Suzie- Q

My last relationship ended 3-14-09 because of another woman in the relationship. He was obsessed

with her, she treated him horribly, while I on the other hand treated him like a king. She moved in with him and within one week he knew he'd made a terrible mistake. She finally got the last of her stuff out and for the past 3 weeks we have been talking again, and it feels good. He wants to meet again in the next few days and I would like to but I'm scared to death. I don't think I will ever get over being "second best." Should I take the chance or run as fast as I can? He seems sincere, we are both older, so I don't know what to do. PLEASE HELP!! Thanks in advance!!

I apologize in advance for the length of this question. I met a wonderful guy on POF back in Dec. We hit it off immediately, the only fly in the ointment was he was just trying to get over someone that wanted nothing to do with him. For 12 weeks it was picture perfect, and then he started doubting what we had and wanted to try with "her" one more time. I couldn't compete with that so I backed off. She still treated him like trash and recently we reconnected. When we are together, it's pure magic. He told her he wants nothing to do with her anymore, but now she knows I'm in the picture, she suddenly wants to "take down the walls", and it took losing him to realize how much she loves him. It's a bunch of bologna, but he claims he has his "weak" moments. He claims he wants to be with me but at the moment he is having such a hard time. He claims I am everything he every wanted in a woman, but the pull with her is so strong. Should I just walk away before my heart is broken again?

My guy and I have been going out almost 3 months now, and several weeks back due to some very tragic circumstances, we weren't able to talk as much. Cruel words were thrown back and forth and I thought it was over forever. But by the grace of God, we are speaking again, and we are suppose to go on a picnic sometime this week. I am scared of this meeting, he doesn't talk to me the way he use to, now it's more "formal". We both have said our apologizes, but something is different. How would you suggest I hit this meeting head on? He use to called me sweet names all the time, but since we are talking again, not once. Everything is just so cool now. Any advice would be so helpful, and thank-you so much. By the way, there is a 90 mile difference, and I'm going there.

When is the appropriate time to tell someone that you love them? Is there a certain amount of time? I knew right away, and I know he feels the exact same way, but we are both a little shy!! Help!! Thank-you!

I was trying to clean up my message archive and accidently erased all my conversations, is there anyway to get them back? Not to swift with the computer. Any help would be appreciated!! Thanks!!

Need to know who I am compatable with, and if Aquarius is a good match.

To make a long story short, I met a nice guy online, or at least I thought so, we exchanged many e-mails, exchanged phone numbers, talked endless hours on the phone, finally met last Tuesday for dinner. That changed into 3 hours later, and he had to go home as it was getting late. We hit it off right away!! He invited me over for dinner Saturday night, it was so perfect you could not believe it!! I didn't leave until 3:30 a.m., told me I could use the guest room, but I had to get going. Kissed endlessly on the couch, I tried to call him and thank him for the evening, but he didn't answer the phone. I sent him a thank-you card, which he should get tomorrow. He said he really liked me and was happy I was there with him. The sight we met on, he deleted all my messages. I wrote to him before I wrote to you, but I doubt he'll answer me back. He claims he hasn't had a woman in his life in over 2 years. By the way, he is 55, and I'm a few years younger. What happened?! Thanks..

My boyfriend is extra, extra large and tall, a big man, but very sweet and nice. But the looks and comments we get are rather cruel. I know your not suppose to worry about what others say, but it does get old. Please any suggestions would be helpful.

This is a 100 miles distant relationship and eventually I will have to relocate, that is what the break up was about in the first place. Any helpful advise? Thanks!