MiaROSE

I Married 2 years ago. We lived apart 1 year to complete my MBA. I moved to his home & lived there 4 months. I left in the middle of the night while he was sleeping after a fight, that was 6 months ago. We want to reconcile. I am 900 miles away. We talk daily/visited 3 times.

After I moved with him he did not talk to me-I'd get the silent treatment for days. When we would speak he'd scream or lecture about religion or how he hates Americans. We NEVER went anywhere. He wouldn't eat meals with me. He has a daughter and would allow his ex-wife to call, send food, or come over when she wanted, Her feelings were put above mine ALWAYS. I loved the daughter, enjoyed her visits & treated her well but didn't want her mom so involved, she was 17-not a toddler.I have two children, he was good to them until we moved then he acted like they were unwanted/in the way.

He had female friends he texted, called, emailed & met one for coffee. He'd watch porn, use adult chat sites and fling.com. He became angry & hit me two times. I also found out about many things he wasn't truthful about.

I didn't trust him because of the women/lies, I cried a lot & had a hard time letting go of things because We married based on religion-we're both Muslim. He was perfect until I moved to his home. It was a fairy tale turned nightmare. I love this man and don't take marriage lightly. I want things to work, what can I do?

I'm American and he's Arab-has lived here 22 years. Both in early forties & divorced.