srgriffin

I just found out I was pregnant June 13 and I was between 4 or 4 and 1/2 weeks then, so now im 5 or 5 and 1/2 weeks and I can't remember wen exactly my last period was so can anyone tell me about wen I conceived? Thanks

my husband and i have been married a year.we only dated a month,and only knew each other very briefly before we dated.I am 26 and he is 41.When were dating everything was fine,when we decided to get married my family didnt want me to marry him.He had just gotten out of prison and he was a known drug addict.I myself was recovering from drug abuse.We had a great relationship at first,a little time went by and I started to realize he was a little on the controlling side,it was little things like him not wanting me to go visit my sister an hour away for example.Then he started to be very critical about everything I did,if i cooked it didnt have enough salt,or if I dyed my hair a different color other than brown it didnt impress him he would say, we started arguing really bad,things went on just like this but everything got worse,he treats me like I am 10 years old. he really acts like he is so much smarter than me,for example,a song will come on the radio if i dont know who sings it he has to give me the bands complete history and then act like im crazy for not knowing all that,he uses all these big words when its not called for in the conversation and when i ask what it means he kinda acts like im stupid in front of people,I tell him I hate the way he treats me he says he doesnt do any of this and it must be my mind.I am imagining it all.He says he doesnt act better than me and he isnt controlling.He got jealous because my dad gave me 200 dollars to buy me clothes because i didnt have good nice clothes to start community college this spring,he says that I will be wearing new clothes and going to school and i wont need him anymore.I have become depressed! I started not caring about ANYTHING! my house was nasty, i didnt want to clean,i never washed clothes or dishes anymore,god forbid i cooked anything it wouldnt have been good enough! so i told him i wanted to move to my moms because i wanted a divorce,well i moved back to my moms we seperated for a few days and got back together but everything was still the same so i started being a real b**** to him,smarting off to him telling him i hated him then our fights progressed into physical abuse he would get in my face,yellingand screaming and spitting,and i would push him out of my face and then he would either throw me around the room or knock me in the floor and tell everybody i put my hands on him first,yes,i will push him out of my face when he is screaming and spitting in my face! news years eve i caught him flirting with my neices mom it made me so mad! last night we had a bad fight and he left at like 2:30 am and i didnt hear from him till 4:00 pm this evening i called everbody!,his boss,his mama,he comes home and tells me he spent all our money smoking crack!!!!

an his mama called me andpretty much told me it was my fault!!! i didnt know what to do or say. all i know is i cant take any of this anymore i hate the way he makes me feel i dont even feel like his equal its so hard for me to even say i love him! what do i do?! help!