Ray

I usually don't have a problem with figuring people out but this is unfathomable to me.

My girlfriend and i have been dating for almost 5 months now and she is the timid type. I expected this phase to pass in the first three months but it hasn't. If anything it has been getting progressively worse. I've been starting to think that perhaps she has lost interest and is just too scared to end it ( It is pretty possible considering how she acts)

We've dated before (for three weeks) and we broke up for the same reason but after she asked for another chance and i matured a bit and developed some patience i asked her out again

So now we're in the same situation. I've talked to her about this but she just says that she does not know why she's so quiet around me. But her friends have informed me that she talks to them just fine and she doesn't act shy at all. Maybe it's just me? it might be that i'm not good enough for her? Or maybe she thinks i'm ugly? i don't know

I'm 5'11 and i weigh about 175 (I'm very athletic so it isn't fat by any means) Here's a Pic

http://s661.photobucket.com/albums/uu333/lildrsold...

I don't know what to do anymore. Should i end it again or wait for her to become less timid around me? It's been making me pretty restless.

OK i know it sounds weird but i need girls to tell me how to stop them from liking me.the problem isn't that they like me its the fact that a lot of girls who like me are also the crushes of a lot of my friends.Or even worse, their girlfriends.it just ends up causing problems. I'm not the kind of person to really do something disgusting in front of everyone so that everyone thinks I'm disgusting just to stop them from liking me.but i also don't want to be mean. i need help

i have a four pack.when i flex my muscles it kind of looks like a six pack but not always.how do i get it to show?

ok smart ones before you start this i do crunches and sit ups like every morning when i wake up and night before i go to sleep. it doesn't work for some strange reason