La Mora

Here's a little history:

My boyfriend and I started law school almost 2 years ago. When we started school, we were both in shape. We weren't overweight but we weren't bodybuilders or super athletes either. We were ok, healthy looking and within the healthy weight range.

After one year of law school stress and not having enough time to work out and stuff, we both gained weight. We both gained 10-15 pounds. In the summer, we decided to start working out and dieting and we did. We both lost around 20 pounds. We started doing crossfit and lifting weights. I gained some muscle and lost a lot of fat.

I've never been into body building and I just don't like the idea of dieting so much to the extent that my abs start showing. I want to be able to enjoy food from time to time. I eat pretty healthy most of the time and I work out more than I ever did. I have an hour glass shape and I get compliments about my body ALL the time. I am actually happy with how my body looks. I'm 5'2 and 125 lbs. I don't have much fat in my belly but I don't have ripped abs either, although I know I am pretty strong and healthy and lift heavier than the average woman does.

Just when I started thinking I am happy with my body (give or take some fat here or there), we go to the gym today and there were two spray tanned body builder females who were having a photoshoot. Boyfriend couldn't stop staring at them. He made comments like: "these girls are freakin RIPPED and strong as hell". He also commented on how other guys in the gym wouldn't stop looking at them and called them "thirsty" although I caught him looking a lot as well. To me, they looked fake, but I admit that they look muscular and strong and hot.

Later on we were talking about working out and he was talking about how he wants to start getting a six pack and bigger biceps and chest. I said I liked how he looked now but that maybe a little bigger bicep and chest won't hurt. Then I asked him, how do you want me to look? He said, I always liked how you look. So I said, no seriously, how would you want me to look? He says, I want you to start gaining muscle all over your body, your arms your abs your glutes and thighs, I want you to be muscular. I said really? Why do you want me to look so muscular? He says, because it looks a lot nicer.

Honestly, this really hurt my feelings. To me it seemed quite unrealistic and the fact that he implied his dissatisfaction with how I look now by saying "muscular would look a lot nicer" really hurt me. I didn't tell him I want you to be like a fitness model, I just agreed with him when he said that he wants a bigger bicep and some chest which I know is completely doable. I made sure that I said I like how he looks now because I REALLY do love how he looks and think he's super hot. On the other hand, how does he expect me to have almost a body builder body? It's hard enough maintaining my body weight and trying to be healthy and doing crossfit.

Do you think it was rude and unsensitive of him? I feel quite upset. It is really shaking my self image. He said he's sorry he hurt me when I said that he had unrealistic expectations of me, but it still hurts too much for me to just forget about it.

What should I tell him? Do you think I should worry that he might not find me as attractive the way I am as I thought? I don't want to sound cocky but, I am beautiful and I ALWAYS get compliments about how I look and about my body. I am pretty curvy and have a pretty face. But now, I FEEL terrible and not enough for my boyfriend.

Here's a little history:

My boyfriend and I started law school almost 2 years ago. When we started school, we were both in shape. We weren't overweight but we weren't bodybuilders or super athletes either. We were ok, healthy looking and within the healthy weight range.

After one year of law school stress and not having enough time to work out and stuff, we both gained weight. We both gained 10-15 pounds. In the summer, we decided to start working out and dieting and we did. We both lost around 20 pounds. We started doing crossfit and lifting weights. I gained some muscle and lost a lot of fat.

I've never been into body building and I just don't like the idea of dieting so much to the extent that my abs start showing. I want to be able to enjoy food from time to time. I eat pretty healthy most of the time and I work out more than I ever did. I have an hour glass shape and I get compliments about my body ALL the time. I am actually happy with how my body looks. I'm 5'2 and 125 lbs. I don't have much fat in my belly but I don't have ripped abs either, although I know I am pretty strong and healthy and lift heavier than the average woman does.

Just when I started thinking I am happy with my body (give or take some fat here or there), we go to the gym today and there were two spray tanned body builder females who were having a photoshoot. Boyfriend couldn't stop staring at them. He made comments like: "these girls are freakin RIPPED and strong as hell". He also commented on how other guys in the gym wouldn't stop looking at them and called them "thirsty" although I caught him looking a lot as well. To me, they looked fake, but I admit that they look muscular and strong and hot.

Later on we were talking about working out and he was talking about how he wants to start getting a six pack and bigger biceps and chest. I said I liked how he looked now but that maybe a little bigger bicep and chest won't hurt. Then I asked him, how do you want me to look? He said, I always liked how you look. So I said, no seriously, how would you want me to look? He says, I want you to start gaining muscle all over your body, your arms your abs your glutes and thighs, I want you to be muscular. I said really? Why do you want me to look so muscular? He says, because it looks a lot nicer.

Honestly, this really hurt my feelings. To me it seemed quite unrealistic and the fact that he implied his dissatisfaction with how I look now by saying "muscular would look a lot nicer" really hurt me. I didn't tell him I want you to be like a fitness model, I just agreed with him when he said that he wants a bigger bicep and some chest which I know is completely doable. I made sure that I said I like how he looks now because I REALLY do love how he looks and think he's super hot. On the other hand, how does he expect me to have almost a body builder body? It's hard enough maintaining my body weight and trying to be healthy and doing crossfit.

Do you think it was rude and unsensitive of him? I feel quite upset. It is really shaking my self image. He said he's sorry he hurt me when I said that he had unrealistic expectations of me, but it still hurts too much for me to just forget about it.

What should I tell him? Do you think I should worry that he might not find me as attractive the way I am as I thought? I don't want to sound cocky but, I am beautiful and I ALWAYS get compliments about how I look and about my body. I am pretty curvy and have a pretty face. But now, I FEEL terrible and not enough for my boyfriend.

My boyfriend and I have a great relationship. We actually live together and spend a lot of time together.

However, I have noticed that whenever he's on his laptop, he is looking at pictures of (hot) girls on facebook who he doesn't know. You know, girls wearing extremely tight clothes or girls wearing bikinis and such. When he notices that I'm looking, he immediately closes the window so I can't see what he's doing.

I grew suspicious and wanted to know exactly what he's looking at so I checked his history. (he did that to me before, he checked my text messages). I think I have valid grounds to do that although I understand it is not my right.

Apparently, every single day, he just goes on profiles of girls who look hot in their profile pictures, clicks on them, and just goes through ALL the public albums they have on there. Some of them are mutual friends but most of them AREN'T. And it's not just a girl or two, it's A LOT of girls, like 8 or 9 every single day for the past week (his history only shows 1 week).

There's also this girl who he used to have a crush on in high school and who he started messaging on facebook without telling me and telling her "hey beautiful" and things like that, and then I found out and he deleted her from his list. In the history, I found out that he went on her profile and looked at her profile pictures.

I confronted him about it and he DENIED. He said I don't look at girls pictures and just straight denied everything.

I don't know what to do or if I'm being paranoid. How can I approach this subject with him? Do you think it's my right to tell him that he needs to stop doing that?

I don't care if he looks at albums of his friends that pop up in his feed. But that's not what he does and honestly what he's doing sounds creepy to me. I wouldn't want creeps who I don't know going through my albums which is why I keep them private.

Your opinions and thoughts please?

My boyfriend and I have a great relationship. We actually live together and spend a lot of time together.

However, I have noticed that whenever he's on his laptop, he is looking at pictures of (hot) girls on facebook who he doesn't know. You know, girls wearing extremely tight clothes or girls wearing bikinis and such. When he notices that I'm looking, he immediately closes the window so I can't see what he's doing.

I grew suspicious and wanted to know exactly what he's looking at so I checked his history. (he did that to me before, he checked my text messages). I think I have valid grounds to do that although I understand it is not my right.

Apparently, every single day, he just goes on profiles of girls who look hot in their profile pictures, clicks on them, and just goes through ALL the public albums they have on there. Some of them are mutual friends but most of them AREN'T. And it's not just a girl or two, it's A LOT of girls, like 8 or 9 every single day for the past week (his history only shows 1 week).

There's also this girl who he used to have a crush on in high school and who he started messaging on facebook without telling me and telling her "hey beautiful" and things like that, and then I found out and he deleted her from his list. In the history, I found out that he went on her profile and looked at her profile pictures.

I confronted him about it and he DENIED. He said I don't look at girls pictures and just straight denied everything.

I don't know what to do or if I'm being paranoid. How can I approach this subject with him? Do you think it's my right to tell him that he needs to stop doing that?

I don't care if he looks at albums of his friends that pop up in his feed. But that's not what he does and honestly what he's doing sounds creepy to me. I wouldn't want creeps who I don't know going through my albums which is why I keep them private.

Your opinions and thoughts please?

My boyfriend and I have a great relationship. We actually live together and spend a lot of time together.

However, I have noticed that whenever he's on his laptop, he is looking at pictures of (hot) girls on facebook who he doesn't know. You know, girls wearing extremely tight clothes or girls wearing bikinis and such. When he notices that I'm looking, he immediately closes the window so I can't see what he's doing.

I grew suspicious and wanted to know exactly what he's looking at so I checked his history. (he did that to me before, he checked my text messages). I think I have valid grounds to do that although I understand it is not my right.

Apparently, every single day, he just goes on profiles of girls who look hot in their profile pictures, clicks on them, and just goes through ALL the public albums they have on there. Some of them are mutual friends but most of them AREN'T. And it's not just a girl or two, it's A LOT of girls, like 8 or 9 every single day for the past week (his history only shows 1 week).

There's also this girl who he used to have a crush on in high school and who he started messaging on facebook without telling me and telling her "hey beautiful" and things like that, and then I found out and he deleted her from his list. In the history, I found out that he went on her profile and looked at her profile pictures.

I confronted him about it and he DENIED. He said I don't look at girls pictures and just straight denied everything.

I don't know what to do or if I'm being paranoid. How can I approach this subject with him? Do you think it's my right to tell him that he needs to stop doing that?

I don't care if he looks at albums of his friends that pop up in his feed. But that's not what he does and honestly what he's doing sounds creepy to me. I wouldn't want creeps who I don't know going through my albums which is why I keep them private.

Your opinions and thoughts please?

My boyfriend and I have a great relationship. We actually live together and spend a lot of time together.

However, I have noticed that whenever he's on his laptop, he is looking at pictures of (hot) girls on facebook who he doesn't know. You know, girls wearing extremely tight clothes or girls wearing bikinis and such. When he notices that I'm looking, he immediately closes the window so I can't see what he's doing.

I grew suspicious and wanted to know exactly what he's looking at so I checked his history. (he did that to me before, he checked my text messages). I think I have valid grounds to do that although I understand it is not my right.

Apparently, every single day, he just goes on profiles of girls who look hot in their profile pictures, clicks on them, and just goes through ALL the public albums they have on there. Some of them are mutual friends but most of them AREN'T. And it's not just a girl or two, it's A LOT of girls, like 8 or 9 every single day for the past week (his history only shows 1 week).

There's also this girl who he used to have a crush on in high school and who he started messaging on facebook without telling me and telling her "hey beautiful" and things like that, and then I found out and he deleted her from his list. In the history, I found out that he went on her profile and looked at her profile pictures.

I confronted him about it and he DENIED. He said I don't look at girls pictures and just straight denied everything.

I don't know what to do or if I'm being paranoid. How can I approach this subject with him? Do you think it's my right to tell him that he needs to stop doing that?

I don't care if he looks at albums of his friends that pop up in his feed. But that's not what he does and honestly what he's doing sounds creepy to me. I wouldn't want creeps who I don't know going through my albums which is why I keep them private.

Your opinions and thoughts please?

My boyfriend is 25 years old. He is pretty grown. He moved out of his parents to go to law school in another state. We both go to the same law school and we have been living together for a year. and we haven't been to any vacation alone yet. We both took roadtrips to visit his parents house (he has only one sister living with his parents) for thanksgiving and christmas. He will be working in the summer and the only free month he has is in August. He can't really afford to go to any fancy vacations.

His parents are very controlling and are religious (his dad is a pastor). We can't even show affection infront of them.

I have been invited to go to vacation with my girlfriends but I never did because I didn't want to leave him alone for days or a week. I hinted a couple of times but he did not seem to like the idea so I never did go on a vacation with my girlfriends.

Today his sister tells him that her family will go on a vacation to VA beach for a week and they want him and I to come along, but that we both need to pay for our rooms. Of course, we will be staying in different rooms, and of course we won't be able to show any affection or have private time because his sister will be with us.

I asked him what will we be doing? He said beach, go karting, theme park and restaurants because thats what him and his sister did the last time they went there on vacation.

I told him that I will not come simply because I don't want to spend money on not having private time and baby sitting his sister so she doesn't get bored (she's 18 but they're very strict with her).

He said ok, if you don't want to come then it's fine.

I don't know if I'm being too much but this whole situation frustrated me. It seems as though he would rather go on vacation with his little sister and parents than have fun with me. I thought that being 25 means you have outgrown go karting and theme parks and dying to spend time on vacation with your parents. It sounds like something a 15 year old would think. I wouldn't mind if he visits his parents house and I understand that he of course misses them. But why choose to go on VACATION with your parents instead of being with your girlfriend? I have refused to go on vacation with my girlfriends just because I didn't want to leave him behind and I would rather spend the money on having fun with him. And I'm not even 25, I'm 21!

Am I being too selfish?

My boyfriend is 25 years old. He is pretty grown. He moved out of his parents to go to law school in another state. We both go to the same law school and we have been living together for a year. and we haven't been to any vacation alone yet. We both took roadtrips to visit his parents house (he has only one sister living with his parents) for thanksgiving and christmas. He will be working in the summer and the only free month he has is in August. He can't really afford to go to any fancy vacations.

His parents are very controlling and are religious (his dad is a pastor). We can't even show affection infront of them.

I have been invited to go to vacation with my girlfriends but I never did because I didn't want to leave him alone for days or a week. I hinted a couple of times but he did not seem to like the idea so I never did go on a vacation with my girlfriends.

Today his sister tells him that her family will go on a vacation to VA beach for a week and they want him and I to come along, but that we both need to pay for our rooms. Of course, we will be staying in different rooms, and of course we won't be able to show any affection or have private time because his sister will be with us.

I asked him what will we be doing? He said beach, go karting, theme park and restaurants because thats what him and his sister did the last time they went there on vacation.

I told him that I will not come simply because I don't want to spend money on not having private time and baby sitting his sister so she doesn't get bored (she's 18 but they're very strict with her).

He said ok, if you don't want to come then it's fine.

I don't know if I'm being too much but this whole situation frustrated me. It seems as though he would rather go on vacation with his little sister and parents than have fun with me. I thought that being 25 means you have outgrown go karting and theme parks and dying to spend time on vacation with your parents. It sounds like something a 15 year old would think. I wouldn't mind if he visits his parents house and I understand that he of course misses them. But why choose to go on VACATION with your parents instead of being with your girlfriend? I have refused to go on vacation with my girlfriends just because I didn't want to leave him behind and I would rather spend the money on having fun with him. And I'm not even 25, I'm 21!

Am I being too selfish?

My boyfriend is 25 years old. He is pretty grown. He moved out of his parents to go to law school in another state. We both go to the same law school and we have been living together for a year. and we haven't been to any vacation alone yet. We both took roadtrips to visit his parents house (he has only one sister living with his parents) for thanksgiving and christmas. He will be working in the summer and the only free month he has is in August. He can't really afford to go to any fancy vacations.

His parents are very controlling and are religious (his dad is a pastor). We can't even show affection infront of them.

I have been invited to go to vacation with my girlfriends but I never did because I didn't want to leave him alone for days or a week. I hinted a couple of times but he did not seem to like the idea so I never did go on a vacation with my girlfriends.

Today his sister tells him that her family will go on a vacation to VA beach for a week and they want him and I to come along, but that we both need to pay for our rooms. Of course, we will be staying in different rooms, and of course we won't be able to show any affection or have private time because his sister will be with us.

I asked him what will we be doing? He said beach, go karting, theme park and restaurants because thats what him and his sister did the last time they went there on vacation.

I told him that I will not come simply because I don't want to spend money on not having private time and baby sitting his sister so she doesn't get bored (she's 18 but they're very strict with her).

He said ok, if you don't want to come then it's fine.

I don't know if I'm being too much but this whole situation frustrated me. It seems as though he would rather go on vacation with his little sister and parents than have fun with me. I thought that being 25 means you have outgrown go karting and theme parks and dying to spend time on vacation with your parents. It sounds like something a 15 year old would think. I wouldn't mind if he visits his parents house and I understand that he of course misses them. But why choose to go on VACATION with your parents instead of being with your girlfriend? I have refused to go on vacation with my girlfriends just because I didn't want to leave him behind and I would rather spend the money on having fun with him. And I'm not even 25, I'm 21!

Am I being too selfish?

I am going through a very difficult time in my life. I am generally a happy person, my boyfriend and I are almost always happy, joke around, and do fun things. However, when I think of what I'm going through, I tend to start crying at night sometimes. But, although my boyfriend tries to hug me, he always falls asleep shortly after I start crying. I keep crying and he wakes up and hears me cry, and does nothing but huff and puff and go straight back to sleep. It is making me upset that my boyfriend who I love so much doesn't seem to care if I'm crying or not. I mean, if it was him crying, I would not even think of sleeping until I'm sure he's okay. But he doesn't do that to me and it's making me think that he doesn't really care. When I told him, he got angry and said: Are you kidding me? I was tired and I drifted off. I am the only one here who is wiping your tears and this is what you think of me? So what if I drifted off.

He never sleeps early, and this time it wasn't even late, it was around 10pm, he is usually up until 1am watching movies and youtube videos and facebooking. He wasn't even tired when I was crying.

What do you think? Am I being over dramatic?

I do not cry a lot, every now and then. When something is seriously troubling, and I mean seriously. Last time I cried before this was weeks ago. I don't think it's abnormal.

I am going through a very difficult time in my life. I am generally a happy person, my boyfriend and I are almost always happy, joke around, and do fun things. However, when I think of what I'm going through, I tend to start crying at night sometimes. But, although my boyfriend tries to hug me, he always falls asleep shortly after I start crying. I keep crying and he wakes up and hears me cry, and does nothing but huff and puff and go straight back to sleep. It is making me upset that my boyfriend who I love so much doesn't seem to care if I'm crying or not. I mean, if it was him crying, I would not even think of sleeping until I'm sure he's okay. But he doesn't do that to me and it's making me think that he doesn't really care. When I told him, he got angry and said: Are you kidding me? I was tired and I drifted off. I am the only one here who is wiping your tears and this is what you think of me? So what if I drifted off.

He never sleeps early, and this time it wasn't even late, it was around 10pm, he is usually up until 1am watching movies and youtube videos and facebooking. He wasn't even tired when I was crying.

What do you think? Am I being over dramatic?

My boyfriend fb messaged a girl he knows a long time ago (they both play the guitar) and asked her if she wants to meet up with him to "play music" together when he goes back home (he currently lives away from home). He didn't tell me about it. I found out when I checked his Facebook messages.

Do you think this is appropriate? I'm extremely pissed.

My boyfriend and I are in a great relationship. We have been together for 9 months now.

However, I noticed that he talks to a lot of girls that he knows in Facebook. He adds them and initiates chats with them on Facebook. He is 24 years old, some of the girls he adds he haven't even seen since high school. He has pretty lengthy conversations with them sometimes even very late at night.

He even added his prom date from high school who he didn't see since they graduated and at one point told her "you were beautiful in prom" and sent her another message saying "miss your face dude" which she didn't reply to. She sings and has her little band and suddenly he's like "I will write a song for you to sing", and says things like "we should get together and play music someday" (he plays the guitar).

All the girls he chats with are coincidentally good looking too. Not that I feel threatened by them or anything because I know I am good looking my self, but I just find it weird that he only chooses to talk to the girls who are pretty.

In their conversations, it's not just "hey long time, how have you been doing, glad you're ok" kind of thing. They are lengthy conversations with a lot of questions.

I am annoyed by the fact that he always hits up girls. I am sure if I did the same to him, if I talk to a lot of handsome guys on Facebook, then he would feel concerned too.

I don't know if I am overreacting or not. I am sure he is just being friendly but there's a line that he shouldn't cross and I feel like what he's doing is inappropriate and unfair to me.

What is your opinion? And how do you think I should confront him?

Note: I found out about those conversations when he gave his laptop to me to use it. I always noticed when I look at his screen when he's using it that he always has fb chat boxes with girls and so I decided to check for myself. I know it's not ok to snoop and what I did is wrong, but this is what I found and I'm really worried.

My boyfriend and I are in a great relationship. We have been together for 9 months now.

However, I noticed that he talks to a lot of girls that he knows in Facebook. He adds them and initiates chats with them on Facebook. He is 24 years old, some of the girls he adds he haven't even seen since high school. He has pretty lengthy conversations with them sometimes even very late at night.

He even added his prom date from high school who he didn't see since they graduated and at one point told her "you were beautiful in prom" and sent her another message saying "miss your face dude" which she didn't reply to. She sings and has her little band and suddenly he's like "I will write a song for you to sing", and says things like "we should get together and play music someday" (he plays the guitar).

All the girls he chats with are coincidentally good looking too. Not that I feel threatened by them or anything because I know I am good looking my self, but I just find it weird that he only chooses to talk to the girls who are pretty.

In their conversations, it's not just "hey long time, how have you been doing, glad you're ok" kind of thing. They are lengthy conversations with a lot of questions.

I am annoyed by the fact that he always hits up girls. I am sure if I did the same to him, if I talk to a lot of handsome guys on Facebook, then he would feel concerned too.

I don't know if I am overreacting or not. I am sure he is just being friendly but there's a line that he shouldn't cross and I feel like what he's doing is inappropriate and unfair to me.

What is your opinion? And how do you think I should confront him?

Note: I found out about those conversations when he gave his laptop to me to use it. I always noticed when I look at his screen when he's using it that he always has fb chat boxes with girls and so I decided to check for myself. I know it's not ok to snoop and what I did is wrong, but this is what I found and I'm really worried.

My boyfriend and I are in a great relationship. We have been together for 9 months now.

However, I noticed that he talks to a lot of girls that he knows in Facebook. He adds them and initiates chats with them on Facebook. He is 24 years old, some of the girls he adds he haven't even seen since high school. He has pretty lengthy conversations with them sometimes even very late at night.

He even added his prom date from high school who he didn't see since they graduated and at one point told her "you were beautiful in prom" and sent her another message saying "miss your face dude" which she didn't reply to. She sings and has her little band and suddenly he's like "I will write a song for you to sing", and says things like "we should get together and play music someday" (he plays the guitar).

All the girls he chats with are coincidentally good looking too. Not that I feel threatened by them or anything because I know I am good looking my self, but I just find it weird that he only chooses to talk to the girls who are pretty.

In their conversations, it's not just "hey long time, how have you been doing, glad you're ok" kind of thing. They are lengthy conversations with a lot of questions.

I am annoyed by the fact that he always hits up girls. I am sure if I did the same to him, if I talk to a lot of handsome guys on Facebook, then he would feel concerned too.

I don't know if I am overreacting or not. I am sure he is just being friendly but there's a line that he shouldn't cross and I feel like what he's doing is inappropriate and unfair to me.

What is your opinion? And how do you think I should confront him?

Note: I found out about those conversations when he gave his laptop to me to use it. I always noticed when I look at his screen when he's using it that he always has fb chat boxes with girls and so I decided to check for myself. I know it's not ok to snoop and what I did is wrong, but this is what I found and I'm really worried.

My boyfriend and I are in a great relationship. We have been together for 9 months now.

However, I noticed that he talks to a lot of girls that he knows in Facebook. He adds them and initiates chats with them on Facebook. He is 24 years old, some of the girls he adds he haven't even seen since high school. He has pretty lengthy conversations with them sometimes even very late at night.

He even added his prom date from high school who he didn't see since they graduated and at one point told her "you were beautiful in prom" and sent her another message saying "miss your face dude" which she didn't reply to. She sings and has her little band and suddenly he's like "I will write a song for you to sing", and says things like "we should get together and play music someday" (he plays the guitar).

All the girls he chats with are coincidentally good looking too. Not that I feel threatened by them or anything because I know I am good looking my self, but I just find it weird that he only chooses to talk to the girls who are pretty.

In their conversations, it's not just "hey long time, how have you been doing, glad you're ok" kind of thing. They are lengthy conversations with a lot of questions.

I am annoyed by the fact that he always hits up girls. I am sure if I did the same to him, if I talk to a lot of handsome guys on Facebook, then he would feel concerned too.

I don't know if I am overreacting or not. I am sure he is just being friendly but there's a line that he shouldn't cross and I feel like what he's doing is inappropriate and unfair to me.

What is your opinion? And how do you think I should confront him?

Note: I found out about those conversations when he gave his laptop to me to use it. I always noticed when I look at his screen when he's using it that he always has fb chat boxes with girls and so I decided to check for myself. I know it's not ok to snoop and what I did is wrong, but this is what I found and I'm really worried.

Do you think it's appropriate for my boyfriend to comment on Facebook on one of his girl - friend's pictures wearing a bikini saying "cakes" (referring to her butt)?

He also recently commented on another friend's photo saying "you look so beautiful"!

I don't care if he looks at other girls pictures, he can look as much as he wants, that's what Facebook is for. But commenting is what actually made me kinda mad. He's not even THAT close with these girls. They're just acquaintances from back when he was in college that he doesn't keep in touch with anymore.

I am a good looking girl, I am actually beautiful. He tells me I'm beautiful all the time so it's not like he's commenting on others but ignoring me.

What do you think?

Do you think it's appropriate for my boyfriend to comment on Facebook on one of his girl - friend's pictures wearing a bikini saying "cakes" (referring to her butt)?

He also recently commented on another friend's photo saying "you look so beautiful"!

I don't care if he looks at other girls pictures, he can look as much as he wants, that's what Facebook is for. But commenting is what actually made me kinda mad. He's not even THAT close with these girls. They're just acquaintances from back when he was in college that he doesn't keep in touch with anymore.

What do you think?

Do you think it's appropriate for my boyfriend to comment on Facebook on one of his girl - friend's pictures wearing a bikini saying "cakes" (referring to her butt)?

He also recently commented on another friend's picture saying: You look so beautiful!

Do you think it's appropriate for my boyfriend to comment on Facebook on one of his girl - friend's pictures wearing a bikini saying "cakes" (referring to her ***)?