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First off, I came out to my parents when I was 14, but the reaction was less than stellar (mother laughing, father drinking all night after slamming the door so hard the hinges actually busted). This obviously led me to make excuses and just say I was joking and out of desperation, they bought it and never said anything of it. I figured that by the time I was in college, I'd meet someone and come out that way.

*Flash forward to 18 and me in college* I never found myself any companions or special companions and since my college offers limited housing (and you have to be at least a second year student), I still live with my parents. Last night, my father went rummaging through my drawers (he does this quite often, but hadn't done so lately) and he found a toy that I had for about a month. This toy is a really big replica of a white guy member, so I obviously had to come out for real this time. I basically said "Look, I might be bisexual; I think blond girls are cute, but I really like blond guys too. I like boys a little bit more" and my dad slapped me straight across the face and said "No, you're not. Shut up!" My mother also wasn't happy because my dad's gay brother has provided her with a negative image of gay people; he's greedy and left his partner of 20 years for a married man with 3 kids, so she thinks gay guys can be very evil. Did I handle the situation poorly by suggesting that I might be bisexual when I know I'm 100% gay? I'm really quite embarrassed over how it happened and I since I've never dated anyone, I thought that might be the best thing to say right now. The only people I know that will accept me are ironically my very religious grandmother and my pastor great uncle; they both love everyone (the latter even hired a cute effeminate guy to his staff that I liked for awhile).

Thanks for taking the time to read this and respond/offer any opinions.

somewhere near the middle, or the bottom?

I'm just a little curious to see as to how popular (or unpopular) the Zelda franchise is; Link was apparently named the hottest video game character by LGBT people, so again, just curiosity xD

If you recognize the blue creature in my avatar, you get unlimited rupees =D

I'm just curious as to what I should expect today =p

would you turn around and let me have at it?

I'm not exactly sure where to ask this =x

I've been having a bit of trouble keeping my boxers in place; they constantly bunch up (so I have to adjust my shorts and whatnot). I'm not sure if it's the boxers themselves or the fact that I always wear shorts (I never wear anything tight/fitting like jeans).

Would any other undie type actually stay in place? I'm a bit embarrassed if I feel my boxers aren't exactly at the level I want them to be (and the drug dealer jokes aren't fun). Thanks for any help.

I've been chatting with a guy who's 34 (just about double my age); I normally don't find guys that old attractive, but he's got a bit of a nerdy white guy look (John Krasinski-esque). We've been chatting for about 4 months and he seems to love brown-skinned Mexicans in the same way that I love white guys. xD I've had plenty of trouble finding a white guy that actually likes Mexicans (a lot of the la boys seem to just like other white guys), so I want to actually have fun with this older guy since he's white and cute.

He's casually expressed interest in having fun, but I just think something would have happened by now. My skin color and naughty bits have received quite a few compliments from him, but nothing ever happens. I think it's because I'm not exactly his favorite body type; he loves skinny Mexican twinks (I'm far from that)

Why do you think he doesn't want to have fun?

I've had an inkling that maybe my sister was gay, but after seeing some pictures on her computer, I really think she's gay now. Here's the little story: My sister wanted to make a separate account on her PC because everyone uses it (it's in the living room). I restarted the computer yesterday and found several pics of ladies in bikinis. =x She had several shots that seemed to be from the same girl (like a collection); I have a similar habit where I try to collect a bunch of pictures of white guys, but that's a story for another day. =p

Anyway, my dad once started a gigantic argument by saying he caught my sister checking out a girl; my mom was incredibly angry at him for saying such a thing. I'm gay myself and even came out when I was 14 (though it was out of anger, so it wasn't taken too seriously).

Do you think my sister is a lesbian? =x I know she checked out Vanessa Hudgens naked (it was in her search history) and she's 15 by the way. I don't exactly mind if she is, but it would certainly be interesting for my parents to have two gay kids.

Well here's mine xD

I bought a pair of briefs that don't have a back, so it's somewhat like a jockstrap (but there's absolutely no material in the back). I bought these secretly since I normally wear boxers; I have them hidden in a drawer.

Just to make this story brief, the accursed undies ended up in the hamper and I didn't notice for hours D= It was pure luck that I saw the Timoteo name D= It sure would have been quite a delight explaining why I owned underwear like that D=

Anything embarrassing (or nearly embarrassing) happen to you lately? =p

It doesn't seem very popular, so I thought I'd ask. I myself wouldn't mind sampling a white and fluffy cake xD

and I hope the meaning of "cake" is obvious D=

Forgive me xD

I've been watching the marathons on LifeTime and I'm a bit excited to see if I like any of the designers this season. I love Heidi and Nina, but I can do without Michael; he's just annoying xD

I would have to say Runway is the most embarrassing show I watch (aside from Gossip Girl).

I believe I've asked this in poll & surveys long ago, so I thought I'd try this section.

This is mine: http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5273/5912564234_e4b...

You can just describe it if you don't have a picture on call xD

I'm always happy with two pork tamales and a cup of champurrado =D

my YA! profile to another email address? I'm going to be canceling my AT&T services, which will make the email account I used to create the YA! profile invalid. Thanks for any help ^^

would there be a way to transfer all my emails to a different email address? Or would I have to forward them all myself to a new email address? Thanks for any help ^^

I'm looking for really fast and danceable Spanish music, like the salsa music from the movie El Cantante. Thanks for any help ^^

I told my mom and dad I was gay about six months ago. They weren't exactly believing it so I was able to convince them it was a joke (I'm pretty good at lying =)

Anyway, they've always tried to get me to notice girls. My mom always points out certain ones and my dad tries to get me to check them out with him (which I think is awkward). I've decided not to pretend anymore, so I'm ignoring their attempts to get me to notice girls and I sometimes I come off as a little rude when I do =/ Is it okay for me to ignore them or should I still pretend?

I upgrade to a 5MB connection? My current connection is like 1MB and I get speeds of 150KB/s =]

I'm really interested in computers and my dad told me that his IT people make pretty good money, but I'm not sure what they do exactly or what qualifications I would need to become one. Thanks for any help ^^

arty pictures of gay guys? ^^

Like this one: http://www.johncoulthart.com/feuilleton/wp-content...

Or perhaps you can recommend some of your favorites? =D