Ordaiken

Some dude keeps hitting on my girlfriend and it makes her really uncomfortable. He works at the same place as her and we 3 have the same church. She is sweet hearted and doesn't want to hurt his feelings, especially because he has just recently started attending church again. She doesn't want me to do anything drastic because she feels this will just cause him to be all, "Your boyfriend is such a mean person" etc. And bother her more. She doesn't want to deal with him at all. She just wants to be left alone.

What can I do to get him away from her?

Also, everyone else doesn't get the uncomfortable vibes she gets. The people she works with and goes to church with all like him. Even her brothers are befriending him. He just moved into the neighborhood and I want to solve this before it gets any harder. He'll hit on her the moment my back is turned, even if we are in the same room.

I don't like him, she doesn't like him. I just want a solution that is quick and will solve the problem.

She said it just wasn't right for her. I respect her decision but I am completely lost as to why. We had a great relationship, never fought or argued. The only thing was we moved too fast in a short amount of time. The farthest we got was making out. She started pulling away, so I got clingy, and she broke up over that. But not being friends after leaves me confounded. Do you have any ideas why this might be?