vancontour98

trying to find my mom's obituary and not getting anything but sites that want me to pay $$$$

My husband and I just got married this past August. So, not even two months has gone by. We fight every day. About everything, mostly about the children. He has one daughter from a previous marriage and I have a daughter and a son from a previous marriage. Our daughters are the same age (12) and my son will be 16. I am wondering if we should have even gotten married. We both have short fuses and we both have said mean things to each other. Some days are great and we don't fight but then there are days when he says something and it upsets me. I want to talk about it later and he says that he doesn't want to stay up all night fighting he just wants sleep. I say I wasn't fighting I just wanted to talk to share my feelings and explain why I am upset at what you said. Sometimes he really hurts my feelings and seems like he doesn't know he hurt my feelings or just doesn't care. When I say something to him he doesn't like he gets really catty and will say something mean to hurt my feelings. I can be very very stubborn at times and not talk to him for hours. Can this be saved or should we just cut our losses and go seperate ways? I do love him and he says he loves me. I am just so sick of fighting all the time and him telling me its always my fault. He makes me feel like I should go see a counselor. I haven't felt good about myself lately. Any advice?