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Both my husband and I are in the Army, I am in Fort Gordon GA, and he recently PCS'd to South Korea. I got orders for Korea also, report date in November. I heard I can get travel pay since I am transporting my 3 dependents to New York where they are going to be at during my one year tour. Note, both my husbands and my orders are unaccompanied so no family members allowed. I am driving my three small children to New York from Fort Gordon Georgia. It is 800ish miles from here. My orders also state that my dependents are going to be in New York. I asked Finance and they just looked at me all retarded like since I was asking questions instead of requesting anything. I have looked it up and saw that I can request dislocation allowance but I am still confused of what all I am supposed to be able to get financial help with. Thank you so much in advance for your answers.

My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years now, we have 3 children the youngest being 8 months old. Well, here is our problem, mainly it is mine I would say. I am not the same as I used to be, I don't know if having the kids messed me up down there, but its not the same. My husband wants to have sex with me and I try, I honestly do, but I don't get wet anymore, my sexual desires are out the window, and I hate it because we used to be very sexually active. I always try something, we use lubricarion, but it usually burns me, it's a little painful, so that is a turn off. Besides that, he is leaving for a whole year in 2 months, and the kids keep me very busy, and I am desperate and don't know what to do or try anymore. If someone has been through this or can give some advice I will really appreciate it. Thanks in advance.

For the last couple weeks, I have had what I am guessing is normal back pain during pregnancy, since my belly is bigger now. Currently 30 weeks pregnant. But for the last few days, it has been hurting more on my lower left side, my right side still hurts, but not as bad as my left. There are certain things that I do on an everyday basis that makes it hurt more. Like getting in and out of the car, certain movements I do with my left leg. This pain is killing me, I have a regular check up next week, but I want to know if this is normal or if any one has experienced this and they know what it is. Any advice is greatly appreciated :) Thanks.

I would like to know, if someone is pregnant in the Army, is she able to use a buffer? I know there are some limitations to what a pregnant woman can do, but can she do this?

Here is my situation.... I am a mother of a two year old boy (27 month old) and I am currently 28 weeks pregnant. My son has a room with a bunch of toys in it, anything you can think of, he has it. From blocks, to jumbo legos to books, including a TV (not a big one, but good size for him) Here is my issue.... I feel bad leaving him in his room playing by himself because I have a feeling that he gets lonely by himself. So I try to go in there as much as I possibly can to play with him. But I am 28 weeks pregnant and I get tired easily after work. My husband and I get off work, pick up our son and are home by 5pm. My husband really doesn't mind leaving him in there by himself, but I do. Yesterday, I was so tired when I got home, that I didn't play with him not even a minute. I got home, made dinner, fed him and sent him to his room to play while I took a nap, By the time I woke up and showered my husband had already put him to bed.... I felt so bad, I cried. I don't know if there is something wrong with me since I am pregnant, I am maybe overemotional or what.... But my husband doesn't help at all either, he plays with him probably at the most like 5 minutes a day, if that. I need opinions please!