cutiekellymarie

the bride and groom, and a good portion of the guests will be tattooed, spiked, dyed, and pierced (of the punk, skin, gothabilly and goth persuasions). the guests will mostly be friends of the bride and groom - very few family members will be invited, so no worries about offending the older set. i am looking for ideas that aren't too cheesy, trite, or obvious (e.g., no sailor jerry or overtly halloween themes).

the basic concept that we have, so far, is "rich kid's birthday party." we were thinking giant inflatable bouncy thing, kiddie foods, and a live band... we aren't even sure about a venue (it won't be a church and we'd like to avoid banquet halls/hotels due to the *yawn* factor - and we would prefer to have the ceremony and reception site be the same)... some ideas we had were our favorite dive bar and a bowling alley.

any suggestions on how to make this unique/personalized and fun?

specifics such as invitations, cake, foods, and favors would definitely be appreciated!