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Matey
Truths and half truths in a relationship?
First things first, I take relationships seriously. I've always known that but up until this period of my life, this current one, has been the only one that I've taken this seriously. As a matter of fact, when I began dating my current girlfriend I told myself and her that I'll never ever lie and never twist the truth even if it hurts (which I've done, literally without any exceptions for a year and three months now).
The thing is, she told me the same thing but didn't quite live up to the word. She had a couple of huge lies which involved flirting with a friend of mine and not telling me about it nor the fact that he responded to it (she didn't cheat but I'm strictly against flirting when with someone) and a bunch of other things without cheating, as far as I know. The thing is, I completely lost my trust in her when that happened but due to the fact that I truly love her, I continued this relationship without any regrets. However, even now things seem to pop up and some twisted truth or something that I hate appears. My question(s) is/are simple; How should I react to situations like that? Is the fact that I want the whole truth, non-stop that huge of a factor and is that not something couples do? I want to know the things that happen as soon as they happen because that's what I've been doing. In fact, how do I respond to situations like that in general (like lying, flirting) in a relationship? I'd really love to hear some advice guys, thank you in advance. We're both 20.
3 AnswersSingles & Dating6 years agoQuestion about facebook conversations and the chat system?
I don't want to go into details about it so I'll keep it short and sweet; Is it possible for a whole conversation to get deleted by itself without you doing it manually? Is that some sort of a bug or does it have to be deleted manually the usual way? A whole conversation disappeared from my girlfriend's facebook, which had some pretty valuable information and she claims she didn't delete it.
2 AnswersFacebook6 years agoFirst time sex troubles? (Male)?
Previously I had trouble getting my ***** in my current relationship but I got over that and while I can get it up, so to speak, it usually, I admit doesn't last long but at least it happens.
My current problem lies in having sex. Yup, pathetic. Either way, here it goes. We do all the pre-stuff and everything is usually smooth even though at times, it can be hard to get a *****, before putting it in, my erection completely fades out. Especially in the missionary pose, which was suggested to me by every friend that I can ask for first time sexual intercourse.
Does jerking off reduce my sex drive and how do I fix this? Any suggestions are appreciated.
2 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships6 years agoTrust issues in a relationship?
Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 5 months now and we've had our ups and downs, I don't want to over exaggerate, because this is mostly a problem that I have with myself, rather than the two of us. A few months back, we had a little bit of an argument about a guy that was hitting on her, she refused him, of course and that meant a lot to me, not to add the fact that the same exact guys tried to get friendly with me, but she didn't tell me about that until at least two months passed from the chat she had with him. She also lied to me about going out alone, when in fact, she went to see a friend of hers, male, which I'm sure is only a childhood friend, as she's also refused him way, way before me. However, that's when my trust issues started to kick-in.
I'm honest to the bone type of guy. About everything and anything.
The real problem starts right now, since she's on vacation with her friends. Ten days in Paris, which already passed and 10 more days in Spain.
I'm feeling insecure about the whole situation. I'm back at home, we talk as much as we can, of course, but I'm having doubts. Not about her cheating on me, no, no way that's gonna happen, she's not the type of a girl. I'm afraid of her getting flirty with others or getting too friendly, or if tipsy, perhaps even doing something. How can I help myself? Anything would be appreciated, especially since I want to save my relationship and her worries. And flirting is not acceptable to me, when in relationship.
4 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years agoTrust issues in general?
3 AnswersElections7 years agoSexual anxiety?
Last question I post on this topic, I promise, but I'm really worried.
Third or fourth question in the last couple of days but I really wanna make sure nothing is wrong with me. Ever since the time I couldn't get aroused with my girlfriend which really means a lot to me I've been conscious about this "problem". It may not be a problem, I may be overreacting but I can't get it out of my head, literally. It's on my mind for the last 7 days non-stop. It's not normal for a 18 year old not to be able to get a *****. Only time I'm able to get a hard-on is when I'm jerking off, but I stopped masturbating for the last 3 days just in case. Even when I fantasize in my head, I can't seem to get myself aroused which is worrying me. The lack of morning wood is not helping AT ALL. I'm stopping with drinking, even though I don't drink a lot. I'm not a smoker... so what in the world is going on with me? I talked to one friend which had some pretty encouraging words for me, saying that it's because I'm a virgin and that it will come back with time, the boners that is. But I never seemed to have problems two-three years back. I could get aroused by just having a girl sit in my lap. So what in the world is going on with me? I'm starting to freak out.
1 AnswerMental Health7 years agoNervousness, sexual anxiety?
Last question I post on this topic, I promise, but I'm really worried.
Third or fourth question in the last couple of days but I really wanna make sure nothing is wrong with me. Ever since the time I couldn't get aroused with my girlfriend which really means a lot to me I've been conscious about this "problem". It may not be a problem, I may be overreacting but I can't get it out of my head, literally. It's on my mind for the last 7 days non-stop. It's not normal for a 18 year old not to be able to get a *****. Only time I'm able to get a hard-on is when I'm jerking off, but I stopped masturbating for the last 3 days just in case. Even when I fantasize in my head, I can't seem to get myself aroused which is worrying me. The lack of morning wood is not helping AT ALL. I'm stopping with drinking, even though I don't drink a lot. I'm not a smoker... so what in the world is going on with me? I talked to one friend which had some pretty encouraging words for me, saying that it's because I'm a virgin and that it will come back with time, the boners that is. But I never seemed to have problems two-three years back. I could get aroused by just having a girl sit in my lap. So what in the world is going on with me? I'm starting to freak out.
Thank you in advance.
5 AnswersPsychology7 years agoSexual anxiety?
I asked a question a couple of days ago here on yahoo answers about my so called sexual nervousness and how should I solve it. I simply can't get hard. Simple as that. And it's worrying me, because I'm an 18 year old, healthy male. Can the excessive masturbation be the cause of it?
Another fact that's been worrying me since Yesterday is the fact that I told my girlfriend about it, about not being able to get hard around her and stuff like that and I can could tell it makes her less confident around me. It's up to the point where it might ruin my relationship of three months with a girl I really love and means to me.
Any suggestions would be nice and appreciated.
4 AnswersPsychology7 years agoSexual anxiety?
I asked a question a couple of days ago here on yahoo answers about my so called sexual nervousness and how should I solve it. I simply can't get hard. Simple as that. And it's worrying me, because I'm an 18 year old, healthy male. Can the excessive masturbation be the cause of it?
Another fact that's been worrying me since Yesterday is the fact that I told my girlfriend about it, about not being able to get hard around her and stuff like that and I can could tell it makes her less confident around me. It's up to the point where it might ruin my relationship of three months with a girl I really love and means to me.
Any suggestions would be nice and appreciated.
4 AnswersMen's Health7 years agoNervousness, erection problem, too much masturbation or something worse?
Before I start, I must admit I'm embarrassed to no return. Never have I before been so embarrassed in my life about anything, literally. So please bear with me.
18 years old, which is why I'm terribly worried about it, average male. If you'd ask me couple of months ago, I'd pretty much be embarrassed about having a ***** when with a girl that I really care about. Naturally, it took me a while but I got past that point. In fact, I really do ******* want to have one, especially the last couple of weeks.
Ever since I got with my new girlfriend, roughly 2 months, I've been thinking and having the same problem. I can't seem to maintain or even have a *****. Last night, pretty much piss drunk, we were making out in the park and it got a bit more serious but I couldn't get hard so I had to think of an excuse which resulted in us stopping. I've been really mad at myself and I'm quite frankly, worried. I've also noticed that I don't get morning erections as much as I use to.
Ever since I've known about myself, I've been masturbating although the last year has been a bit... excessive, if I can put it like that. It happens everyday at least two times. However, I've also had days when I masturbate 5-6 times. Can the excessive masturbation be the issue that I'm having, nervousness or something beyond that? I'm scared as hell and I seriously need some solutions.
Note: I do love my girlfriend and I am physically attracted to her, so I don't think that's the problem.
1 AnswerMen's Health7 years agoIs this a decent configuration for gaming?
ASUS Desktop PC CM6730-WB002D Intel® i5-2300 Processor, MB Intel H61 Chipset, Graphics GeForce GT520 (2GRAM), RAM Memory 6G DDR3 1600Mhz, 1TB hard drive (7200RPM), DVD-RW 24x, 1 x PCI-e3.0 x 16, 1 x PCI-e2.0 x 4 (PCI-e x16 slot), 1 x PCI-e2.0 x 2, 4 x SATA 3.0Gb/s ports, 2 x SATA 6.0 Gb/s ports, ALC892, 8 Channel Audio, Power Supply Peak 500W, DVD-RW 24x, 1 x Keyboard (USB), 1 x Mouse (USB), 1 x Warranty Card, 1 x Power Cord, 1 x Quick Manual
Would I be able to play the newer games?
3 AnswersDesktops8 years agoA question about MAJOR the anime?
So,a simple question. Will Goro end up with Shizumu,and if they do which season/episode is that?
Thanks in advance. :)
3 AnswersComics & Animation9 years agoAnimes with cool main chars!!!?
okay read this i want someone like Ryoma from PoT ... or ichigo from bleach cool guy not like naruto,a cool male lead that makes you say "OMG i cant believe he did this"
mb like Alexander from Seikon no Qwaser all tho. the anime sucks the Alex is the best.
and dont give me stupid chars plz!
2 AnswersComics & Animation1 decade agoTsubasa Chronicles Does it have a happy ending?
okay im sick of animes with tragic endings and i really hope that this manga/anime has a happy ending ? DONT SPOIL HOW IT WILL END!!!
6 AnswersComics & Animation1 decade agoWill Saito from Zero no Tsukaima die?
he battled 7 m. army did he died after that ... or what happened can you explain? : )
3 AnswersComics & Animation1 decade agoTsubasa Chronicle,xxxHolic and cardcaptor sakura ?
i think in all the animes Syaron li is a char ... the author of the manga made 3 animes with same chars...
-since i've only read tsubasa plz answer this ...?
5 AnswersComics & Animation1 decade agoCode Geass fans please be sure to check this : (?!?
OKAY I DIDINT WATCHED CODE GEASS BECAUSE I THO. THE MAIN CHAR WILL DIE IN THE LAST EPISODE OF CODE GEAS R2 ...and i hate when the main char dies ... so HOW COME THEY WILL MAKE R3 ANSWER ME BACAUSE IM GOING CRAZY!!!!!
5 AnswersComics & Animation1 decade agoA question about Detective Conan the anime?!?!?
-1st i want to know if they will ever find out that Conan turned to be small again ... second cause i hate when the main char is not know because the became small ex. will he ever become big,
ive only watched one episode and its really bothering me since i've watch it ... and if you believe me its been over a year -_-' and now i cant help it but to ask : (
2 AnswersComics & Animation1 decade agoA question about Detective Conan the anime?!?!?
-1st i want to know if they will ever find out that Conan turned to be small again ... second cause i hate when the main char is not know because the became small ex. will he ever become big,
ive only watched one episode and its really bothering me since i've watch it ... and if you believe me its been over a year -_-' and now i cant help it but to ask : (
2 AnswersComics & Animation1 decade agoin the anime naruto can any1 tell what episode will naruto fight pain?
im currious and dont spill SPOILERS!! plz just tell me is it soon or not ...
2 AnswersComics & Animation1 decade ago