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I’m really curious why do every single man I’ve been interested in always sorta lose interest in a few months or so? Why do the lovey dovey and constant txt and calls all of a sudden go to minimal to none in a few wks of getting to know each other? I swear I never lose interest in any one but everyone lose interest or abandon me a month into any sort of relationship. 

I can’t never hurt, abandon or turn my back to anyone because I know the feeling of being left/abandon and I never wish to make anyone experience that pain so why do all men do this to me?

Is something wrong with me?

Is my love or care too much or something?

Last year in October this guy send me a txt on social. We started talking. And we were into into each other so much. He would txt me every second of the day, any second he wakes up at night. Good morning txt good night. Hanging out, listening to this dj live music and always compliments me how beautiful and this and that I was. I did the same things to him as well. He treated me like I was the most beautiful and only girl in the world and we fell in love. 

Long story short and I hurt my hand at work and also have depression and what not so I can’t work for a while. Anyway he’s been so distant ATM , won’t txt unless I txt him, won’t call me unless I call him, doesn’t say I love you anymore, doesn’t compliment me, no morning/night txts, ignores my love txts or if I say I’m horny he’ll ignore that txt too. 

I’ve spend so much time on this man, even bought him a phone and send him money when he needs yet he hardly does anything special for me not even a love txt.

When I bring all these to his attention he automatically say I’m being “negative “!. That’s his answer to everything that concerns us “you’re negative and your thinking is bad” that’s his favourite words. 

I DONT KNOW WHAT ELSE TO DO!. I ask him if his feelings changed he says no but his actions definitely says something different. How can I confront him with sounding “negative “ like he says. I love him but I can’t keep going like this. It’s like he doesn’t care about me anymore.

Anyway about 5 days ago I responded to a negative comment under one of my Instagram posts. 15 minutes later I received a notification from Instagram saying my post was removed because I violated Instagram community Guidelines. Next day I posted a picture with my normal hashtags that I use whenever I post and to my surprise my post wasn’t getting any likes or wasn’t getting any new followers!. So I clicked on one of the hashtags and my post wasn’t even in there! I ended up going through all the hashtags and all my previous posts which were always on top in those hashtags but I couldn’t see any of my posts!

Anyway I clicked on one of my friends profile and clicked the “about this account “ and gues what! It says “this action can’t load please try again later”! I did that to a few more well known accounts and I still get the same message:(. So my QUESTION IS! HAVE I BEEN BANNED? SHADOW BANNED? INSTAGRAM PROBATION OR SOMETHING!

I can still log in, post and dm people the only problem is Instagram has stopped showing my posts To non followers which means I am not getting any new likes or followers!

Has anyone ever experienced this and did you ever get your account back to fully functioning?

My mum don't remember what month I was born:( and I really wanted to know what is my star sign.

I am very tall,very skinny and I have straight white teeth with dimples on both cheeks,dimples on my chin,dimple on top of my lip and I have dimples on back (Venus dimples)..so many dimples🙄..anyone out there who knows anything about star signs pls answer me lol:).

There is this guy who I have a huge crush on for about two years now and he gives me mixed feelings all the time.some days he acts like he likes me and some days it's like I don't exist.i want to move on from this crush but I see him on a daily basis.should I ignore him? I really don't know what to do:(

My crush used to talk to me sometimes or whenever he can but lately he doesn t talk to me.he will come or walk towards me then turn around and walk away:(..sometimes he will look at me and when I look at him he looks away:(..am so confused as what s going on,have he lost interest in talking to me?

I mean I like this guy a lot but with his little attitude I feel like am not beautiful enough and that s why he doesn t even talk to me anymore

Today I cried In front of my crush after I send him a fb message and he didn't reply to me or even added me as a friend:(..I saw him when I was buying something and I just started crying in front of him and everyone else there.i grabbed my things and quickly walk away.

God I hate crushes,they always end up crushing your heart and now I don't know how to move on from the fact that he will never like me no matter what:(

There is this guy I have a huge crush on.he works at a food store and everytime I go and get some food sometimes he talks to me and jokes with me even making fun of me in a joking way or just act so nice towards me.he also stares at me sometimes and listens to conversations am having with other people at the store but some other days he just ignores me so much:(.am so confused wether he likes me or not because I seriously likes him a lot and I want him to notice me.i want to be his friend and add him on Facebook but I don't want to come off creepy.someone please give me a good advice on what to do:(

This guy I buy food and drinks from use to be so lovely to me and chatting me up everytime I go there but lately he has been ignoring me and won't even look at me like before.whats the problem here?should I just go and buy food and drinks from a different shop?

I mean like little things or what can I do to show him that am very interested in him and I want to have sex with him? I don't want to come across as desperate Lol (which I actually am coz I like him alot lol)..

There is this guy that I really like where I get my morning coffee and lunch from.he has always been sweet and chat me up but laterly specialy today he just have been so quiet and distance:(..he works with his brother and his brother has started talking to me everytime I go there.my question is, is he jealous that I talk to his brother or is it just a man thing like when they loss interest they just give you cold shoulder?.i just need some advice so that I don't make a fool of myself because I really like him and I don't know wether I should tell him that or just leave him alone.

There is this guy who I have a major crush on.he works in a shop and everytime I go there the shop always have customers and I can't bring myself to tell him that I like him.i found him on Facebook but I don't wanna send him a friend request or message because I don't wanna come across as a stalker:(..what should I do?

I like this guy where I go and buy food from and I don't know how to tell him I like him:(.he is always busy with customers so I don't wanna disturb but I can't stop thinking about him:(..suggestions on how to approach him please

Well I was born in a village somewhere in Africa and my mum can t remember the month And date I was born except the year.now am curious to know and am just wondering if anyone can help with what star signi might be.i have two cheek dimples that are very deep,we ll the right one is extremely deep.i have a chin dimple and I have back dimples too.i also have a small dark Marilyn in between where my eyebrows sort of begins(like in my forehead) and I have straig white teeth with a nice smile that gets attention a lot.i just need to know what my star sign is.dont be mean with your comments either

I dreamt that I was witnessing a police lady being shoot at by three men.in the dream I was living in an apartment with my family and somehow I saw police lady coming out of a door in our apartment after a young man.she tried to follow the young man out but lost him,she came back and ask us where he went and I said there he is pointing at the young man running down the streets.she went outside,got in her car and that was when a group of group of three man driving a red car came shooting at her.every one was in the streets screaming and running.the man drove away but the lady wasn't dead and a white car come around the corner.two pple got out and put her into the car and tried to drive away and that was when the red car with three men came back and started shooting at them.then I woke up.excuse my English is not that good

Am not sexually attracted to my partner anymore.i don't like kissing him,I don't like hugging him,I don't like having a conversation with him and I don't even like sex with him.i still care about him but there is just no attraction there.we don't even sleep in the same room anymore.i have tried talking to him about it but he says he is fine with no sex and just wants me around because he loves me so much.i have tried to talking to a doctor and he just ended up giving me depression tablets.im not depressed am just not attracted to my partner at all.and to make matters worse he doesn't want to break up with me.i really don't know what to do:(