Curious

I had a very bad experience when I gave birth to my daughter. I had a second degree tear, the placenta would come out and it was bleeding and was almost scheduled for a blood transfusion because i lost too much blood while giving birth and i couldn't stand up for a week because the epidural made it feel like someone was hitting me in the back of my head with a baseball bat almost paralyzing pain and now when i think about sex, it makes me sick to my stomach. it has nothing to do with him but when I think of anything touching my lady parts it turns my stomach. I think i may have been traumatized in that labor and delivery room and I don't want anymore kids EVER and I hated being pregnant, but he does, he at least wants a boy to carry on his name. I have had a few tell me that i will change my mind but i don't know if i will and the only way to not get pregnant is to not have sex. i do feel however, that its unfair to him although he told me to take as much time as I needed. I know that its not a big deal to him right now because he has a lot on his plate right now.. school full time for his bachelors degree, he just became licensed to do real estate so now he has to get established in that, he has a full time job, our baby and me... but i know that eventually i will have to give my self to him but just the thought of sex turns me off completely. I sometimes miss that between the two of us but its so awkward when we do kiss and the baby cry's, its a turn off for both of us??? has anyone else felt like this or do I need to seek counseling?

I haven't had a period since march 2010. My periods have always been irregular up until I started birth control in 2007 and they were like clock work. My husband and I decided to start a family so I stopped the pill in April 2011 and my period went back to irregular. We started trying in May with many disappointing pregnancy test. I went to the doctor a week and a half ago and they did my yearly exam and found that I had a yeast infection that I have had for quite some time and didn't really know what it was. they took a pregnancy test and it was negative. (Due to stress, my husband and I haven't been intimate for weeks BUT for the past few weeks my breast have been really sore, my ovary feels like it has a headache and I have been tired. Its only been in the past 4 days that I have been lightly nauseated. I decided to take a pregnancy test (I did three dollar store test) and all of them are positive. My concern it, we don't know if we should be happy or not??. Would the yeast infection have caused negative results in the doctors test?? I am going to go to the doctor for a blood test instead of a urine test. I did talk to the lady at american family care and she said it was very possible that the doctors test could have been affected by the yeast infection (which is all cleared up now for the past few days so the pregnancy test that I took was after the yeast infection was cleared up). Has anyone else every heard of this?

My husband and I just started trying to conceive but I have heard so much bad stuff about pregnancy such as women die during delivery, infections happening, stuff going wrong with the baby and I am terrified of needles so the idea of a fat needle going in my spinal cord scares me.We are very excited and we are ready after 4 yrs of marriage. My family is VERY fertile but I have irregular periods - They were regular on birth control - (I stopped birth control April 1st 2011). We have only been trying since May 5th 2011, so It may be too soon to tell if I am pregnant or not but I don't have "pregnancy" symptoms such as sore breast, cramping, etc.. Should I just relax and wait to see what happens? It's driving me crazy. i never knew that planning for a baby would make me so anxious. We are just doing the natural and waiting. We are not really trying we are just doing because trying can be too stressful. I am 29 years old (the same age that my mom was when she had me) We don't have any diseases that run in the family but my mom did have a miscarriage once due to abuse. (Does miscarriage run in the family???) Just curious.

I wanted to know what is steel fabricating?

Im 25 now & have been married for 7months.when i got married i was a virgin.i was just wonderin why the first time hurts so bad?it was like sandpaper & razor blades 4 me & i would NEVER go back 2 experience that again if i could,it was almost the WORST pain i have ever had besides an abscessed tooth.I bleed a little bit but it felt like he was cramming a coke bottle or something in there.he was VERY gentle with me & waited on me for 5 years(til we got married).also some say that it only hurts for the first time.it hurt me 4 about a week.does it all depend on the size of the penis?or the vagina?obviously I was very small cuz i was a virgin,& he is not circumcised so it was very painful for him also.he is well endowed,so would it have been less painful for him if he had been circumcised?i also wonder how people would want to do it again after that much pain. i know after my first time i didn't wanna do it anymore but i had to(only cause i was married). it's much MUCH better now.

My husband has a few little hairs on his penis and they cut me right on the inside, how do we safely remove these hairs without irritating his skin? his has never shaved before. will nair hair removal hurt him? i use nair on my genital area (the hair was uncomfortable to him and i had never shaved before either) and it didn't bother me but i don't know how it would do on him and i don't want any skin problems. what is the best method?

I was just wondering. i usually make him move after he ejaculates, but i didn't make him move the last time we had sex. if he ejaculated 2 times inside, does it make it more of a chance to get pregnant?