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So my husband and I were married when I was 17 and he was 19. We basically grew up together. After 21 years..we divorced. There was a lack of love I guess. I don't think in hindsight either of us wanted the divorce. Now it has been 18 months, I have had 2 serious relationships...(I'm in one now with an awesome guy) and he has had one serious relationship I know of. It seems when I am at my happiest he comes out of the woodwork saying the most beautiful things to me. I don't know if it's jealousy or he truly wants me back. I'm so confused. Anyone have any info on any remarriage statistics to the same person? Thanks!

If you are in love with a woman why do some guys prefer oral rather than regular sex? Thanks. I always thought sex was nice because it's the two people together but this one guy says he would prefer oral to anything.

in a relationship with a guy that definitely belongs in sex anonymous (carries a SA chip in his pocket) and has some really far out there ideas of sex and has asked you to participate in some of these & you did only to feel very uncomfortable only because you love him?

I only know the chorus and it says...."Everybody hold your hands up & say I don't wanna be alone".

Help?

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OK, so we dated for 9 months. Not to sound conceded but I was the best thing that ever happened to him. Before me he had to pay girls for sex. I'm the one who said lets try the non exclusive thing & the next day he went out & got a BJ....saying he didn't think it would hurt me, it was just physical, not emotional. We have broke up so many times & got back together. But today he sent me his last TM, then had all TMs blocked. I'm so confused & hurt by his actions. At first he said he wanted to remain friends, but then this. Is this him just being immature or what? I know he still loves me. I am so confused. Please help. We were each others life for 9 months and he said he didn't want the $3000 engagement ring back.

Am I the only woman to be in a 3 way with 2 guys? My booyfriend told me it should be a fantasy for all women.

So we were in a 9 month relationship. I did everything for this guy. He was too dependent & clingy so I told him maybe we should go "non-exclusive" so his expectations wouldn't be so high, but that I didn't wanna date anyone else. I just couldn't take the every 5 minutes phone calls. The next days he goes & finds a woman to blow him. WTF? I was the best thing he EVER had or will ever have again. Why do men have to be so stupid?

By the way, by no means is this guy a catch, he used to have to pay chicks to blow him. I am tall, skinny, 10 years younger & pretty good looking so I have been told. His answer was he didn't think what it would do to me, he didn't realize it would hurt me.

So we were married for 21 years and were recently divorced. We still love each other & have both had relationships with another thru the divorce. We have decided to start dating & take things very slow. Somehow I always manage to screw things up. Any words of advice to "catch" him again.

So, my ex husband and I were married for 21 years. We filed for divorce 8 months ago and it's final now. I met a guy about the same time and fell hard for him. The problem is he is too controlling and freaks if I don't call him every hour. Now I feel like I'm having feelings for the ex and we have decided to start dating. I broke up with the other guy, but it hurts so bad. Who do I love? I am so confused. I'm scared I want back with the ex just cause of him being familiar. I always wanted my life to be with him. But I feel like I love this other guy & all we do is have problems. Any suggestions? Thanks.