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And I mean like actually love someone.

How do YOU know?

I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half. I haven't had trust in my boyfriend for the last at least 6 months. Although things have been going well for the last few months, when I get to be alone and in deep thought I start to become very paranoid, upset, angry, etc. I can't help but to feel miserable at times. Is this normal?

Has someone ever lost your trust? How did you feel/deal with things like feelings? We're you ever paranoid or angry after that? Food they re gain your trust and if so how?

Thank you

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a 1.5 years. In July (he didn't cheat) but things happened that took away all my trust. Everything's been very good since then but I can't tell if I'm paranoid or stressing myself out running about what he could possibly be doing our what he has done.

I went to therapy a couple years back and I realized I always came up with the worst case scenario for every situation. I don't question my boyfriend or try to 'interrogate' him because I know how I do think of the worst case scenario. I do treat him very well as he does me.

Have you lost all trust in someone before? What were you like when you lost trust? Did they ever re gain your trust? How is my boyfriend supposed to gain my trust back? How does one gain another's trust back?

I know every relationship is different, I'm definitely not always paranoid, Im usually fine. But it does happen where I get like this when I start to think a lot when I'm alone. I can't deal! Please Help!

I see this question all the time online but I wanted to ask myself.

My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and 3 months. Yes we've had sex. I'm 17 he's 19. (And no my parents will not put him in jail if we keep having sex)

There is absolutely no way in hell I will ever have a threesome with him and someone else. Especially another girl. I've told him that and he knows that.

I am well aware that that is most guys fantasy. But there is absolutely NO changing my mind. He rarely brings it up anymore but it was brought it up last Tuesday and then again on Saturday. He knows how much it bothers me too.

HOW DO I GET HIM TO STOP BRINGING IT UP?

And don't give rude answers. There will be a commenting war (:<

Lol but seriously. Any ideas?

My boyfriend told me that last night and I know it's about C.um but is it anything specific? Like more white than clear, the ways it comes out, or a bunch vs a little?

Lol I know it's a little too much for some people but I'm so slow -_- smh

Help without being rude!

What is the PPM of 292g in 1000g of water?

Help!

What are some reasons for writing well in College?

(I'm a Junior in High School)

I'm writing an essay on this topic, i already have a couple reasons but i need a few more.

Any ideas?

Thank you!

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My Boyfriend's homegirl's boyfriend asked my boyfriend if he ever did her. My boyfriend said no, then the guy said "You sure? You haven't hit those?" He said no she's just my homegirl

What is "Those" referring to ? Lol im guessing its either her *** or boobs.

But will someone let me know ? Aha

Thankyou

I've been going through a lot lately and in some way I've been feeling helpless

I just wanted to get it out somewhere so I just posted "Hate that ****** feeling of helplessness."

I was on the phone with my boyfriend and he was online too and everything is fine between us, nothing is wrong. I was going to sleep so we got of the phone, he called me baby, said I love you and goodnight.

I'm pretty sure he saw my post

A whiile later he posted

"Dont feel that way when u can go on with a movement"

What does that mean? I don't understand

But he did tell me around that time "baby talk to me anytime k"

And stuff like that

What do you think what he said means?

Okay, YES I KNOW WHAT HAPPENS IN A THREESOME. Lol !

But my REAL question is, what happens in a threesome if you and you're boyfriend have one with another girl?

Is that a good idea? Why or why not?

What are the risks? (I'm not talking about pregnancy, std's or my thing like that I'm talking about like losing my boyfriend etc.)

Would it / should it / CAN IT,

Him touching only me and me touching the other girl and him?

What if I end up not wanting him to touch or do anything to or wit the other girl?

And what happens if I tell him I don't want him to and he does?

Sorry I know there's a lot of questions and concerns, but If I ever did end up saying yes to him about his little fantasy -___- I just won't to make sure I don't make a mistake.

Please give all the advice you can! Thanks! (:

He's talked to me about it a lot. I've told him before I don't like it and he understands and knows I don't.

Just yesterday he said something basically like,

What if I was doing you and you were eating your friend out.

(He doesn't know what my friends look like so it wouldn't be because he wants to do anything with them. I'm pretty sure.)

I just asked him why and I can't remember what he said but he said don't think about it because I know you're gonna start thinking about it

What makes him want to have a threesome? Don't just tell me guys like it, but why do you like it? Because he wants to see someone else naked too? He wants to watch her or ear her? Whatever you have to say

But don't get all "Stop getting mad" or "Don't be such a .." whatever you have to say. Cause I'm not getting mad I'm just curious.

And if you wanna be an a.sshole then expect to be coming back on and looking at additional comments because I will be writing your ******** a.ss back . ( :

Buuuuttttt to the people who ACTUALLY give me advice, or ANSWER my questions, etc thank youu! ( :

My boyfriend talked about how he was 'watching 2 lesbians on his phone go at it'

I obviously have a really good idea of what it means, i know.

But i've never watched lesbain porn and im not really interested in seeing what was happening,

but when he was watching it (and this is for people who have seen it) what was going on? What'd he see?

I'm not trippin off im watching it cause every guy does. I was just wondering what he saw

My boyfriend talked about how he was 'watching 2 lesbians on his phone go at it'

I obviously have a really good idea of what it means, i know.

But i've never watched lesbain porn and im not really interested in seeing what was happening,

but when he was watching it (and this is for people who have seen it) what was going on? What'd he see?

I'm not trippin off im watching it cause every guy does. I was just wondering what he saw

My bad for putting it in this category but i know guys will see it lol

My boyfriend talked about how he was 'watching 2 lesbians on his phone go at it'

I obviously have a really good idea of what it means, i know.

But i've never watched lesbain porn and im not really interested in seeing what was happening,

but when he was watching it (and this is for people who have seen it) what was going on? What'd he see?

I'm not trippin off im watching it cause every guy does. I was just wondering what he saw

+ My bad i didn't know what category to put it in to lol

My boyfriend talked about how he was 'watching 2 lesbians on his phone go at it'

I obviously have a really good idea of what it means, i know.

But i've never watched lesbain porn and im not really interested in seeing what was happening,

but when he was watching it (and this is for people who have seen it) what was going on? What'd he see?

I'm not trippin off im watching it cause every guy does. I was just wondering what he saw

I was in a mentally abusive relationship for about 4 months.

March-July

I'm not going to put details or examples because it would take too long and i'm trying my best to forget everything he did to me. The last i talked to him was a little over a month ago. He texted me twice since the last time we talked

But i already go to therapy (I've gone for about 3 years now)

I don't hate anyone in this world, But him. I have so much anger towards him i just break down every time i think about him. I feel so vulnerable like even if i had the chance to beat his ***, i couldn't.

Why do i feel this way? I CAN'T Get over it, and i hate him SO much but at the same time i don't want to do anything about it?

I want my revenge in a way but i know that's not the way to go.

Remember it was not verbally abusive, and it was not physically abusive.

It was Only mentally/emotionally abusive.

Please be as sensitive as you can, because this is the only thing in my life i haven't been able to get over.

I usually get over relationships in a few weeks, but this one was different.

We never had sex just so you know.

When he slept over he woulddd sleep in my bed and we really had a good relationship for a few weeks but after that is when it got abusive.

Please give me any of your opinions or tips on what to do or how to get over it.

It's put a huge 'Damper' on my life, it's like a huge Rain cloud over me or weight on my chest.

I don't know what to do.

Should i talk to him or not? If i do, i don't want to look weak. And i don't want to just talk to him and then come out with all of this stuff, i feel like i'll look dumb.

Please help in any way you can. /:

Thanks