May

I am falling for my friend's boyfriend. I have known this girl almost all my life! Her and her boyfriend have never had a 'great' relationship. Which they recently came to talk about recently.

He had always flirted but I never thought anything of it b/c it was pretty innocent and we're both flirts by nature. In the recent months we've hung out and really gotten to know eachother. I never thought of him 'like that' until this last month. Its not something that I meant to happen. I think about him quite often and I know he thinks about me. If he were to leave her would it ever be acceptable for him and I to date?

But, after dating for a few months they begin to change and you become less important. In the beginning he missed you if you didn't see eachother for a day and told you he missed you. I don't doubt my b/friend loves me we're both 25 and I don't think we'd be in the relationship if we didn't want to be together. Yet, he has changed and time with me has become less important. Why do guys do this?

She doesn't really cross the line into heavy flirting. But, she has told other people in our group of friends that she is attracted to my boyfriend. These people are more my boyfriends friends than my own and I don't know them very well. But, I would like to feel comfortable hanging out with them b/c they r his friends. It upsets him that I let it bother me so much. I do trust my boy/f and he does not respond to her in a flirty way.