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My vegan friends get pretty steamed when someone judges them based on their dietary choices. They feel like it shouldn't matter to anyone else what they 'choose to eat.'

Then why do those same vegans judge others for what they choose to eat?

Isn't their entire vegan philosophy built upon a negative judgement of a meat-eating diet? Isn't suggesting that others not judge thier vegan diet being hypocritical?

Ever since my dad passed away 3.5 years ago, I have had recurring nightmares about his ghost haunting me. They come about once a month or more. And I end up screaming in horror while asleep until my startled wife wakes me.

Any advice? I don't want this to keep happening.

I have 2 credit cards that I am working hard and budgeting my money to try and pay off. One has a very large balance ($8,000) and one has a small balance ($800).

I have about $1,500 I can put towards my debt this month. Which is a smarter move: put most of it on the big balance card or pay off the small balance card and put the remainder towards the other card?

If you had to chose between one lover who provided enormous intellectual stimulation but didn't wow you in the bedroom or one who provided incredible sex but came up short in the intelligence department, which would you chose?