Ello =)

He promised me he wouldnt drink when he wasnt out with me. I did not ask him to promise this his words wore "i promise i wont drink unless im with you " i told him dont worry and i assured him i didnt mind but he insisted and so i agreed and thought it was a lovely gesture and it made me feel very happy, i beleive he did it as i had made many promises he asked of me( that i have kept).

So 9 days ago he went out with 2 freinds a boy and a girl and got drunk i only found out today as there were photos on facebook of him drinking with the girl, btw he had broken the promise before and after a small argument i said it was fine as long as he told me and i didnt have to find out. well he had 9 days to tell me and he didnt, i found out myself.

i am worried he might have gotten drunk before and not told me i cant trust him my question is should i trust him is it just a mistake that i should forgive or should i take this further? thankyou :)

hi i have only just started using tumblr and im finding it abit boring atm just because im not really following many ppl and no ones following me i was wondering if you would leave your tumblrs for me to add

:) or tell me how to find tumblrs i like

if anyone wanted to follow mine its :) http://bearandthebutterflyxox.tumblr.com/

hi i have only just started using tumblr and im finding it abit boring atm just because im not really following many ppl and no ones following me i was wondering if you would leave your tumblrs for me to add

:) or tell me how to find tumblrs i like

if anyone wanted to follow mine its :) http://bearandthebutterflyxox.tumblr.com/

i got my ears pierced a second time so above my 1st today and i was wondering if it would be possible to change them in 1 weeks time its my formal day(prom) and i want pearls there cheep fake ones but they will suit my formal dress if i just wear them for the day should it be alright? ill be extreamly clean and sterilize and clean everything.

So iv'e been blonde for about 2 years now but my hair is so dead its so bad so at the moment im growing it out but i was wondering if i would look ok brunette or if i should keep it blonde when i eventually die it again i will wait for it to get healthier before i do anything but i think being brunette would be so much easier opinions please

http://www.flickr.com/photos/53450901@N03/61200712... << me with blond hair atm

http://www.flickr.com/photos/53450901@N03/61195354... << colour want to go

also do you think shaving the side of my hair would look good? for example

http://www.flickr.com/photos/53450901@N03/61195354...

thanks in advance =D xx

I was about 6 and he was 9 he lived down the road from my dads house he was always over, he was my brothers friend then he started touching me, i didn't understand it, then he had sex with me i cant remember how many time, i didn't say no is it my fault? i was curious i guess, after i remember always wishing i had unremovable clothes i couldn't say no i don't no why but i didn't want to. I don't no if it was sexual abuse or what as we were both so young, my question is is it my fault like am i too blame i'v kept it secret all this time until recently i told my boyfriend, and its made me think about it again, i feel dirty and like it was just as much my fault as his idk whats your opinion. BTW im 16 now

http://www.flickr.com/photos/53450901@N03/56604213...

http://www.flickr.com/photos/53450901@N03/56604213...

http://www.flickr.com/photos/53450901@N03/56604213...

http://www.flickr.com/photos/53450901@N03/56604213...

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my hair atm ^^

I'm thinking of colouring my hair a light pink like this: http://www.flickr.com/photos/53450901@N0%E2%80%A6

currently my hair is bleach blonde well atm i'v put a light ash blonde toner in but that wont last long. this is my hair atm:

http://www.flickr.com/photos/53450901@N0%E2%80%A6

So do you think it would suit me and if its a good idea?

Also this has nothing to do with hair but how old would you say i look just curious =] .

I'm thinking of colouring my hair a light pink like this: http://www.flickr.com/photos/53450901@N03/56609974...

currently my hair is bleach blonde well atm i'v put a light ash blonde toner in but that wont last long. this is my hair atm:

http://www.flickr.com/photos/53450901@N03/56604213...

So do you think it would suit me and if its a good idea?

Also this has nothing to do with hair but how old would you say i look just curious =] .

http://www.flickr.com/photos/53450901@N03/51939590...

its my favorite necklace.

We arn't going to see each other for a long time and his giving me his favorite hoodie to remember him by he says so i have something of him till we see each other again and i love the idea and wanted to give him something, so the question is mainly aimed at boyfriends would you like that or is it too girly ? i'm not really expecting him to wear it just to have something of mine till we see each other again. thanks for you help =]

my bmi says im overweight almost obese D= my bmi is 29 n i have cheeked it heeps of times and on different bmi calculators so i no its correct. im worried for a guy(my boyfriend) too see my body as im afraid he will be repulsed by my body i no im not attractive but would my body repulse u? =/ please be honest as that is why i cant go to family or friends as they will be bias

http://www.flickr.com/photos/53450901@N03/51017640...

http://www.flickr.com/photos/53450901@N03/51139022...

he was at a party i didntt go to and ended up getting drunk n a girl took a naked pic of him he assures me he didnt do anything with the girl n i beleive him but would u be upset if a girl took a pic of ur boyfreind nked or am i just overeacting?

he was at a party i didntt go to and ended up getting drunk n a girl took a naked pic of him he assures me he didnt do anything with the girl n i beleive him but would u be upset if a girl took a pic of ur boyfreind nked or am i just overeacting?

he was at a party i didntt go to and ended up getting drunk n a girl took a naked pic of him he assures me he didnt do anything with the girl n i beleive him but would u be upset if a girl took a pic of ur boyfreind nked or am i just overeacting?

my bmi is 29 and im 15, and thats almost obese!! i mean i no i look a lot bigger then other girls but i didn't think i looked obese, i cant ask friends or family because im looking for an unbiased opinion(please be as harsh as you want =]) do i look obese?

http://www.flickr.com/photos/53450901@N03/51017640...

http://www.flickr.com/photos/53450901@N03/49382589...

there not very good photos is only ones i have that u can really see my body =/

i cant remember really well but when i was about 5 this boy who lived down the road use to do sexual things to me( including sex) he was only about 8 so we he was young to, at first i was curious so i went along but then i didnt like it anymore but he never forced me just kept asking and kind off starting until i would give in, i remember wishing i had clothes that were impossible to take off so he wouldnt do it. i no it was wrong on my part but my question is was he more in the wrong or should have i known it was bad and also is this like really unusual?

i cant remember really well but when i was about 5 this boy who lived down the road use to do sexual things to me( including sex) he was only about 8 so we he was young to, at first i was curious so i went along but then i didnt like it anymore but he never forced me just kept asking and kind off starting until i would give in, i remember wishing i had clothes that were impossible to take off so he wouldnt do it. i no it was wrong on my part but my question is was he more in the wrong or should have i known it was bad and also is this like really unusual?

my boyfreind who im in love with even if i am stil young i still beleive i am asked me to choose betwwen him and my sister as she is a bad influence and into drugs and alchole and plans on taking me to house parties to do the same thing and to have sex with guys which i have assured him i wont do but he says when im drunk i may not think properly and do something. so he asked me to choose him or her and i no he will take care of me and love me more but still she is my sister and i love her what do you think i should do? thank you xx