miamiheat4life

Im 17and havent had gf,kiss held hands etc. Every girl ive been friends with has just used me for something like the "shoulder to cry on" and it frustates me because i would neveron earth treat girls like some guys tht i know.

For years irs been this way so ive lost pretty much all emotions. Im not sure wht love or happiness feels like anymore.

How am i suppoesd to support a relationship when im dead inside?

What do i do? Any tips to get out of this funk?

Ok so in order to understand this question a little better, im gonna give u a little history about me.

Me and my group of friends came from a pretty bad middle school. We attended that school because we were not the "sharpest knife in the drawer" and in our present high school, were labeled as the "screw ups" or the "outcasts" and i think ive also heard the name wackos and psycos thrown around too.

So being that, i only get very minimal att. from girls. Even tho, 1 im placed in ap and honors courses, 2 im on the football team, 3 when it comes to girls, i treat them with honor and respect.

But no matter what i do i still cant get a girl friend!

My friends tell me tht some girls are scared and others think we are weird.

But why? I

I dont dress like a criminal, dont act like one, maybe i had a not so good past but im not the same

Why cnt they see that!!!!

It gets me down and sometimes i just feel like ive changed for nothing

Ok so it might not be insane but please help me out.

Okheres what i plan on doing:

On the way to practice everyday, i see one of my freinds whom i really like. Im thinking about just one day like maybe a thursday or something, just to walk to her and just simply ask if she is busy this weekend like a casual conversation (after i say hi, ofcourse im not gonna be rude).

Is that too much?

I mean ive known her for about ayear and a half and were pretty close its not like im a stranger to her.

But anyways what do you think?

Ok so in order to understand where im coming from, let me give you a little background on me:

Senior in highschool

Varsity football player

Im in the music, mechanics, and cooking program

I have a very large group of freinds

Oh and i loove to laugh and make jokes and stuff

And im single, never had a gf b4.

Ok so now let me tell you what my problem is:

I tend to have more freinds that are girls. (Im perfectly straight so hop off)

And for some reason they think im their best freinds. Im cool with that its just tht they are always telling me their secrets and asking me for advise and stuff. Another thing is that most of the girls that im "bff" with are also "bff" with each other.

The problem is tht im trying to get a gf but im scared my freinds will get jealous and i will lose them :(

What should i do?

Ok so me and this girl are like best freinds. Where inseperable and its rare to see one without the other. Its been like this for a year already.

Heres my question though, is it alright if like i take the extra step and go shopping together ? Like going with her to a few womens stores and stuff. (not all the time obviously) Like i dont want to be considered gay or anything like that. Infact im quite the opposite because i also happen to like her very much and you know i care about her.

I just want your opinions and be honest my freinds

Ok so me and this girl are like best freinds. Where inseperable and its rare to see one without the other. Its been like this for a year already.

Heres my question though, is it alright if like i take the extra step and go shopping together ?

(not all the time obviously)

Like i dont want to be considered gay or anything like that. Infact im quite the opposite because i also happen to like her very much and you know i care about her.

I just want your opinions and be honest my freinds

Ok so i like her and i know she likes me a little. But i know she likes another guy but shes not sureabout him yet.

We are pretty good freinds and she recently told me about him.

I would do anything for her and i was wondering if i should encourage her (which i have done a little bit of already)?

Like i just want to see her happy so should i just make the hard choice and help her through this? Ive always been there for her and her the same to me.

What should i do?

Ok so long story short i like her, i think she might like me too.Ive known her for like a year already.

Ok so today in class i had my phone on my deskand we were talking, just a regular conversation and then in a pause in the conversation, she just grabs my phone and goes through my contacts. Then she went to where her name was on the list and updated it so her name would appear like this:

Her :3 (hername) <33 :* My heart!

Honestly, idk what she is trying o say by doing this.

So please any reasons why she would do this?

Ok let me start off by saying that i really like this girl. We are freinds, we see eachother everyday at school, we talk everyday, we txt basically almost everyday and weve even called eachother a few times. She always says im the funniest person shes met and she always calls me cute.

Weve known each other since the begining o the school yr and its pretty safe to assume she likes me also. (See my other past questions) .

Ok heres the problem though. Were freinds, were always flirting laughing smiling at eachother sometimes touch eachother (non sexual) etc. This occurs on a daily basis. Back to the point, one day she randomly turns around and yells "look this is my bf" and shows me a picture.

That was like wtf? Ok so she now has a "bf", which in my opinion must be a ghost because for one he doesnt go to our school, she has never spoken a word about this guy ever and im with her enough to saythat that is not an exxageration.

Ok so she has a bf, but she still flirts and hugs me and acts shy and nervous around me. She basically still does everything and i mean everything in paragraph 3.

My question is why?

She kinda like lead me on and is still doing it.

Im a fool and still likes her but what should i do?

Should i stay close and wait to see if thy break up or should i just make the hard choice and move on? Which is impossible because no one else likes me

Im a nice guy and i have tons of girls that are freinds but these last few years ive been trying to push past the freinds part and move into the relationship part. But it never really goes past the "we tell everything to each other " part. Its tough i mean you know it gets pretty lonelyin the freind zone beleive it or not.

So is it true what they say about nice guys?

Along with your answer can also say why you chose your answer. Many thanks! 16btw.

ok a little background on me:

16, never have a gf

Varsity Football player

play classical guitar and saxophone

i have a car

I volunteer alot

i have 3.5 gpa

everyone is always astonished as to how cute i look (which i dont get that because ive never had a gf)

i mean im 5 11 1/2 140 lbs no tattoos no peircings

OK now to my question, with all that being said, ive tried to have relationships before but what always seems to happen is that we get to the good freinds almost in a rrelationship stage but then it just never ever gets past that. Sometimes they will come out and say they have a bf but other times things just like die down and fade. But why? every girl ive tried to befreind says im a great guy and understanding but it never gets past the freinds who almost say everything to each other stage.

Please is it something im doing wrong?

I just dont know what to do anymore.

Any advise appreciated

And if your wondering what position i play

Corner-back #35 (for those who dont know its the one who covers the reciver, ya know the one who goes for the long passes)

Additional Details

I do get to know them (girls). i practically become like their second best freind or insome cases best guy freind that you can say anything too. I just dont understand.

ok a little background on me:

16, never have a gf

Varsity Football player

play classical guitar and saxophone

i have a car

I volunteer alot

i have 3.5 gpa

everyone is always astonished as to how cute i look (which i dont get that because ive never had a gf)

i mean im 5 11 1/2 140 lbs no tattoos no peircings

OK now to my question, with all that being said, ive tried to have relationships before but what always seems to happen is that we get to the good freinds almost in a rrelationship stage but then it just never ever gets past that. Sometimes they will come out and say they have a bf but other times things just like die down and fade. But why? every girl ive tried to befreind says im a great guy and understanding but it never gets past the freinds who almost say everything to each other stage.

Please is it something im doing wrong?

I just dont know what to do anymore.

Any advise appreciated

And if your wondering what position i play

Corner-back #35 (for those who dont know its the one who covers the reciver, ya know the one who goes for the long passes)

Long story short, i like her she likes me. (Want proof? See my previous questions!)

Alright so everything is going good, she asked for my number (many months ago) were always laughinf at school together were always looking at each other, always helping each other out with anything. Not to mention our daily conversations thru text. We both have similar situationsand we both have very good chemistry and could talk about anyhting.

All this stuff was like evry day and still is.

With all that ppl have always said were perfect for each other and so did i.

But one random day she onpenly announces that she has a boyfreind to me and my freinds. ? That was pretty hard on me but i got over it. Kind of

Now heres the thing. I still basically love her, and i thinkshe might have some feelings for me too because we litterally and i mean litteraly do everything i mentionedin the first paragraph on a daily basis.

But why? Shehas a bf! Why would she keep on even though she is already tied down? She never talks about him but then again shes never said if the relationship is bad or not. Orif they broke upor something.

Idk i just dont get her. What should i do? I really love her and we basically know everything about eachother.. please wht shoud i do?

Okay a little background on me:

Im 16

5'10

137lbs

I play football and i want to put on like 10 extra pounds before the season starts. I also want to gain some height also. I have been taking protein consistently for 2.5 years and that has basically gottent me nowhere other than just messing up my liver enzymes.

So pleae is there any little tips or tricks to gain mass and if you know some tricks to gain some height that would be much appreciated :)

Im thinking about asking the girl i like to be my gf.

Tommorow is her bday and im getting her balloons and i want to confess my feelings for her too.

When should you stop and move on?

I like her ,she might like me(long story).

So basically ive been talking to her for months. Ive been really a great guy to her and shes told me that several times. I always try to help her, make her laugh which shes told me several times that im "ssooo funny". Shes also said im cute a few times too. But lately like the past 2 weeks, things arent as good as they were before. For some reason, we dont talk that much anymore, or laugh as much, and she takes hours to respond to my txts.

I know for a fact that she doesnt have a bf. She told me that herself. Also its been pretty obvious that i like her but idk why things havent gone foward. Ive asked her three seperate times that if she wasnt busy over the wkend to hit me up so we can go out but she never did.

So idk what happend to us but i sure dont like it. Any suggestions would help thanks

Alright so i like this girl and i think she likes me back.

Were pretty good friends not like bff but you get the point. We talk everyday and text quite often. I want to give her a card for valentines day tom. Its nothing over the top, its just a little something that expressing my feelings to her.

Would it be ok to do this?

Alright so i like this girl and i think she likes me also.

Were pretty good freinds, not like bff but just like maybe more than regular freinds. We talk every day and we text quite often. Lately though weve been closer not like soooo much closer but like ya know a little closer. Im thinking about giving her a card for valentines day tom. Its nothing over the top, its just a little something expressing some of my feelings to her.

Would it be ok to do that?

I like her, i think she might like me too.

Were pretty good freinds, we talk everyday in school and we text quite often too..

But i was wondering if it was acceptable if i got her a card for valentines day tom?

Its nothing over the top, just a little something expressing some of my feelings to her.

Would this be ok to do?

Long story short, i like her, she likes me. (Want proof? See my other questions!)

Alright so ive asked her a few times before to let me know if she would like to go out on the wk end and do something. Both times she never let me know and never even brought it up after.

Ok so im thinking to ask one last time. Third time charm?

Alittle background on her before you know what my question is:

Shes constantly on her phone. Its like an organ. I assume shes txting and facebooking.

She also talks on it every moring in the halls to class. Even in class she always on it. Her parents dont live here so that might be the reason for all that phone time. And no she does not have a bf she told me that herself.

Well since shes always on her phone and seems really into it, its hard for me to work up the nerve to talk to her. But dont worry i talk to her everyday, its not like we dont talk at all but thats not the point.

I figure ill play her game so what im thinking of saying to her (through txt) is just a message saying

"Hey ( ) you interested in doing something with me later?"

What do you think? I know its not the best to ask her through txt but i think it might work.