Perhaps.

I have a girlfriend. lol crazy, eh?

but I was wondering what are some romantic non-sexual things that you enjoy a guy doing for you? or just some ideas??

My girlfriend only has had 1 boyfriend...and he...damaged her inside of her vagina one time becasue she made him angry. So, as a result...she can't feel anything i do with my fingers. We are refraining from sex until after marriage..

Right now we are both pretty seriously committed to eachother. But can you PLEASE give me some ideas on how to please her, or make her happy?

can be sexual/nonsexual alike.

Ok...so every time my girlfriend gets near me, I end up getting a hard one. That's natural..yes lol. But if she starts rubbing me.. i have a hard time controlling my "urge to splurge" I mean..i know like after about a minute of her rubbing i want to just release...but what are some ways to make that last longer?

Also, When i "release," I don't shoot far...at all. It only goes a few inches. I'm 17. I've heard that I'm above average size(if that has anything to do with it?about 81/2 to 9). What are some good ways to improve maybe distance?