?????

I was with a guy for almost three years......we recently broke up cause I can't hold on and hope he is getting divorced. He kept saying he was doing it but I am a divorced woman and I know it doesn't take 3 years to file for a divorce. Not to mention I found out that he is still doing things with his wife like going to friends houses together and having company over their house. I keep thinking about all the good times we had....Any suggestions on how to move on???????

I was married for 7 years and my ex husband cheated on me for 3 of those years with a girl that he was high school sweethearts with...Now my problem is that I have trust issues with guys. I've noticed I get jealous with my boyfriend and that was never something I did before...I don't want to second guess anything he does. It's not fair to him and it's not fair to drive myself crazy. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can trust completely again?????

The man I'm seeing is married and I know it's wrong. He has no life with his wife anymore. They sleep in separate rooms and he says he is waiting for his house to be sold before we can be together. My problem is this is not the first time he has cheated on his wife and sometimes I even feel like he may be talking to one of the girls he was seeing before me. He tells me over and over that he loves me and that i'm the only one for him. He talks about us being together forever. I'm so confused, part of me knows i should walk away but the other part says to stay with him cause we could be happy together. I'm worried if he leaves he may run on me too!!!!!!! Please I know being with a married man is wrong but my heart keeps me with him