dominate_01

This is an old story but I'm still a lil vague on a few issues. a long while ago sherl swoops came out and stated she was gay and actually hooked up with her coach. Now the whole world if not half supported her in her decision. I think Sherl did a lot for sports in general and I will always admire and respect her but..........what about her husband? He lost his wife, his relationship was a lie, everytime she said "baby I love u," she was really confused and didn't know if she meant it or not and he has to live with knowning that nothing she said was true. He has to explain to his son why mama left and more so he has to look in the mirror everyday and know he wasn't good enough, not just as a man but as a person cause he was left for woman.

No one has even heard stories about what hes doing with his life and whether he has recovered and moved on. honestly I'm surprised he didn't get a gun and blow his own brains out. I feel sorry for the man and I'm sorry even more that no one has shown any sympathy for him. Does any one know what happened with her husband?

Whenever a guy proposes the idea of bringing another woman to the bedroom why do women get so mad. The threesome would be all about you, why not enjoy it?

I'm a guy and I have the same amount of other male friends as I do female. I like having female friends because there are things I can discuss with them and they won't laugh at me, lol at least not right away. The only issue with this is everytime I get a female friend the minute she gets a boyfriend we have to stop talking, i think its so ridiculous but i understand like being a guy and having your girl talkn to some other guy about you is not pleasing. I just wish there was a way i could have a female friend and not have to give her up everytime she finds a man! Can't I be friends with a female!

I always thought women liked long durations in the bedroom, personally I like to go until I'm on "E" Is it wrong for me to want my partner to be just as worn out as I am after its over. Is it wrong for me to ask to go again, especially after it feels so good?

I'm a big martial arts movie fan. I really like early late 80's to early 90's films. Theres one particular film I saw when I was a kid; forgive me I dont remember who the actors were or the entire story line but There was this american soldier who like faught in vietnam or something and he had two sons, one back in the states and one he fathered in vietnam with an asian woman. My mind goes a little blank but the one american son goes on a trip to find his half brother and then they both travel to find their father only to find hes kinda like a private guy who likes to be left alone, I think hes a little violent too but anyway they try to get to know him and somehow they find out that he can fight like really well. He learned how to fight in vietnam, like an old master or something taught him but anyway they try to get him to train them and he refuses and kicks them out and stuff.

Then he like takes them in and starts training them. So they get to the part where hes trying to make their shins hard by kneeling on bricks for extended periods of time only they keep giving up cause it hurts too much, so he like tells them to go away and theres a scene where after he kickes them out its raining and they're both kneeling on the bricks outside his house or something waiting for him to come back out. I forgot the rest...

I think I'mma decent brotha. I treat women good and I'm there for them for whatever they need. I've always been like the friend type even when I've expressed to women that I want to be more than that they put me in the friendship category. I guess its ok because I get to know them really well but its like instead of sharing their best with me they go out and give it to guys who could care less. It pisses me off to see it when guys who I know are dogs and who just want to hit it always seem to get what they want and I'm stuck with the pieces afterward.

Its just hard to be a good brotha when u see how much ur not appreciated. Sometimes I wish I was a dog about it cause at least I get something I want out of the relationship.

First I'd like to admit I'm an African American male 5'5 (short), dark skinned. I'm not a pretty boy, just average but I have a really big heart, educated, I'm loyal, I work hard and I have the time to give. I've been in relationships and even though they've ended they always were on good terms. What I dont understand is why I see some of the most finest and intelligent sistas around giving all their love to some guy who dresses like he just got up out of a gutter, saggs with no belt in his pants and looks like he just got out of prison and to top it off does nothing with his life.

So many times I have approached female (african american women) who were everything I could ever dream of and was shot down only to lose out to some brother who looks like he stepped out of a horror film. In the end they just end up arguing all the time, the sista ends up stressed out and then she has a baby by the guy and he does nothing to help. Then she leaves him only to hook up with another guy whose just the same and in the end she just gives up on brothas altogether and dates a white guy. WHY IS THAT????