Sarah

A year before, i started talking wit a guy who was one year senior in college. He always talking as if giving in hints he likes me. He asked me out, and asked again when i refused. Finally we went out and it was more like casual talk rather than anything romantic. He's hot tempered, so we had a fight and i decided to stay away from him. After one month , we again talk about some issue in college. And he again gives in hints that he wants me back. Calling me ex gf or trying to gain my attention. I tried to be strong and not yield even though i was falling for him. When i realized i fell for him, i just confronted him to tell me straigt answer what future of this talking and flirting. Becoz he wasnt being straight about what he wanted. Sometimes this, sometimes that..in between i also came to know he's best friends wit one girl since 1 years....i just thought they are friends...and he even said it. Finally, i just left becoz of his indecisive answers. He calls me again after some days, tells me he wants to stay wit me and be in a relation. Keepng aside my fears i just agreed. We go out for a month, he's all too...good and everything. And i could see he was really in love. But suddenly, one day he says he cant be with me. After asking reason thousands of times, he finally tells he was wit other girl all this time and he was with me. I dont know but he just left. I 'm angry but somehow i feel he isnt bad. I know best option is moving on. But i still've soft corner for him even after everything happened

...i dont know but i had really a lot of problems in matters of guys. one year back i liked a guy and his best friend liked me...he was best friends with me too..i never said it to guy i liked that i like him becoz of offending feelings of my and his best friend(same person)...and then he proposed me..i tried to convince him to stop liking me but he kept on waiting..he was really sweet and nice to me...really nice...like a dream person and i agreed forgetting my likeness for his friend...but i had problems with him...saying love you back..or not getting physical..getting angry at that....but then i overcame eventually....not becoz i love him but becoz of my own needs...and i realized i dont love him...that i am fooling myself but becoz for his happiness i couldnt tell him...then i found another guy on net..he was just a friend and i told him my problem...he told me me to stop fooling him and to just go...and i left...even though it was ahrd becoz v were friends for 5 yrs....but i felt happy becoz finally i didnt have to pretend any longer...then i used to msg my net friend...but i never had anything like a relation in my mind..but unfortunately i started falling for him...and he also did...and we were in a relation....but also there..he used to talk to so many girls on net..i met him once only..v used to talk on phone but there also he used to give me less time..avoid my calls and wen i said i am not puppet and decided to leave he used to call me insincere...i was feeling already guilty so i just stayed there...waiting for him to change...and one day...as he was trying to get intimate on net and i let him...he said he loves me..but wen other day i said i am feeling guilty becoz all this is wrong he said that v'll just be friends...in a single day his feelings changed..it happened a lot of times...he used to tell me to go...and then come back..and then not to msg any guy on facebook wen himself he used to talk to so many girls,...i did everything he told me.. but he still didnt change..one day he paired me up with my classmate i got furious and left...and even though i was emotionally disturbed i tried to live my life....then came another guy who was my senior...i this time totally tried to stay away..v used to have discussions and debates on harmless topics like physics, life...politics..and one day he asked me out...i refused like many times..afraid of getting hurt..he kept on asking and finally i agreed ...i enjoyed...but then he asks me to let him hold my hand, or hug him...i refused..i know him for 1 month...and also he never proposed me...and then he got angry and was really very rude...and then ignored me...if he really liked me, y would his feelings change becoz of one no. i cried a lot and i feel depressed sometimes... y does this all happens to me..i am already shy around guys...i dont talk that much....and wen ever i am in a relation i give my 100%...try to make other person happy...still it fails...i want to stay single sometime but i am like emotionally dependent on a guy..like i need someone..i go to chat rooms ad stuff like that...to take out this dependence ..but i need a complete solution to take my mind off guys and such things,..

and people all this happened in less than a year...

hi!!i was in a relation with a guy for a year almost and it was very intimate but i midway realized i don't love him..i tried still to make things work but i wasnt happy..he started blaming me..and said wrong things but he loves me a lot and was very depressed.i tried to come back but it made things worse but now i have started liking someone else and i am very happy with him..yet i feel guilty..i have said sorry to him lot of times but he just blames me...sometimes i feel like leaving everyone and crying...help ..am i wrong in leaving him..???even though v werent happy...

My boyfriend and i were on rough roads last week.We had a breakup, and i was very depressed. I was online and a chat friend of mine asked me about my problem and to some extent , he told me solution...He also advised me many things of my life which were in a fix...i was really happy...I called my boyfriend again next day.., said sorry ..He came back but now he wants me to stop chatting with my friend which i don't want to..He threatens that he will leave me....I am confused

i got 84% in 12th and want to pursue B.Tech in nanotechnology or should i drop and prepare for IIT

I am a open person who shares quickly and is frank with everyone but people never behave the same with me. sometimes i feel like killing myself I have tried it 3 times but to no avail...life's pretty harsh and killing myself seems only alternative

He 's avoids looking at me, and talking to me. Still, i have caught his eyes many times staring at me.His best friend is my good friend and likes me but i like him..Help!1