Hope

Sorry I had to ask, I saw it in a question asking if a lesbian would consider dating a bi-woman, in someone's answer. Anybody know what that is, or was it something made up.

A friend and I were chatting on the phone and she told me her mate wanted to have a threesome (not with me) and she wasnt sure about it, (her mate is a man) after we talked, I was aroused, not by her but the idea, I have been in a situation where a few of us (girls) got together and had a good time, but now that I am in a relatinoship, I don't think I should feel this way, however I want to go somewhere far where no one knows me and find a swingers club and go into the VIP section (we all know what that is) and loose my mind. I love my partner and would never cheat on her, but why dose this fantisy stick in my head? W hy am I aroused by this, I almost feel like it's a need, and dont get me wrong the home front is good, real good, HOTT!!! Yet I find my self thinking of this a lot. Has any woman in a relationship had this happen, and if so how did you stop your mind from wondering?

I love my cousin to no end, but the girl is wacky. She feels that she is only safe in white neighbirhoods, when we have outings, she will ask something stupid like, "are the gang bangers having a shoot out today? like they post it on a calander. She is scared to leave her car parked in front of the house, because someone might steal it. I live in a Very nice neighborhood, maybe 25% black 45% white and 30% hispanic, and in case your wondering, I'm not predigous, our grandmother is of White/Jewish desent. My cousin is so against blacks that she decided her child would only have a chance if he/she was half white and went to a sperm bank, and there is nothing wrong with a bi-racial child, a lot of people are a product of this anyhow, but she needs to know that she is infact black, no matter how proper and how far away she moves. I try not to get into it with her, but how long am I supposed to sit at a family function, in my home mind you, and listen to her bash her own kind? Help

Mine was at a friends home years ago. We were cooking dinner for a girls night out, had too much wine. (we had spoke of this in the past but never acted on it) and was waiting for some friends to show. I spilt my wine all over myself and went to shower, she came in to bring me a towel and just got in and started kisssing me and well, one thing lead to another and we wound up in the kitchen on the floor and when the first girl got there we tried to act normal, at least I did but she told and when I walked into the living room they were both naked and I got naked and we all had somemore wine and talked and laughed and gave each other rub downs, and by the time everyone (7 total) everyone had their dresses off and was having a GOOD time. We never spoke of that night again, oh but how I wish I could do it again.

Girls only, this is not a question for rude, hateful remarks...some people would like to know but dont have the courage to ask.