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  • Am I a slut for .... ?

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for 11months. ( We're 17 ) We were at the mall with a few of our other friends , and the whole time we were there , random guys were just making comments as in , idk , Sexual comments , or noises or breathers ( to both me & the 2 other girls there ) . So a different guy walked by and said a comment , and I was standing by my boyfriend this time , & I said " That can get REALLY annoying ". He said " Well what the hell do you expect when you dress like that " . We live in LA , so obviously the weather is continuously hot . My friends and I all wear the same types of outfits / dress the same. He has always complemented me before on whatever I had on . His comment Really upset me and I cant get it off of my mind, he's always been a phenomenal boyfriend , hes smart , funny & EXTREMELY cute. I don't know if I should talk to him about the situation , because I really don't wanna loose him over something ridiculous. My closest friends are horrible at giving advice so I came here.... What should I do ?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Should I give him a chance ?

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year now. ( We're 17 ) But our relationship hasn't been the same as it used to be . I'm Italian & he's Caucasian so our families have never , EVER gotten along. It seems like all we've been doing to each other lately is just hurting each other lately with stupid , stupid , stupid stuff. We both mutually agreed that we don't think the relationship is going to work out anymore , but we did not officially break up with each other. I still love him more than anything but it's just ... Not ment to be ? Idk. ANYWAYS , there's this other guy , he's extremely extremely caring & considerate. His looks are to die for . We talk almost everyday , & he's pretty much made it obvious that he want's to be in a relationship with me .He's adorable & we get along really well. I don't want to just break up with my boyfriend & go straight to this guy , but I do want to give this other guy a chance. I'm just not sure , how , or if I should try & work things out with my boyfriend , or if I should or not ...

    Any Advice ?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Sex Buddies ....... ?

    My " friend " and I have been doing what we're doing for a little while now . ( We're 17 ). We pretty much just have sex wherever or whenever. But lately it just hasn't been the same. He is one of the closest guy friends of mine , I can talk to him about anything, & he is EXTREMELY EXTREMELY cute . He buys me little chocolates and flowers like we're in a relationship , but we've made it clear that were not , so I thought he just did it for more sex . Whenever its just me & him he calls me his girlfriend , or just says little stuff like that . He's been telling me a lot lately , " You know we should stop doing this , I really care about you more than just in a sexual way " " Can we just stop the whole sex thing , and try to be real boyfriend and girlfriends".After we would have sex or whatever he always holds me & whispers in my ear " I know we said we wouldn't but can we please try a real relationship ect. ect. ect. " I never give him a straight forward answer , and I just change the subject. & Once again when we were .. done an " I love you " slipped out , but I just kissed him to play it off. All of my close friends are telling me to give it a shot , but it's a real risk for me to try to get into a real relationship. I really care about him , and like i said his looks are to die for , but i'm really unsure about how I feel. What do you think I should I do ?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Sex Buddies ....... ?

    My " friend " and I have been doing what we're doing for a little while now . ( We're 17 ). We pretty much just have sex wherever or whenever. But lately it just hasn't been the same. He is one of the closest guy friends of mine , I can talk to him about anything, & he is EXTREMELY EXTREMELY cute . He buys me little chocolates and flowers like we're in a relationship , but we've made it clear that were not , so I thought he just did it for more sex . Whenever its just me & him he calls me his girlfriend , or just says little stuff like that . He's been telling me a lot lately , " You know we should stop doing this , I really care about you more than just in a sexual way " " Can we just stop the whole sex thing , and try to be real boyfriend and girlfriends".After we would have sex or whatever he always holds me & whispers in my ear " I know we said we wouldn't but can we please try a real relationship ect. ect. ect. " I never give him a straight forward answer , and I just change the subject. & Once again when we were .. done an " I love you " slipped out , but I just kissed him to play it off. All of my close friends are telling me to give it a shot , but it's a real risk for me to try to get into a real relationship. I really care about him , and like i said his looks are to die for , but i'm really unsure about how I feel. What do you think I should I do ?

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Sex Buddies ....... ?

    My " friend " and I have been doing what we're doing for a little while now . ( We're 17 ). We pretty much just have sex wherever or whenever. But lately it just hasn't been the same. He is one of the closest guy friends of mine , I can talk to him about anything, & he is EXTREMELY EXTREMELY cute . He buys me little chocolates and flowers like we're in a relationship , but we've made it clear that were not , so I thought he just did it for more sex . Whenever its just me & him he calls me his girlfriend , or just says little stuff like that . He's been telling me a lot lately , " You know we should stop doing this , I really care about you more than just in a sexual way " " Can we just stop the whole sex thing , and try to be real boyfriend and girlfriends".After we would have sex or whatever he always holds me & whispers in my ear " I know we said we wouldn't but can we please try a real relationship ect. ect. ect. " I never give him a straight forward answer , and I just change the subject. & Once again when we were .. done an " I love you " slipped out , but I just kissed him to play it off. All of my close friends are telling me to give it a shot , but it's a real risk for me to try to get into a real relationship. I really care about him , and like i said his looks are to die for , but i'm really unsure about how I feel. What do you think I should I do ?

    10 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Sex buddies ..... ? PLEASE HELP?

    My " friend " and I have been doing what we're doing for a little while now . ( We're 17 ). We pretty much just have sex wherever or whenever. But lately it just hasn't been the same. He is one of the closest guy friends of mine , I can talk to him about anything, & he is EXTREMELY EXTREMELY cute . He buys me little chocolates and flowers like we're in a relationship , but we've made it clear that were not , so I thought he just did it for more sex . Whenever its just me & him he calls me his girlfriend , or just says little stuff like that . He's been telling me a lot lately , " You know we should stop doing this , I really care about you more than just in a sexual way " " Can we just stop the whole sex thing , and try to be real boyfriend and girlfriends".After we would have sex or whatever he always holds me & whispers in my ear " I know we said we wouldn't but can we please try a real relationship ect. ect. ect. " I never give him a straight forward answer , and I just change the subject. & Once again when we were .. done an " I love you " slipped out , but I just kissed him to play it off. All of my close friends are telling me to give it a shot , but it's a real risk for me to try to get into a real relationship. I really care about him , and like i said his looks are to die for , but i'm really unsure about how I feel. What do you think I should I do ?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • My best friend was killed and ... ?

    To try and make it a very very very long story short I had 4 main best friends.

    My best friends and I have been friends sense 3rd grade. We did everything together , we had been to Florida together , we told each other everything , we had sleepovers almost everyday in the summer , & we did the craziest things together , we were inseparable. ( I'll just say their names to make it easier then saying my Best friend.) ( We're 17 now )

    Theres myself (Andrea) Olivia , Brooke , Jailene & Emily. There were 5 of us , but our closest friend Olivia murdered the Summer of freshman year , we are juniors.

    Our story was once on the Show " America's most Wanted " & the news . We all threw a party the summer of freshman year . It was a girls only party & we all had ALOT of fun. Olivia was the only one who brung alcohol to the party & things got a little out of hand. The rest of the girls left but Jailene , Olivia , Brooke , Emily & Myself stayed. We played a game called" Never have a Ever " . It's when someone says something they have never done & if the other people have done it they have to take a shot . So eventually we all passed out drunk . In the middle of the party it was partially crashed because of Olivia's brother , & his friends. I don't want to go into detail about what they did & said , but the way they were acting was very dangerous towards just Olivia . Her & her brother never got along , but the things he said that night were just .. Absurd.

    We woke up the next morning & we all drove each other home. The Party was at Olivias house so she stayed there. Her parents were on vacation in Hawaii and her brother was no where to be found after that night. Soo once we left her house( at 7ish) we all went home.

    At about noon I texted all of them to ask if they wanted to come to my house & swim. They all replied Cool yes blahblah. Everybody but Olivia replied. We texted her & called her several times but still no reply. We figured she just went back to sleep. Long story short she was missing for about a year until the police found her body.

    To "Climax" this whole story , we have all been really skeptical about weather we should tell the police about the interaction between her brother & his friends. It was so violent that he did pretty much everything than hit her . We were aware that they never had a great relationship but .. yeah. He's 19 now. The detectives & ect have not found the killer but they do have leads & we have sort of kept quiet about the whole thing , & we have all been debating about what we should do. Any advice.

    Please & thanks

    8 AnswersFriends10 years ago
  • Who sounds more trustworthy .....?

    To make it a long story short I had 3 main best friends. We had been close sense the 3rd grade , we were inseparable , we did everything together & we told each other everything. One of the 4 of us was murdered . She was murdered the summer of our freshman year.(We're 17 now) Our story was on America's most wanted & the News. My friend who passed had a brother, who is now 19. I never really said more than Hi to him. We were 13/14 yr. old girls who we just used to say he was creepy & I just thought he was extremely cute. ( Keep in mind we were like 13 ) Him & My brother were best friends & they .. weren't the best kids in the world so I just tried to stay away from him because he always had that " Bad Boy " type of mentality. We started to talk a lot more when she passed but I didn't think anything of it. So the other day my friend & I went to the mall & we had to be somewhere at a certain amount of time so we split up to get what we wanted. I saw my friend who passed away brother in there & we talk for about 20minutes & before the conversation is about to end he tells me how he's always had feelings for me & he has always in a way cared for me & he really really hopes I feel the same way , & how beautiful I look now that i'm more grown up. & then he leaned into kiss me & like the retard that I am I kissed him back , I just sort of walked away without even saying anything afterwards , & I didn't tell him I was already seeing someone. I wouldn't feel so bad about it if I didn't already have a boyfriend of 9 months , but I was thinking about ending it with him anyway because I think he cheated on my anyway with this girl when I was out of town , but if I explain that it'll be TOO much writing. . My friend saw me kiss my friend who passed brother & she's completely against it because she thinks hes doing it for some Crazy crazy crazy reason I don't wanna mention on here & she pretty much bashed me for it & i've just been getting attitude from her sense , but still it's my decision.

    Sense people are saying they don't understand what the question is , i'm just asking do you think I should give my friends brother a chance , OR try to work things out for my boyfriend ? Just your opinions.

    Please & Thanks.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Am I overreacting ... ?

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for 11 Months ( We're 17 ) . To make it a long story short , we've been having A LOT of problems with each other , but we finally started to work things our & we were back to the way things used to be. He can truly be a phenomenal boyfriend ( at times ) , he's extremely , extremely attractive , he's really considerate & caring & he's the Quarterback for our FB team , so he pretty much the whole package. ANYWAYS , It was our first football game of the season yesterday , my car got destroyed in this accident , so I knew I was going to be " carless " for a few weeks. I have many friends that were willing to give me a ride back home , & some of my closest friends were having a little girls in sleepover thing anyway that we always have , but I said no because he begged me to come with him back to his place , I really didn't care we live right across the the street from each other & . ( His parents are always out of town ). After the game is done he went to go talk to his team & I went to change out of my cheer uniform , he told me where to meet him at so eventually I went there .. & waited for about 45 minutes.( Don't ask me why I waited that long) I'm calling & calling him I knew his phone wouldn't of been dead. I saw all of my other friends leave with their boyfriends so i'm just kind of confused.

    I'm trying not to type that much , & I may be leaving out some detail but to wrap it up , one of his closest friends was extremely nice & took me home. About 2 ******* hours later my 'boyfriend' comes to my house ( Just my sister & I were home) , completely wasted , saying all this crazy disgusting **** , apologizing , and I just sort of stand there lost & confused. I was just ecstatic that we were finally on great boyfriend & girlfriend terms & then he pulls random bullshit like this. I would

    I really REALLY don't wanna loose him as a boyfriend , but I've been in high school for 3 years , I don't do Alcohol , never have , & I really don't plan on it. People I don't get along with say I only go out with him because he's just so popular , & a star at pretty much everything he does , which is completely untrue ... I can see wanting to have fun after a game , that we just won , & all the praise he gets I can see him wanting to celebrate because the school already treats him like hes God. I don't control his life , if he wanted to do this on his own time that would be fine , but it just really hurt me that he said " Oh I'll drive you blahblahblah , I wanna spend time with you " & then just leaves like I don't exist.

    Any advice at all on what I could ... Try to do ?

    Please & Thanks

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Am I overreacting... ?

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for 11 Months ( We're 17 ) . To make it a long story short , we've been having A LOT of problems with each other , but we finally started to work things our & we were back to the way things used to be. He can truly be a phenomenal boyfriend ( at times ) , he's extremely , extremely attractive , he's really considerate & caring & he's the Quarterback for our FB team , so he pretty much the whole package. ANYWAYS , It was our first football game today , my car got destroyed in this accident , so I knew I was going to be " careless " for a few weeks. I have many friends that I could of asked to give me a ride back home , & some of my closest friends were having a little girls in sleepover thing anyway , but I said no because he begged me to come with him back to his place , I really didn't care we live right across the the street from each other & . ( His parents are always out of town ). After the game is done he went to go talk to his team & I went to change out of my cheer uniform , he told me where to meet him at so eventually I went there .. & waited for about 45 minutes.( Don't ask me why I waited that long) I'm calling & calling him I knew his phone wouldn't of been dead. I saw all of my other friends leave with their boyfriends so i'm just kind of confused.

    I'm trying not to type that much , & I may be leaving out some detail but to wrap it up , one of his closest friends was extremely nice & took me home. About 2 ******* hours later my 'boyfriend' comes to my house ( Just my sister & I were home) , completely wasted , saying all this crazy disgusting **** , apologizing , and I just sort of stand there lost & confused. I was just ecstatic that we were finally on great boyfriend & girlfriend terms & then he pulls random bullshit like this .

    I really REALLY don't wanna loose him as a boyfriend , but I've been in high school for 3 years , I don't do Alcohol , never have , & I really don't plan on it.

    Any advice at all on what I could ... Try to do ?

    Please & Thanks

    11 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Should I give him a chance ?

    To make it a long story short I had 3 main best friends. We had been close sense the 3rd grade , we were inseparable , we did everything together & we told each other everything. One of the 4 of us was murdered . She was murdered the summer of our freshman year.(We're 17 now) Our story was on America's most wanted & the News. My friend who passed had a brother, who is now 19. I never really said more than Hi to him. We were 13/14 yr. old girls who we just used to say he was creepy & I just thought he was extremely cute. ( Keep in mind we were like 13 ) Him & My brother were best friends & they .. weren't the best kids in the world so I just tried to stay away from him because he always had that " Bad Boy " type of mentality , but he was still so nice to talk to & extremely extremely cute. We started to talk a lot more when she passed but I didn't think anything of it. So the other day my friend & I went to the mall & we had to be somewhere at a certain amount of time so we split up to get what we wanted. I saw my friend who passed away brother in there & we talk for about 20minutes & before the conversation is about to end he tells me how he's always had feelings for me & he has always in a way cared for me & he really really hopes I feel the same way , & how beautiful I look now that i'm more grown up. & then he leaned into kiss me & like the retard that I am I kissed him back , I just sort of walked away without even saying anything afterwards , & I didn't tell him I was already seeing someone. I wouldn't feel so bad about it if I didn't already have a boyfriend of 9 months , but I was thinking about ending it with him anyway because I think he cheated on my anyway with this girl when I was out of town , but if I explain that it'll be TOO much writing. . My friend saw me kiss my friend who passed brother & she's completely against it because she thinks hes doing it for some Crazy crazy crazy reason I don't wanna mention on here & she pretty much bashed me for it & i've just been getting attitude from her sense , but still it's my decision.

    I know that my friend who passed would be completely pissed if I go into a relationship with her brother , they never got along anyways but she would still just bash me for it , but she's gone & like I said it's still my decision.

    Sense people are saying they don't understand what the question is , i'm just asking do you think I should give my friends brother a chance , OR try to work things out for my boyfriend ? Just your opinions.

    Please & Thanks.

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Should I give him a chance .....?

    To make it a long story short I had 3 main best friends. We had been close sense the 3rd grade , we were inseparable , we did everything together & we told each other everything. One of the 4 of us was murdered . She was murdered the summer of our freshman year.(We're 17 now) Our story was on America's most wanted & the News. My friend who passed had a brother, who is now 19. I never really said more than Hi to him. We were 13/14 yr. old girls who we just used to say he was creepy & I just thought he was extremely cute. ( Keep in mind we were like 13 ) Him & My brother were best friends & they .. weren't the best kids in the world so I just tried to stay away from him because he always had that " Bad Boy " type of mentality , but he was still so nice to talk to & extremely extremely cute. We started to talk a lot more when she passed but I didn't think anything of it. So the other day my friend & I went to the mall & we had to be somewhere at a certain amount of time so we split up to get what we wanted. I saw my friend who passed away brother in there & we talk for about 20minutes & before the conversation is about to end he tells me how he's always had feelings for me & he has always in a way cared for me & he really really hopes I feel the same way , & how beautiful I look now that i'm more grown up. & then he leaned into kiss me & like the retard that I am I kissed him back , I just sort of walked away without even saying anything afterwards , & I didn't tell him I was already seeing someone. I wouldn't feel so bad about it if I didn't already have a boyfriend of 9 months , but I was thinking about ending it with him anyway because I think he cheated on my anyway with this girl when I was out of town , but if I explain that it'll be TOO much writing. . My friend saw me kiss my friend who passed brother & she's completely against it because she thinks hes doing it for some Crazy crazy crazy reason I don't wanna mention on here & she pretty much bashed me for it & i've just been getting attitude from her sense , but still it's my decision.

    I know that my friend who passed would be completely pissed if I go into a relationship with her brother , they never got along anyways but she would still just bash me for it , but she's gone & like I said it's still my decision.

    Sense people are saying they don't understand what the question is , i'm just asking do you think I should give my friends brother a chance , OR try to work things out for my boyfriend ? Just your opinions.

    Please & Thanks.

    1 AnswerFriends10 years ago
  • Should I give him a chance .....?

    To make it a long story short I had 3 main best friends. We had been close sense the 3rd grade , we were inseparable , we did everything together & we told each other everything. One of the 4 of us was murdered . She was murdered the summer of our freshman year.(We're 17 now) Our story was on America's most wanted & the News. My friend who passed had a brother, who is now 19. I never really said more than Hi to him. We were 13/14 yr. old girls who we just used to say he was creepy & I just thought he was extremely cute. ( Keep in mind we were like 13 ) Him & My brother were best friends & they .. weren't the best kids in the world so I just tried to stay away from him because he always had that " Bad Boy " type of mentality , but he was still so nice to talk to & extremely extremely cute. We started to talk a lot more when she passed but I didn't think anything of it. So the other day my friend & I went to the mall & we had to be somewhere at a certain amount of time so we split up to get what we wanted. I saw my friend who passed away brother in there & we talk for about 20minutes & before the conversation is about to end he tells me how he's always had feelings for me & he has always in a way cared for me & he really really hopes I feel the same way , & how beautiful I look now that i'm more grown up. & then he leaned into kiss me & like the retard that I am I kissed him back , I just sort of walked away without even saying anything afterwards , & I didn't tell him I was already seeing someone. I wouldn't feel so bad about it if I didn't already have a boyfriend of 9 months , but I was thinking about ending it with him anyway because I think he cheated on my anyway with this girl when I was out of town , but if I explain that it'll be TOO much writing. . My friend saw me kiss my friend who passed brother & she's completely against it because she thinks hes doing it for some Crazy crazy crazy reason I don't wanna mention on here & she pretty much bashed me for it & i've just been getting attitude from her sense , but still it's my decision.

    I know that my friend who passed would be completely pissed if I go into a relationship with her brother , they never got along anyways but she would still just bash me for it , but she's gone & like I said it's still my decision.

    Sense people are saying they don't understand what the question is , i'm just asking do you think I should give my friends brother a chance , OR try to work things out for my boyfriend ? Just your opinions.

    Please & Thanks.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Should I give him a chance after ....?

    To make it a long story short I had 3 main best friends. We had been close sense the 3rd grade , we were inseparable , we did everything together & we told each other everything. One of the 4 of us was murdered . She was murdered the summer of our freshman year.(We're 17 now) Our story was on America's most wanted & the News. My friend who passed had a brother, who is now 19. I never really said more than Hi to him. We were 13/14 yr. old girls who we just used to say he was creepy & I just thought he was extremely cute. ( Keep in mind we were like 13 ) Him & My brother were best friends & they .. weren't the best kids in the world so I just tried to stay away from him because he always had that " Bad Boy " type of mentality , but he was still so nice to talk to & extremely extremely cute. We started to talk a lot more when she passed but I didn't think anything of it. So the other day my friend & I went to the mall & we had to be somewhere at a certain amount of time so we split up to get what we wanted. I saw my friend who passed away brother in there & we talk for about 20minutes & before the conversation is about to end he tells me how he's always had feelings for me & he has always in a way cared for me & he really really hopes I feel the same way , & how beautiful I look now that i'm more grown up. & then he leaned into kiss me & like the retard that I am I kissed him back , I just sort of walked away without even saying anything afterwards , & I didn't tell him I was already seeing someone. I wouldn't feel so bad about it if I didn't already have a boyfriend of 9 months , but I was thinking about ending it with him anyway because I think he cheated on my anyway with this girl when I was out of town , but if I explain that it'll be TOO much writing. . My friend saw me kiss my friend who passed brother & she's completely against it because she thinks hes doing it for some Crazy crazy crazy reason I don't wanna mention on here & she pretty much bashed me for it & i've just been getting attitude from her sense , but still it's my decision.

    I know that my friend who passed would be completely pissed if I go into a relationship with her brother , they never got along anyways but she would still just bash me for it , but she's gone & like I said it's still my decision.

    Sense people are saying they don't understand what the question is , i'm just asking do you think I should give my friends brother a chance , OR try to work things out for my boyfriend ? Just your opinions.

    Please & Thanks.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Should I give him a chance ? * PLEASE HELP *?

    To make it a long story short , I had 3 main best friends. We had been best friends sense the 3rd grade. We did every thing together & we told each other everything , we've been to Disney World together , North Carolina , just all types of different places . We were inseparable . Anyways one of my 3 closest friends was murdered, our story was was on the News , America's Most Wanted & ect. It happened the summer of our freshman year. & now we're Juniors. She had an older brother that now is 19. I never really said more than Hi to him before ,& when she passed we started to talk a lot more.

    His brother & mine used to be close friends also , so it was like I was always around him , I always just thought he was extremely cute but I was like 14 & he was 16. Whenever we would have a sleepover at her house , I never liked being around him because .. Idk we were girls & we just thought he was creepy. ( Keep in mind we were 13/14 ). Anyways this previous Friday , I was at the mall with one of the 2 girls & we had to be somewhere at 7 & I wanted to go into one store , & she wanted to go in another ,so we just split up to get what we wanted. So I saw my friend who passed away brother , I was trying to avoid him but he saw me anyway . He came up to me & just said " Hey , how have you been blahblahblah " He seemed uncomfortable talking to me the whole time but eventually the conversation ended. So the following day I saw him again & he just flat out tells me how He's always had feelings for me , I look so beautiful now that i'm more grown up & just a bunch of other stuff in that factor , but he was saying it in a really romantic way. & we were standing up so he leaned in to kiss me .. & like the retard I am I let him but then I just shook my head walked away. I've never necessarily had feelings for him , like I said when I was younger I just thought he was extremely cute , which he still is. & When we talked more when she passed it was great , but I thought it was nothing at all. I wouldn't feel so bad about it if I didn't have a boyfriend already , but like I said my feelings for him have been changing because of the way he's been acting. I'm not sure if I should give let's just say CB a chance & end it with my boyfriend , or if I should .. I don't know. One of my friends saw me when I kiss him & she's completely against talking to let's say TB's brother she feels as if it's not real & he's doing it for some ... Crazy personal reason I don't want to mention , but still it's my decision. & i'm completely confused about it & want advice.

    .. & Idk why but people asked for a picture of all four of us just to see , its irrelevant I could care less but here you go. This is the last picture all four of us took together.

    http://i56.tinypic.com/2ep536f.jp

    The one in the pink shirt is the one that was murdered.

    & the one with the black shirt that says pink is the one that saw me kiss him & HATES him.

    & the girl in the blue shirt is meeee (:

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Should I give him a chance ?

    To make it a long story short , I had 3 main best friends. We had been best friends sense the 3rd grade. We did every thing together & we told each other everything , we've been to Disney World together , North Carolina , just all types of different places . We were inseparable . Anyways one of my 3 closest friends was murdered, our story was was on the News , America's Most Wanted & ect. It happened the summer of our freshman year. & now we're Juniors. She had an older brother that now is 19. I never really said more than Hi to him before ,& when she passed we started to talk a lot more.

    His brother & mine used to be close friends also , so it was like I was always around him , I always just thought he was extremely cute but I was like 14 & he was 16. Whenever we would have a sleepover at her house , I never liked being around him because .. Idk we were girls & we just thought he was creepy. ( Keep in mind we were 13/14 ). Anyways this previous Friday , I was at the mall with one of the 2 girls & we had to be somewhere at 7 & I wanted to go into one store , & she wanted to go in another ,so we just split up to get what we wanted. So I saw my friend who passed away brother , I was trying to avoid him but he saw me anyway . He came up to me & just said " Hey , how have you been blahblahblah " He seemed uncomfortable talking to me the whole time but eventually the conversation ended. So the following day I saw him again & he just flat out tells me how He's always had feelings for me , I look so beautiful now that i'm more grown up & just a bunch of other stuff in that factor , but he was saying it in a really romantic way. & we were standing up so he leaned in to kiss me .. & like the retard I am I let him but then I just shook my head walked away. I've never necessarily had feelings for him , like I said when I was younger I just thought he was extremely cute , which he still is. & When we talked more when she passed it was great , but I thought it was nothing at all. I wouldn't feel so bad about it if I didn't have a boyfriend already , but like I said my feelings for him have been changing because of the way he's been acting. I'm not sure if I should give let's just say CB a chance & end it with my boyfriend , or if I should .. I don't know. One of my friends saw me when I kiss him & she's completely against talking to let's say TB's brother she feels as if it's not real & he's doing it for some ... Crazy personal reason I don't want to mention , but still it's my decision. & i'm completely confused about it & want advice.

    .. & Idk why but people asked for a picture of all four of us just to see , its irrelevant I could care less but here you go. This is the last picture all four of us took together.

    http://i56.tinypic.com/2ep536f.jp

    The one in the pink shirt is the one that was murdered.

    & the one with the black shirt that says pink is the one that saw me kiss him & HATES him.

    & the girl in the blue shirt is meeee (:

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Is he saying i'm a slut orrr ? * Picture Included *?

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for 11months. ( We're 17 ) We were at the mall with a few of our other friends , and the whole time we were there , random guys were just making comments as in , idk , Sexual comments , or noises or breathers ( to both me & the 2 other girls there ) . So a different guy walked by and said a sexual comment , and I was standing by my boyfriend this time , & I said " That can get REALLY annoying ". He said " Well what the hell do you expect when you dress like that " & he walked away & for the rest of the evening he just had a really pissy attitude & seemed like he was really annoyed by me. We live in LA , so obviously the weather is continuously hot . My friends and I all wear the same types of outfits / dress the same. He has always complemented me before on whatever I had on , so I cant pin-point what his problem was . His comment Really upset me and I cant get it off of my mind, he's always been a phenomenal boyfriend , hes smart , funny & EXTREMELY cute. It's not like I retaliated to what those random boys were saying. I've completely fell in love with him & i've made it clear that he's the only person I truly love & we've had sex before , so I don't understand why he would be worried about anything at all. I don't know if I should talk to him about the situation , because I really don't wanna loose him over something ridiculous. My closest friends are horrible at giving advice so I came here.... What should I do ? .. Sense people asked for a picture of EXACTLY what I was wearing here it is. I don't have an exact face shot , but my friend took this picture behind me as a joke of something , BUT ANYWAY. This is what I was wearing that day. I'm Italian , I don't like to be balled up into hot uncomfortable clothes , & I personally don't think it's that bad , but Idk.

    http://i53.tinypic.com/ddylom.png

    6 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Is he saying i'm a slut orrr ? * Picture Included *?

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for 11months. ( We're 17 ) We were at the mall with a few of our other friends , and the whole time we were there , random guys were just making comments as in , idk , Sexual comments , or noises or breathers ( to both me & the 2 other girls there ) . So a different guy walked by and said a sexual comment , and I was standing by my boyfriend this time , & I said " That can get REALLY annoying ". He said " Well what the hell do you expect when you dress like that " & he walked away & for the rest of the evening he just had a really pissy attitude & seemed like he was really annoyed by me. We live in LA , so obviously the weather is continuously hot . My friends and I all wear the same types of outfits / dress the same. He has always complemented me before on whatever I had on , so I cant pin-point what his problem was . His comment Really upset me and I cant get it off of my mind, he's always been a phenomenal boyfriend , hes smart , funny & EXTREMELY cute. It's not like I retaliated to what those random boys were saying. I've completely fell in love with him & i've made it clear that he's the only person I truly love & we've had sex before , so I don't understand why he would be worried about anything at all. I don't know if I should talk to him about the situation , because I really don't wanna loose him over something ridiculous. My closest friends are horrible at giving advice so I came here.... What should I do ? .. Sense people asked for a picture of EXACTLY what I was wearing here it is. I don't have an exact face shot , but my friend took this picture behind me as a joke of something , BUT ANYWAY. This is what I was wearing that day. I'm Italian , I don't like to be balled up into hot uncomfortable clothes , & I personally don't think it's that bad , but Idk.

    http://i53.tinypic.com/ddylom.png

    9 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Is he saying i'm a slut orrr ? * Picture Included *?

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for 11months. ( We're 17 ) We were at the mall with a few of our other friends , and the whole time we were there , random guys were just making comments as in , idk , Sexual comments , or noises or breathers ( to both me & the 2 other girls there ) . So a different guy walked by and said a sexual comment , and I was standing by my boyfriend this time , & I said " That can get REALLY annoying ". He said " Well what the hell do you expect when you dress like that " & he walked away & for the rest of the evening he just had a really pissy attitude & seemed like he was really annoyed by me. We live in LA , so obviously the weather is continuously hot . My friends and I all wear the same types of outfits / dress the same. He has always complemented me before on whatever I had on , so I cant pin-point what his problem was . His comment Really upset me and I cant get it off of my mind, he's always been a phenomenal boyfriend , hes smart , funny & EXTREMELY cute. I don't know if I should talk to him about the situation , because I really don't wanna loose him over something ridiculous. My closest friends are horrible at giving advice so I came here.... What should I do ? .. Sense people asked for a picture of EXACTLY what I was wearing here it is. I don't have an exact face shot , but my friend took this picture behind me as a joke of something , BUT ANYWAY. This is what I was wearing that day. I'm Italian , I don't like to be balled up into hot uncomfortable clothes , & I personally don't think it's that bad , but Idk.

    http://i53.tinypic.com/ddylom.png

    11 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Is he saying i'm a slut orrr ? * Picture Included *?

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for 11months. ( We're 17 ) We were at the mall with a few of our other friends , and the whole time we were there , random guys were just making comments as in , idk , Sexual comments , or noises or breathers ( to both me & the 2 other girls there ) . So a different guy walked by and said a sexual comment , and I was standing by my boyfriend this time , & I said " That can get REALLY annoying ". He said " Well what the hell do you expect when you dress like that " & he walked away & for the rest of the evening he just had a really pissy attitude & seemed like he was really annoyed by me. We live in LA , so obviously the weather is continuously hot . My friends and I all wear the same types of outfits / dress the same. He has always complemented me before on whatever I had on , so I cant pin-point what his problem was . His comment Really upset me and I cant get it off of my mind, he's always been a phenomenal boyfriend , hes smart , funny & EXTREMELY cute. I don't know if I should talk to him about the situation , because I really don't wanna loose him over something ridiculous. My closest friends are horrible at giving advice so I came here.... What should I do ? .. Sense people asked for a picture of EXACTLY what I was wearing here it is. I don't have an exact face shot , but my friend took this picture behind me as a joke of something , BUT ANYWAY. This is what I was wearing that day. I'm Italian , I don't like to be balled up into hot uncomfortable clothes , & I personally don't think it's that bad , but Idk.

    http://i53.tinypic.com/ddylom.png

    6 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago