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I met this girl on an online dating site. We start chatting and exchange phone numbers. This happens for a week. Eventually, we schedule a date where we will meet two weeks later.

She told me she works at a hospital and so do I (she asked me first where I worked and she told me where she worked). Coincidently, my work sent me with a patient that was transferred to her hospital where she was working.

I sent her a friendly text saying, "I'm actually working at your hospital tonight haha."

I haven't gotten a reply.

Was this creepy? Did I scare her off?

I like this girl. We don't really see each other often but when we meet up, we talk a lot.

The last time we met up, we talked for about 2-3 hours. We mostly just catch up on what's going on in each other's lives, etc. There's not really any flirting but lots of smiling and laughing. She said we should hang out again sometime.

What does this mean?

I haven't talked to this girl in a couple of months. We were classmates in college and we studied together for school. We aren't really close friends but we make each other laugh. I like her but I don't know if she likes me.

Out of the blue, she asks me for this favor which is really simple. It was to use my computer because her computer wasn't working. The favor only lasted 5 minutes then we ended up talking for a couple of hours. She said she wants to hang out again for fun.

Does she like me as a friend or more?

I have good chemistry with this girl. Our conversations feel natural, we joke around, and we can talk for hours.

We are a bit different as she likes going out to parties, clubs, and raves. I like doing that from time to time but I'm more introverted and like chilling at home most of the time.

I really like this girl. I have no idea if she likes me but she calls me her friend.

We don't see each other anymore because the college semester is over and I'm completely done with school.

What should I do?

There's this girl in my college class that I really like. We didn't really talk to each other until just recently. She asked me to help her study with finals. As we were studying, it seemed like we clicked. We got off topic and just started to talk about each other. We even talked on the phone for 2 hours just talking about random stuff. She calls me her friend.

Anyways, the semester is over and I'm not gonna see her anymore because I'm completely done with school. She told me to text her sometime to let her know what's going on in my life.

Does she like me? Should I initiate contact with her?

This is a very familar situation for me. I talk to a girl and we hit it off. Some days will pass, then she will ignore me. Then, she's off talking to another guy.

I'm not the best looking or am I the smartest guy. I'm very average in everything.

I've never met a girl that is head over heels for me.

Why does this happen to me?

This girl asked me out to a baseball game. She said she got these tickets from her friend and asked me to go with her. I misunderstood her and thought she was selling me tickets so I said I would buy them from her. She gave me her friend's number to buy them.

I like her but I made a dumb mistake. Now she's dating other people and I still feel bad about it. I never got a chance to explain myself.

We still talk from time to time but we haven't hung out together since.

Do I still have a chance? Was I wrong for what I did?

I had a bad date with this girl. Everything was going okay until towards the end of the date. She wanted a kiss but I didn't get the message and she wanted to leave.

It's been awhile since we hung out but we still talk from time to time. She responds to my text whenever I try to talk to her. We're still acquaintances.

I know she's dating other people but I still like her.

Do I still have a chance with this girl or is it too late?

I have a full time job and am going back to community college for school. I feel like I can't concentrate. I recently took a test and did really bad it makes me depressed. I had enough time to study but couldn't concentrate at all. I need to do well but I can't motivate myself to do study.

What can I do to improve my school performance?

I planned a date with this girl. I didn't want to seem eager so I came in slightly late like 5-10 minutes at the place we were gonna eat at. She wasn't there. I called her to explain what happened and she seemed fine and said maybe next time.

I called her to schedule another date but she keeps rescheduling on me.

I know I'm wrong and I still like her. We talk from time to time but that's about it.

Do I still have a chance with her? Or should I move on?

I just met this girl and we became friends. She said she plays poker so I wanted to invite her to play poker with some of my friends. I ended up not doing it.

Is it akward to invite someone you just met to hang out with you and your friends?

I know most romantic relationships that last begin when the boy and girl start off as friends first.

I don't have any girl friends that I am really close with so I'm wondering if I will ever find a good romantic relationship with a girl. (I'm currently single).

Did your relationship start when you were friends? Or did you randomly meet and start there? Am I dooomed?

I went on a first date to a concert with this girl. It was going great and we got closer as the night went on. We ended up cuddling as the concert was coming to a close.

Eventually, we made our way to the bus home with arms around each other. The bus was crowded so we ended up standing during the ride but still cuddling. We had a moment where we looked at each other for awhile...but I didn't do anything because I was nervous. She immediately wanted to leave the date after that moment. I ended the night by hugging her and that was it. I did not kiss her at all during the night.

I don't have much dating experience so I'm curious as to what I did wrong.

Did I screw up? Should I have kissed her?

Where are the best places to meet a girl that can eventually be your girlfriend?

I've tried: friends of friends, gym, bar, club, meetups, and social clubs.

Any other ideas?

I recently got contact lenses. I'm debating if I should stop wearing my glasses.

So for the ladies:

Do you like guys with glasses or without them?

On a side note: I personally like girls with glasses.

I'm talking about the deep, dark spots that make you look like a raccoon.

What are some remedies to this problem?

Also, how long did you know your spouse before you got into a relationship with them.

I'm saying if there were qualities of that person that made you think it wouldn't work out.

I know this girl from a meetup I went to a couple of years ago. We don't really talk but we went out once together. Nothing happened and we have not seen each other in person after that. I like her but I thought that it was over.

I recently greeted this girl "Happy Birthday" through text. She said thanks and it would be nice to see me again.

She also said that we should go to another meetup event sometime.

Is she being friendly or does she like me? Am I overthinking this?