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Ok so I’ve only been “talking” to this girl for about a week and a half. I’ve only had 1 serious gf in my life, and it ended about 2 years ago so I’m pretty green when it comes to dating. Anyways me and this girl have been flirting a lot, cuddling, making out, etc. We were even about to f*ck one day but she has a latex allergy so it didn’t happen. (Went and bought some latex-free but now it’s falling apart). Yesterday she was talking about going to the club and getting drunk with her friends since she was single, and that kinda rubbed me the wrong way. She said I was trying to tell her what to do and being controlling and that we were moving too fast. Am I wrong for not wanting her to go out clubbing when we were supposedly trying to build something?

I have ruled out the horn itself, fuse, and relay. What do you guys think it could be and if so is it something I can fix or should it be taken to shop?

Ok so I started my job at Walmart a few months ago and shortly after that I started feeling like **** nearly everyday. I've gained 5 lbs, sleep about 10 hours a day, and have no motivation to do anything like working out (which I used to do quite often). I had always had the occasional negative thought train before my job but ever since nearly everyday I get down in the dumps thinking about the future (no gf, don't know what I'm going to college for, etc). I occasionally even think about killing myself (but don't worry I'm not the type to actually act out on it). Do I have a mild form of depression or just going through a rough skid?

So me and my ex girl dated for about 16 months. The relationship slowly but surely went downhill after about 7 months because of her depression. She continually got more depressive/suicidal (even though I believe this was just acting/wanting attention). We've been broke up for about 15 months now. On one hand, I want to believe that she's grown up, but I also fear it'll be the same old song and dance. In all honestly I hated her for the last 2/3 months of the relationship but we dragged it out. At the same time though I still love her. Anybody been in a similar situation or have any advice? Thanks in advance

Hi I m going for an interview tomorrow and they ll tell me a day and time to go take my urine test. I am 6 0" and fairly lean (150 lbs), moderately active, and usually smoke 1-2 days a week. It has been 9 days since I last smoked though and was wondering how long you think it will take for me to clear out. I know it weighs heavily on other factors as well but just wanted some ideas. Thanks

I am a 19 y/o male who is more physically fit than the "average joe" but I wouldn t really consider myself an athlete. I play basketball usually once a week and do some weight training here and there. Anyways my blood pressure was 86 over 57 with a pulse of 45/min. Is this healthy or too low? Thanks in advance

Around people I am very calm and don t get angry at them, but when I m by myself I get really mad about stuff and rage easily. For example, I was playing Grand Theft Auto today and threw my controller and went outside with a baseball bat and beat a haybale. I also threw a phone charger in the top of a tree the other day because it wouldn t stay in the compartment of my vehicle. Anyone else have moments of rage like this? Also it seems to have gotten more frequent ever since I started my job a few weeks ago. Is this normal?

So I was learning how to "screamo" along with my music. I did this for about 4 days in a row, and on the 4th day I noticed my throat began to be a bit sore. I then smoked that night(not smart I know) and now my throat is very sore. It's been 2 full days and it hasn't got any better. It doesn't hurt to bad normally but when I swallow it nearly makes me wince. Anybody have any idea on this? Thanks in advance

So at my college I've seen this girl I'm interested in. I don't have any classes with her so that makes it a bit more difficult. I see her in the library on occasion, and I know she has break at the same time I do because I saw her in her car one day. How should I approach this girl? I'm very shy around people I don't know( especially attractive girls)

I smoked about 3 hours ago and I'm about to submit a job application today. I heard from a friend of mine who worked their that they do a mouth swab test. I'm fairly thin and I smoke usually 3 bowls on Friday and Saturday each and that's it. How long do you think it'll take for thc to clear out and be able to pass test?

I was wanting music really bad so I decided to download Frostwire. My friend had used it before and had no problems so I decided to try it. I downloaded one song and then my computer started to pop up messages about needing to run security scans and what not. I closed out of all the open apps and restarted my computer. I was then greeted to an error message and every time I closed it it popped right back up. I just now shut down the computer and it's stuck in limbo and won't turn back on. Have I completely ruined my computer? Any help is GREATLY appreciated

Ok so I've only had one semi serious girlfriend in my life so I'm limited in my experiences with women. I met this girl in one of my college classes this year. We've never really talked much, but we kind of laugh and smile with each other because of this other girl in the class that acts like a troll (lol). When we were leaving class the other day I walked past her and she gave me a smile. So my question is how should I ask for her number? And when? I kind of want to get to know her better, but at the same time I don't want to wait too long or I'm afraid someone else might get her. Should I just straight up ask her or try to be funny about it? Any help is appreciated. Thanks

So my ex who is slightly psycho told me one day that she had stage 2 stomach cancer. She said she had found out about 4 months ago. Then a week after telling me that, she said it became a stage 4. Multiple things tell me she's lying.

1.) She has a history of lying

2.) I read where cancer, even if it grows or shrinks after diagnosis, is still referred to by its original name. (Stage 2 remains Stage 2).

What do you guys think? I believed it at first but now I think she's a liar

Ok so there are 2 girls that I really like and I m having an awful time deciding which one to seriously go after. I ll call the girls J and B. J has just recently come into the picture. Ever since I broke up with my previous gf about a month ago, she s been flirty with me in class. She ll grab my hand and hold it and take pictures and call me babe etc. She goes to parties every weekend and I don t really like that. Therefore I believe she is not a virgin, which I am. B on the other hand has been my best friend for about 3 years. She has always been the girl I have dreamed of being with. She s very laid back and just a chill person. I ve asked her out a few times in the past and every time I get rejected in a polite way. She has told people that she likes me and she always acts like it but when it comes down to it she backs off. She sends a lot of mixed messages. I really would love to date her, but I just don t know. I really need to choose one or the other. Any help is appreciated

So I tried weed for the first time a few weekends ago. I took about 3 hits off some reg. The next morning I began to feel a bit sick. I have now been sick constantly for the past two weeks. It started out as high fevers and bad headaches. It seemed to go away for about two days, but then it came back. This time it was pretty much the same with a little nausea. Now, for the past two days, I've barely been able to eat anything. If I eat much more than half a small bowl of anything, I end up vomiting it up. I was wondering if anyone else has had an experience similar to mine. Any help would be appreciated. BTW I am a 6' 18 y/o male if that helps with anything. Thanks in advance

Going to try to keep this simple. I'm 17 and my gf is 15. Her family is abusive and won't let her date. Therefore we never get to do or anything. She is depressive and we are either upset or fight a lot. I'm beginning to not be happy in the relationship much anymore. I love her, but I'm not in love if that makes sense. I also found out recently that my best friend, whom I've crushed on hard for over 2 years, likes me. Her and my gf are kinda friends though, and therefore she won't do anything with me for fear of angering her. My friend can date and is closer to my age, so therefore we have a greater potential to be happy and go on dates and what not. Which path should I choose? I love my gf, but I'm just not happy. At the same time, I'm very attracted to my friend and have been for a long time. What should I do? Any advice is appreciated! Thanks in advance!

Ok so I talked to this girl about a year and a half ago and we got really close and almost dated. I asked her on a date and she said maybe and she never talked to me again so I just moved on. I got a girlfriend, who I'm still currently dating but I feel it's coming to an end, and therefore I didn't talk to her for a long time. I recently started talking to her again because of some run ins with the police we had(she got pulled over and I made fun of her and then a few weeks later I got pulled over) so we were talking about it and laughing and we told each other good night and she sent me a smiley emoji and idk it just really seems like she likes me still. Of course this is limited interaction but it still seems like she likes me. What do you guys think?

I have a gf who I love, but I just don't know anymore. I know she loves me, but she treats me like **** sometimes. She is a depressive person. She unloads her anger on me all the time and yells at me over trivial stuff. She also has an abusive family and we're not supposed to be dating. Her family abuses her even more when they figure out she's still dating me. I love her, but the situation is really hard. On the other hand, I have began talking to my best friend again. I haven't talked to her for the whole 9 month relationship because I didn't want to make my gf jealous( even though she does it to me all the time). But me and my friend have talked about hanging out and doing fun things. We're going to see a movie this weekend and we might also go hiking sometime. I know this will make my gf really jealous, but I just need an escape. My friend offers me the escape I need. What should I do? Gf or friend? Thanks in advance!

Ok I don t think there s a way to do this but I ll ask any way. So my gf s family is super nosy and she s not supposed to be dating me. She got a notification that said her brother had joined her Apple ID or whatever. I was wondering if there was a way to boot him off of it. Another problem is that she doesn t even know the password to her Apple ID. Since they re so nosy, they had her other brother set up the account and keep the information. I think the only solution to this problem will be to create another Apple ID to use on an old iPhone that I have. This way the information will all be with me. Thanks for any help!

Ok so my girlfriend fell asleep while we were talking on the phone last night and her friend told her this morning that while she had fallen asleep I said "I hate when you do this". I'm not going to deny that I've said some stupid stuff before but I didn't even say anything CLOSE to that last night. The only thing I say when she's asleep is "hey" or "are you awake" or "I love you". She just now texted me and she sounded less angry but she still left and didn't say I love you back. I just don't understand why girls would lie about something a guy said. Thanks in advance for all this reading