byrrdinca

I went on vacation for 3 weeks back in Dec to my hometown. My husband had no vacation time so he couldn't go. We didn't talk much while I was gone, but he claims we did. He bought a new cell phone (I think his girlfriend bought it), but I took the old phone and put my sim card in it and that is when I discovered text messages from a co-worker that he claimed was just business (1000 text message a month). He denied anything, so one day he was in the shower and i took his cell phone and read the messages that he had just sent to her...they were i love u and miss u...so forth and so on. He said i mis-interrupted the text (yeah right), so i told him i better not c one more text message to this number. So he goes out and buys a prepaid phone (thinking i didn't know). I found the prepaid phone last week and the text messages were the same but now the area code is different. I wouldn't tell him I found the cell phone, I just asked him about the text messages. He denied everything and even having a phone. We have a 5 year old daughter and i'm ready to just leave. Do you think the text messages is enough evidence that he's in love with her and have moved on? We have been married 24 years!

I've reconnected with an old friend from my childhood on facebook!

As we were getting reaquainted, he told me that he had a "fling" with one of my female cousin's that lived in our town. I didn't know that him and my cousin ever went out. He said he didn't know how to tell me but wanted me to know because he didn't want me to find out later!!

Is it crossing the line if I started dating him knowing that he went out with her?

with your husband/wife will make them cheat?