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I need advice to mend trust issues.?
A guy that I had a relationship for three years and have known for 7 years ended it with me. One moment we were talking about marriage after grad school (We are 22) and the next he says that he is in love with a 17 year old beautiful Asian gamer he met online. (They have never video chatted, they haven't exchange phone numbers, and they aren't even facebook friends). But he says he loves her and wants to move to be with her. I don't know what to do.
For awhile, I was angry and wanted to move on because he hurt me and after being in love with me for seven years gave up and moved on in less than a month. But recently, we talked and he confessed he still loved me but the real reason he moved on was because he was tired of letting me down and feeling like a jerk to me when he knows I dont deserve it. He loves me but he wants to give up because he didn't think he was good enough. I had deaths in the family and he wasn't supportive, he pressured me on a daily basis for sexual favors and would grow short temptered over everything. We fought of course over those things but I told him these were things we needed to work on, that we were going through a hard time. He felt threatened that he could lose me to any guy who treated me well even though he knew I would not leave him. He said it wasn't anything I did but he felt like he couldn't trust me and always felt he wasn't good enough.
I love him. He has his mental issues but for the past seven years I have been there. I was there during deaths in his family, through his depression, his suicide attempts in high school, and even when he was obsessive towards me in the beginning. We were always best friends.
How do I fix this? I understand he doesn't want to hurt me anymore and he doesnt want to feel like a jerk. How do I show him that we can fix our friendship?
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My friend who i have known for four years lied to me about having a girlfriend. In the past people have thought he had a thing for me and he admitted that he did at one time. He has always confided in me alot of personal things and we have been good friends. Back in November, 20 minutes after i had seen him at a function, he put on fb " I wish i could tell her that I love her" and i asked him who the girl was. He was telling me that he was dating a girl and wanted to tell her how he felt. I told him to go for it and asked what she was like.
He said what he usually says annoyingly about every girlfriend of his, she is like me. Since then he talks about how they are soulmates and will get married but he doesnt say anything about her or what she is up to, just that she is in love with him and they will get married and want me to be the godmother. Although, I have never met her, he keeps saying that we should meet. Besides the girlfriend he is always saying that i dont know him well enough and that we need to spend more time together which annoyed me because all we talk about is him and what makes him happy or what is bothering him.
Over Christmas break, he told me that he took his girlfriend home to his hometown and that his family loved her and so on. His stories never seemed realistic but i never questioned it because he seemed happy. Today i was talking to his sister who i havent talked to in a while, and i asked her what it was like to meet his girlfriend and how the christmas break went. She said that he didnt have a girlfriend and he hasnt had one in a while. She was confused when i mentioned Christmas break. I confronted him and all he said was that he was mad that i asked his sister and that his friends are separate from his family. Also that if i wanted to know something i should ask him which is not relevent to our agrument.
What I am trying to figure out is why is he lying? Is it bc he wants me to think he could get a girl? Did he think i have an interest in him and try to get me to back off?(so not interested by the way) Was he trying to get me jealous?
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