Monty

I was catfished online for 8 years. I know I'm a idiot. That said I want to track him down. What should be my next move ? I found the guy pics he used but all I from the catfish is a fake name an texting app number

I was catfished online for 8 years. I know I'm a idiot. That said I want to track him down. What should be my next move ?

So I met this guy at work we become pretty cool purely friendship. Everything was cool he had a odd sense of humor besides that cool. He bought me a small present. He opened up about his brother who was shot and paralyzed an his ex who left him bc of it. Told me he never talked about it before. Then slowly he started to get weird getting mad if I didn t text back fast enough or overreacting to everything. Then his ex came back from Cali an his brother went into the hospital. Then everything went nuts. It started with him buying me another gift. When I asked where he got it he snapped saying I didn t trust him etc I can t count on him. He then spent the next week apologizing sending countless an I mean countless texts how he just snapped with his ex back messing with his head an his brother back in the Er. I said ok but work friends only. He Kept trying to explain. I was laid off an told him to cease contact. Nothing for a month then yesterday got this

Hey I was cleaning out my work email an found our number. I still feel embarrassed an so much remorse and regret bc how I acted towards you. Since we last talked I ve attended meetings three days a week to deal with my past issues. Looking back on it I realized three things

1. I made you the face of my problems an chipped away at you until you left

2 I liked you more then i wanted too admit.

3 if I would of just talked to you like a man we probably would of stayed friends

So I met this guy at work we become pretty cool purely friendship. Everything was cool he had a odd sense of humor besides that cool. He bought me a small present. He opened up about his brother who was shot and paralyzed an his ex who left him bc of it. Told me he never talked about it before. Then slowly he started to get weird getting mad if I didn t text back fast enough or overreacting to everything. Then his ex came back from Cali an his brother went into the hospital. Then everything went nuts. It started with him buying me another gift. When I asked where he got it he snapped saying I didn t trust him etc I can t count on him. He then spent the next week apologizing sending countless an I mean countless texts how he just snapped with his ex back messing with his head an his brother back in the Er. I said ok but work friends only. He Kept trying to explain. I was laid off an told him to cease contact. Nothing for a month then yesterday got this

Hey I was cleaning out my work email an found our number. I still feel embarrassed an so much remorse and regret bc how I acted towards you. Since we last talked I ve attended meetings three days a week to deal with my past issues. Looking back on it I realized three things

1. I made you the face of my problems an chipped away at you until you left

2 I liked you more then i wanted too admit.

3 if I would of just talked to you like a man we probably would of stayed friends

I met this cool female an became friends at work. Everything was cool for about a month. Last week an ex who left when my brother got shot an paralyzed came back after close to 10 years. Only person I ever really opened up to about my brother was my new friend. With my ex back an my brother back in the hospital emotions I buried came back all at once. An I lashed out at me new friend. Saying she should understand. Then I spent the next 3 days via text trying to explain an apologize. Probably sent 40 texts to her 5. Anyway she cancelled our plans outside of work said we are ok but only should talk at work. Haven't said a word to one another in three days. I fully get I got clingy an honestly weird. Just lost my mind for a week. Any advice? Any coming back from this?

I met this cool female at work. We hit it off for about a month. Purely friendship. Last week my ex who left for Cali after my brother was shot came back. This bought up feelings I've buried for a long time. I took my frustrations out on my new friend. Then got really weird try to apologize an explain sending her WAY too many texts. I fully realize how weird I got. She said it was ok. Clearly isn't didn't say one Word to one another. The friendship is done but she's awesome an didn't deserve how I acted. We only work together till mid April. After we no longer work together I was thinking about getting her Beyoncé ticks an emailing her them. She's a huge fan Just to say take care an sorry. Is that creepy?

I met this cool female at work. We hit it off for about a month. Purely friendship. Last week my ex who left for Cali after my brother was shot came back. This bought up feelings I've buried for a long time. I took my frustrations out on my new friend. Then got really weird try to apologize an explain sending her WAY too many texts. I fully realize how weird I got. She said it was ok. Clearly isn't didn't say one Word to one another. The friendship is done but she's awesome an didn't deserve how I acted. We only work together till mid April. After we no longer work together I was thinking about getting her Beyoncé ticks an emailing her them. She's a huge fan Just to say take care an sorry. Is that creepy?

I met this cool female at work. We hit it off for about a month. Purely friendship. Last week my ex who left for Cali after my brother was shot came back. This bought up feelings I've buried for a long time. I took my frustrations out on my new friend. Then got really weird try to apologize an explain sending her WAY too many texts. I fully realize how weird I got. She said it was ok. Clearly isn't didn't say one Word to one another

Met this guy at work. Really cool for the first 4 weeks then got really really weird for week. Sending me texts telling me all his problems an how he could use a friend. Sending me 7 or 8 texts at a time. Then getting mad at me when I didn't reply. Then he wouldn't stop trying to explain he just had a bad week. Sending text after text. His uncle passed an his paralyzed brother was back in the hospital Since he's been cool again in the last week. What should I think? Bad week!? Or is that who he really is

Met this guy at work. Really cool for the first 4 weeks then got really really weird for week. Sending me texts telling me all his problems an how he could use a friend. Sending me 7 or 8 texts at a time. Then getting mad at me when I didn't reply. Then he wouldn't stop trying to explain he just had a bad week. Sending text after text. Since he's been cool again in the last week. What should I think? Bad week!? Or is that who he really is

I started a new job in jan. As luck would have it was seat next to a woman who I hit it off with. Purely friendship. Two weeks ago my ex moved back an contacted me. It bought back a lot of emotions I buried. An I leaned on my friend for help Few days later my uncle passed Admittedly I got really weird on her conenstly texting her an taking my frustrations out on her from my ex. We planned to hangout outside of work an she's called that off an said I've made her uncomfortable. She is considering moving seats. Anything I can do to salvage the friendship or is damaged done

I started a new job in jan. As luck would have it was seat next to a woman who I hit it off with. Purely friendship. Two weeks ago my ex moved back an contacted me. It bought back a lot of emotions I buried. An I leaned on my friend for help Admittedly I got really weird on her conenstly texting her an taking my frustrations out on her from my ex. We planned to hangout outside of work an she's called that off an said I've made her uncomfortable. She is considering moving seats. Anything I can do to salvage the friendship or is damaged done

I started a new job in jan. As luck would have it was seat next to a woman who I hit it off with. Purely friendship. Two weeks ago my ex moved back an contacted me. It bought back a lot of emotions I buried. An I leaned on my friend for help Admittedly I got really weird on her conenstly texting her an taking my frustrations out on her from my ex. We planned to hangout outside of work an she's called that off an said I've made her uncomfortable. She is considering moving seats. Anything I can do to salvage the friendship or is damaged done

I started a new job in jan. As luck would have it was seat next to a woman who I hit it off with. Purely friendship. Two weeks ago my ex moved back an contacted me. It bought back a lot of emotions I buried. An I leaned on my friend for help Admittedly I got really weird on her conenstly texting her an taking my frustrations out on her from my ex. We planned to hangout outside of work an she's called that off an said I've made her uncomfortable. She is considering moving seats. Anything I can do to salvage the friendship or is damaged done?

On the show they seem to track the person down no problem. Is it really that easy or is it staged ?

atfished online pretty bad. All I have is there IP address an texts from a texting app. How can I track them down? Would a pi do it?