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last night,my ex b/f called me and told me he was calling to "see how I was doing" and make sure I'm okay" I ended the relationship 7 months ago and now he wants to "SEE how i'm doing? seriously?if he didn't care how i was for 7 months how can he possibly care now? thoughts needed?

I was friends with a guy for a year.At one point we seem to become really close and got along great.one day he expressed a romantic interest in me and i did not want anything more than friendship and thats when we started having an on again off again friendship.he vanishes for weeks even months at a time.when he returns he says he "misses" me and wants to works things out but then shortly after he will vanish again.Its almost like a sick game hes playing and im really fed up with it.i tried ignoring him but he,ll still call back at some point.im not sure what his deal is,i mean is he angry because i dont wanna date him so he pops in and out to get back at me or what? what do you guys make of this? any thoughts appreciated!

the volume on my computer doesnt work to well it isnt loud enough or loud as it should go.if i plug in head phones i can hardly hear the sounds.what could be the prob? any ideas appreciated!

this guy gave my friend his number for me because she told him about me and now she says he wants to meet me.i dont know him so i dont feel comfortable calling him so im wondering should i give my friend my number for him instead?? she said he was kinda shy but im too my self so i think its better if he does the calling,besides we dont know eachother yet so i think its gonna be kinda arkward anyway.any thoughts?

i emailed this guy that my mom works with,she thinks hes a nice guy and that we should meet.i emailed him a week back but i never got a response so i wasnt sure what to think but yesterday my mom saw him and she says he told her he never received the email and then he gave her a note with his number.do you guys think hes telling the truth about the email? and what should i do at this point?

i,ve been emailing my friends but their not getting it.is this weird?? what can be the problem?

i had this male friend we use to talk alot but after a while we started having arguements and disagreements all the time so finally we stopped talking oneday.many months went by then outta the blue he calls me wanting to talk.i dont get this,i mean if we were out of touch for so long why would he even bother calling me? i thought we both had moved on. any thoughts?

ever since i can remember my mom has tried to play match maker with me and others also.recently she told me about a guy she works with ,she says hes a good looking nice guy and that she told him about me.she asked him for his email and then she gave it to me and told me i should email him.for some reason i didnt feel i should so i havent used it and its been a week but whenever i speak to my mom she keeps hassling me about it. i dont know why she s so set on me emailing this guy but its kinda getting on my nerves.do you guys think i should just email him ?? and if i did what would i even say being that we,re strangers ? any opinion on this appreciated thanks!

why do guys say their your friend or agree on a friendship but then turn around and hit on you??

if the thought of a certain person makes you angry and upset,does that mean you hate them?

i have this male friend,we,ve always been friends.a while back he approached me about dating but i let him know i wasnt looking for a b/f just friendship and he said he was fine with that,but yet i hardly hear from him.if i hear from him once a month thats a alot.i wonder why he even bothers to call me at all? i mean wouldnt it be better to just end all contact completly? what do you guys think i need your thoughts?

i have a crush on this guy i think hes really nice. a friend of his gave me his email address but im not sure what do write in the email,i wanna make it short and friendly so what should i write to him?? any ideas thanks?

why are guys so persistent,that when they know you dont like them they will keep trying,flirting and hitting on you too? wouldnt it be wiser for them to direct their attention to someone who will like them the same way? why do guy do this??

i have this guy friend hes very immature so alot of the time when we speak he plays around alot ormakes dumb jokes and sometimes he makes me angry but im still able to talk it out with him,but when i joke around or say things that i guess offends him he get mad or a bit bent outta shape about it and then has to take breaks from talking to me.is he sensitive or just very immature?

i was friends with a guy but now i wrote off the friendship since i felt he wasnt doing his part.every now and then we talk only because im bored and each time we tlak we get into some little quarrel(prob)just looking at him makes me upset and angry so i no longer want to see his face. does this mean i hate him?

i have this male friend, a few nights ago we had a small conflict nothing major but i think he got upset and a little mad with me.all i did was call him a creep because he was acting really foolish at the moment and i got annoyed with him.he told me he would call me later but he never did and now its been a few days.i dont understand why hes angry because we,ve had probs before which i called him worse and he wasnt too mad so whats with him now? what do you guys think?

i have a male friend,we dont speak often basically because he contacts me once in a while,and i dont think thats being a friend.we discussed it and he did better for a while but then he slacked off so now i dont care any more i just look at him as a nonchalant kinda friend.a while back he approached me about dating but i only see him as a friend and thats what we,ve always been.alot of people say maybe thats the reason i hear from him so rarely.do you guys agree that this could be the reason?

why do guys say their your friends and then turn around and hit on you?