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My dog is three years old. And since I've been at uni my parents have spoilt her rotten. I have four other dogs who are all older than her and she grew up with them. But she hates it when I pay attention to them (particularly one in particular) and when she smells them on me or sees me playing with them she starts whining and runs off. Is this normal?

This has happened to me about three times now. Going through airport security and as I go through one of the men has been at my side like a guide dog asking me all sorts of personal questions and complimenting my looks. Don't they have anything better to do? As much as it's flattering (and a bit intimidating) I know that outside of that kind of situation they probably wouldn't be ballsy enough to do the same. On one occasion I had all my stuff packed and was trying to make a break for it but the guy kept trying to flirt and asking me to say something to him in Spanish.

My friend s and I made brownies with about £30 worth of weed in them. We did everything your supposed to do to give the THC time to release. We started eating them about 1 hour ago, we ve eaten more but we still can t feel anything. What did we do wrong? We both feel different and really hot. But not high. Should we have more?

How do people like DMX, Katt Williams, Chris Brown etc get away with repeatedly offending and violating their probation? Especially in a country where people (African American in particular) seem to be so harshly treated by the law?

I'm 19 years old and in my second year of university. I make friends quite easily and I am a loyal friend. But emotionally I'm quite closed off to many people with the exception of a few friends and family. The problem I have is that I see the tiniest things as an attack. Like a friend not inviting me somewhere or hanging out with someone I introduced them to without me. And I'll go through phases where I HATE a friend for something they did which I perceive as an attack. I don't argue with anyone, I just kind of cut them off briefly. I get tired of most people very easily as well. I feel like everyone hates me, pretends to be my friend and looks down on me and I also haven't had a boyfriend in ages because I'm the same with guys and have trouble opening up. I also tend to feel like people only want to be around me because I'm (not to brag) quite hot and funny but I feel like they only want to befriend me to be my friend when it's convenient for them.

I am 19, 1.67m tall and I weigh 58 kilos. And I know some people will read this and roll their eyes. I gained 8 kilos in my first year at uni. I normally fluctuate between 50 and 54 and I feel heavier. I have no eating problems, I don't count calories and I have no desire to lose the curves I've gained but I want to look more toned. I feel different and not in a good way.

I know some people say astrology is nonsense. I m a Gemini, and before it fitted my personality perfectly. But as I ve grown up (I m now 19) a lot of my traits are more Scorpio/ Taurus like. I am a much more loyal friend and I am very stubborn. I also will fiercely defend people even when it s not entirely necessary. Is it just a coincidence? Or do people s signs change?

I have six dogs, and the one thing they all have in common is a mutual obsession with my mum. My mum is a very firm person, and she doesn t pay them any attention most of the time. In spite of this, any time she s in the garden they follow her around even if she shoos them off, they are extremely obedient to her, they and if she ever stroked one of them they get extremely excited. As she isn t the person who feeds, walks or plays with them, why do they love her so much.

I ordered a bullet one and it'll take 2 weeks to arrive. What can I use that'll be as pleasing?

Got my rook done on Friday. It was sooo painful to get pierced but after the initial piercing it was painless, I didn't even know it was there. I had to wash my hair that day because of a hair treatment but I leant over so no water touched it, and I went out that night and I do remember it being knocked. I cleaned it the next day with saline, and it was painless, it wasn't bleeding, or red. I made sure not to sleep directly on it either. About two days ago I tripped and kind of face planted on the side where my rook was (amazingly). I cleaned it that night (I clean it twice a day) and then last night I started to notice that my ear was very sore, I took a photo and my ear was so swollen where the piercing is. I didn't panic, I saline soaked it and took ibuprofen but it's still swollen and tender. Do you think it's infected? Also I haven't been sleeping much lately, is this why it isn't healing?

I love piercings, I always have (even as a little girl) and since moving to uni and being outside of my parents control I have gotten 3. I got my septum done in late September, it was done through the sweet spot and not my cartilage. I clean all my piercings twice a day w/ saline and once in a while w/ saline and a little tea tree oil. I got my cartilage done two weeks ago. My septum piercing has had its moments, I got a cold after having had it for a month and that really affected it, but now it's perfectly fine, I can move it around (which I avoid doing), it's not sore but it does still weep a little. My cartilage is no longer swollen, I can sleep on it (I don't, but I know I can rest on it without it being sore). I just hate how naked my other ear is 😪 I have four piercings on my left and 2 on my right. I wanna get a forward helix piercing. How long would you suggest that I wait?

I got a double helix piercing about a week ago. I got it done all in one session, both with captive bead rings. It was soo sore on the day (as expected) and now it's not sore. But when after I clean it it starts to hurt again, I can't move my rings either. I can only move them up or down, but I can't rotate them. Is this normal? And the top one bleeds when I clean it. This is what worries me. There is no pus or whatever. I have 5 other puercings none of which are on cartilage or have gotten infected and I clean this piercing twice a day, don't sleep on it and I NEVER touch it.

Basically I gave someone a sort of "morning surprise", and this guy came like mad. I told him to warn be before because I didn't want him to *** in my mouth because I'd never given head, and the thought of swallowing someone's ejaculage disgusted me. He told me when it was too late and then aimed his penis down and came on me, but some went in my mouth. I'm just curious as to why some guys would deliberately **** on someone's face. This guy came for ages! Is that normal? And finally his *** tasted disgusting, it tasted a lot like aloe Vera juice. Is that normal?

I met this guy at the start of uni. He seemed nice, but the first time we hung out he tried to kiss me when we were alone and I don t do things like that with people I don t know, so I turned him down. He tried to meet up with me for like a month, the next time we hung out we ended up having sex. He was too rough and I regretted it, but he seemed really shocked at how I ran off afterwards and kept trying to make plans. The next time I saw him we hung out casually, although he did talk about sex a lot, and he made me dinner. Two weeks later, he ended up sleeping over. He apologised for everything and kept talking about "next time" (I didn t feel like that was necessary) while I was sleeping though he was touching me and basically ting to stick his sick in between my legs and grinding. I found that super weird but it also felt really good, he stayed over all the next day. We didn t have sex, because I don t want to take that risk again. And I know this probably seems odd, he s a nice guy, he s smart, he s reliable gets along with my friends and he actually really wanted to meet them, but when he gets horny he can be so aggressive. But at the same time it s so arousing, he wants us to date but I couldn t have a relationship with someone who won t make love to me. Also today I gave him head and he came all over my face and chest, something no one has ever done to me, so I don t know what to assume from that. Should I avoid him altogether? Or should I try dating him without sex?

I got my septum pierced about 7 weeks ago, I love it sooo much. I ve always loved piercings, but because of my parents I wasn t allowed any. My septum was my first "unconventional" piercing. I love facial piercings, but I also think I navel piercing would look great on me. But I feel like a septum and belly ring alone are quite clashy and don t make sense. Also I know belly rings constantly get caught on **** but I ve heard that cartilage piercings are very bad at healing. So which one s pros outweigh the cons? Thank you x

Basically I am a first year student. I really want to get a job, but it seems most of the vacancies are at old peoples homes. This isn't a very appealing job, I know it's a good way to help out etc but honestly I just want some of my own money in my pockets. I'm not very squeamish or emotional and I'm good with people, plus I feel guilty over not being there for my grandfather during his dying days so I was thinking it'd be a good way to get closure. What I wanna know is, is the pay good? i live in Brighton, England by the way.

I pierced my septum two days ago and I LOVE it! However, my parents HATE it. My dad will be here in a month so I was thinking of flipping it or getting a bar and lying that I don't have t anymore. My piercer said this piercing will take 4 months to heal and I have to wait for months before I change my jewellery. I find this surprising because in my case they actually pierced my sweet spot and NOT cartilage. Also most sources suggest waiting two months. Is my piercer right?