowning in her tears.

She hated this day, it was suppose to have been her happiest day.

She was supposed to be dressed in white, not the dull black she wore now.

She was suppose to be happy, not trying not to cry aloud.

Holding on to all she had left, his dog tags...

Days passed, her depression worsened.

She could barley keep it together, not even for her family's sake.

She was a walking corps, never bothering to even get up to eat.

Everyone now became worried, of what she might do.

Her little boy she could barley look at anymore with out crying.

It hurt to much to look at him, when he looked just like HIM!

Her baby boy, she couldn't even hold him while he cried at night.

It hurt her to much, all she could do was hold on to his dog tags...

It has now been a month, she doesn't show a sign of getting better.

His parents have now taken her baby, trying to tell her to be a mother again.

She just can't get over him, her one true love.

The love of her life, with out she is empty.

No one matters to her as bad as it sounds.

All she did was hold on to his dog tags...

She kept replying the thought of when they came to her door, when they handed them to her.

Since then she has not put them down, never once have they left her hand.

Her little boy tried to grab them, not knowing what they were he just wanted his mommy to play again.

She actually slapped her toddler because of it.

That was the night she cried the most.

She couldn't move on, she couldn't accept anything that had happened

He had just called her on the phone 2 weeks ago.

Just to hear her voice, and the voice of his son he had never seen.

That's when she decided, she needs to get better

She grabbed her son and together they held on to his dog tags...

It has been a year, she is not happy in the least bit.

Taking things day by day, trying to live again.

By day she is a mom, by night she cries.

Doing nothing but...

Holding on to his dog tags...

what do you guys think? is it any good?

I'm not going to ask the typical question am i pregnant i'm not stupid y'all can't answer that but my question is:

my boyfriend and i were messing around last night and he stuck it in my a little, he didn't *** inside me nor anywhere around my Vag, but it was in me so it scares me to know that there is a possibility of pregnancy, i know that I'm not stupid i know my boyfriend and i are obviously dumb for letting things get that far unprotected. Anywho, i am suppose to start my period this week, i just wanna know how long i have to wait to take a pregnancy test since i am starting suppose to be starting my period, and is it a good idea to take one after my period if i get it this week? also how big of a possibility do i have of getting pregnant?

please and thank you, my boyfriend and i are really freaking as we should, i know what most of you all are thinking if we are stupid enough to use no protection then we are stupid enough to deal with the repercussions

I'm not going to ask the typical question am i pregnant i'm not stupid y'all can't answer that but my question is:

my boyfriend and i were messing around last night and he stuck it in my a little, he didn't *** inside me nor anywhere around my Vag, but it was in me so it scares me to know that there is a possibility of pregnancy, i know that I'm not stupid i know my boyfriend and i are obviously dumb for letting things get that far unprotected. Anywho, i am suppose to start my period this week, i just wanna know how long i have to wait to take a pregnancy test since i am starting suppose to be starting my period, and is it a good idea to take one after my period if i get it this week? also how big of a possibility do i have of getting pregnant?

please and thank you, my boyfriend and i are really freaking as we should, i know what most of you all are thinking if we are stupid enough to use no protection then we are stupid enough to deal with the repercussions.

ok so i wanna say something to my boyfriend's siter, i know its none of my business but it really irrtates me.

she has two kids and she is 20 years old she doesn't allow her first child's father to see the baby and she just another one by the same guy and she isn't going to tell him. she says that if he isn't going to help then why should she let him see the baby, but he did pay child support for a while tell SHE told him to stop! so he did and now she is like if he isn't going to pay for izzy then why should i let him know about edan? i just wanna tell her how stupid she is and that one day the babies are going to grow up calling some other guy daddy and when they do find out what happened they will hate her! i can't wait for this day i just wanna tell her how dumb. i am going to ask her to let my baby sit and i want to call the babies' daddy and to let him see them! i just hate how she has a good man that wants to be there for his kids but she is to damn stupid to see it!! i understand she doesn't want to be with him but seriously i have no prob. taking the kids to see him! she i just stay out it and watch everything play or say something??

ok so last night was the first night i have seen my boyfriend since we started dating, i have known him the whole school year, then he graduated so i thought that if i told him i liked him and he didn't feel the same it would be cool we would never see each other again, well he ended up liking me back. Anyways i went to his house last night and we started to make out and then he gave me like 3 huge hickeys well when i got home my dad saw two of them and tripped. My dad started yelling at me that the first time that he lets me go out with a guy i come home like that, well the took my phone away and stuff but they told me that i couldn't see him again i just wanna show my parents that i care about my boyfriend a lot and i don't want them to take him away from me, what should i do??

Ok so yesterday i left class 10 minutes before the bell, because we had a sub and i had to go to the restroom well me teacher came in the class and wrote everyone up that left(a lot of people left!) anyways i felt bad and told my parents what i did and that i prolly got a write up or whatever. so now my dad is pissed at me!

I never get in trouble! meaning i have never once skipped class, never been written up so i don't understand what the big deal is. i think he should be proud that i came in told him before the school called telling him that i had a 3 hour detention or I.S.S or whatever they give your for write ups.

i just feel like my dad has high standards for me and that i never seem to reach them in his eyes and i don't understand why he is so mad at what i did, if i have never gotten in trouble before. i just don't see the big deal it was a whole ten minutes before class and the thing is it was after lunch and i did all my work before i left. so i don't see the big deal.

ok so me and my little brother found our christmas presents this year and we peeked just a little i swear!! but last night my parents were raping presents and they brought some out to put under the tree well they were joking and they were like this is it and my little brother went no i know there is more, well then he confessed that me and him found the presents....and so my dad said he is taking away all our presents and taking them back to the store...i don't really care a bout the presents anymore i just didn't mean to hurt them like i didn't realize that seeing me and my brother get what we want on christmas make them so happy....so what can i do to try and fix this christmass...

ok so i know its last minute and all but i couldn't afford a costume this year so i had to find something of my clothes to wear. so i decided to be a school girl, like i have the skirt, and the shirt but i don't know what else i need to go along with the costume, if you could tell me what else i need PLEASE!!!!

Ok so i need a Job.

End of story

I'm 15 and i have a car already

and I'm about to have my own Insurance policy put on it so my dad is making me pay the payments on the insurance.

and yeah well i just wanted to know if i could get a job ANYWHERE

seriously i need money!

so if you have any suggestions i would like that!!!