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three weeks ago i had a pap test along with blood work and got checked for everything including herpes. everything came back normal, negative for aby diseases. last sunday i started feeling sick, horrible headache, fever, horrible sore throat. by tuesday i couldnt take the pain anymore and went to the er cuz i Also had a blister in my butt that i figured was a hemorroid. the er tested me for flu, came back negative. my fever and everyrhing else has gone away except the hemorroid, however now on the side of my vagina i have few small pimple like blisters. have never had this before. last week i did put an oilish body wash scrub in that area. is this an allergic reaction to the wash, ingrown hair from waxing , or even though pap smear and blood work 3 weeks ago said i dont have herpes, that it was wrong?₩

my ex boyfriend and i just recently broke up in feb after three years. we always had a great time together; problem i now realize is that i guess i always wanted him to proof his love to me; id ***** and complain every once in a while and he got fed up with it. Since Feb we have spoken; we have seen each other here and there , hung out for a while. I know its annoying but i always end up asking what is going to happen. He usually tells me that he still has feelings for me and loves me, is in love with me but is just going through too much- his brother just died 4 months ago and his father has been hospitalized three times since then (says his father shouldnt survive another year). He says he wants us to work things out and see where it goes but at times ill call/ text and he doesnt answer. Today he called me after not talking for a few days and it was basically a booty call. He once again said that he is in love with me but cant be in a relationship right now; basically just a booty call and we can hang out. Should i believe him that he says he does want things to improve..or just doesnt want to hurt my feelings and its gonna be a booty call until i finally ignore him

my ex boyfriend and i just recently broke up in feb after three years. we always had a great time together; problem i now realize is that i guess i always wanted him to proof his love to me; id ***** and complain every once in a while and he got fed up with it. Since Feb we have spoken; we have seen each other here and there , hung out for a while. I know its annoying but i always end up asking what is going to happen. He usually tells me that he still has feelings for me and loves me, is in love with me but is just going through too much- his brother just died 4 months ago and his father has been hospitalized three times since then (says his father shouldnt survive another year). He says he wants us to work things out and see where it goes but at times ill call/ text and he doesnt answer. Today he called me after not talking for a few days and it was basically a booty call. He once again said that he is in love with me but cant be in a relationship right now; basically just a booty call and we can hang out. Should i believe him that he says he does want things to improve..or just doesnt want to hurt my feelings and its gonna be a booty call until i finally ignore him

my ex boyfriend and i just recently broke up in feb after three years. we always had a great time together; problem i now realize is that i guess i always wanted him to proof his love to me; id ***** and complain every once in a while and he got fed up with it. Since Feb we have spoken; we have seen each other here and there , hung out for a while. I know its annoying but i always end up asking what is going to happen. He usually tells me that he still has feelings for me and loves me, is in love with me but is just going through too much- his brother just died 4 months ago and his father has been hospitalized three times since then (says his father shouldnt survive another year). He says he wants us to work things out and see where it goes but at times ill call/ text and he doesnt answer. Today he called me after not talking for a few days and it was basically a booty call. He once again said that he is in love with me but cant be in a relationship right now; basically just a booty call and we can hang out. Should i believe him that he says he does want things to improve..or just doesnt want to hurt my feelings and its gonna be a booty call until i finally ignore him

men- my boyfriend recently broke up with me after 3 years. overall we had a pretty good relationship but i just bitched & complained too much so he got fed up with it. we've spoken here & there but not much. for the past 2 weeks we started hanging out , he said he still has feelings for me, loves .me, just wants to be single right now. Says we had too many issues that we need to go slow to see if we can get past our problems. i asked him why he agreed to spend time together if he wants to be single, said he misses me & wanted to hang out with me. im so confused. i miss him so much. yesterday was talking to a married man that has been trying to get with me for years..he told me to stop being so stupid, said if my ex really loved me he wouldnt have broken up with me, real love doesnt need space, he doesnt miss me or love me. is this true, is my ex just saying he misses me so he doesnt look like a bad guy. please help

2.5 years ago i started a relationship. i was very hesitant because with all my pasr experiences i was always cheated on & naively believed people wanted to be with me so it took me 8 yrs to finally decide i wanted a relationship .the person im with always treats me good, supports me, is there for me but since i have trust issues i always expect the worse & will get into fights. most of the time that i get into fights with him is cuz he habitually lies to me, nothing serious, lil white lies. they just happen so often i never know when he is truthful or lying so i get mad, we argue, & lil while later makeup..weve broken up million times & get back together 2-3 days later. he tells me all the time he is in love with me & even though he is someone i can count on im not sure if its time to let go or its ne overreacting. we always spend the majority of our week together but the last 3 months go weeks without seeing him(his two brothers recently died & he takes care of his elderly parents). he will text me 2-3 x a week once a day but thats it..anytime i ask him to go out at the last minute he cancels on me. yesterday i was supposed to take him to dinner for his bday he cancelled on me. today we had plans tonsee each other, 5 min before getting to his house he told me not to go. yesterday i told him i no lomger want this & he told me he loves me very much & wants to be with me. i understand he has been going through hell lately but i feel he is just playing with me now.

I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years. We have gone through so much in that time mostly really good times and unfortunately some bad periods too such as in the beginning trust issues cuz of what's happened to us in the past, health scares dealing with his brother having brain cancer & having to get emergency surgery, our parents having health issues, arguements with our teenage kids, our jobs not doing financially well, & finally me quiting my job , getting a job quick but was very low pay with overnight work in a bad area. Took 4 months to get a decent job again. Most of our bad situations have been going on since aug , however things are improving little by little I was bitching & complaining everyday for about 4 months cuz of my frustration of everything we were going through. Thanksgiving night he told me he is in love with me & loves me but let's go our on ways. Told him things are looking up so let's try again, he said fine & made a date for black fri night. Told him after dinner why don't we go to mall & shop, he said no cuz he can't spend money this weekend. Friday at 5 tells me we have to push our date till 7. When I hadn't heard from him by 630 he tells me that he has been at mall all day to change time to 8. Later he said he knows I'm mad so let's do dinner another time. I've never been so hurt. Do I need to forget this or he just needs some time to deal with what we've been going through lately

This is becoming beyond frustrating! Most of my life I have been skinny/ normal weight. If I gained a little bit of weight, within a month I'd lose the pds I'd gained.I am short. 4'10" & currently weigh 143. No matter what I do I can't lose any weight. I do at least 5 miles per day on the treadmill 4-7 days a week on a incline of 5 with speed of 3.5--I have lil legs (: .I don't eat much, normally i don't get hUnger so I'm fine just eating some fish, with nuts, and some fruit throughout the day. Everyone yells me I should be a stick with the way I eat and exercise yet in the last 6 months I have GAINED!!..this is depressing me severely cuz I'm used to weighing no more than 110 pds..I have had this problem only in the last 4-5 years. I don't have insurance so I can't get medical testing to see what's wrong. Any suggestions ?

ive been with my boyfriend little over 2 years. in those 2 years we used to have sex 2-4 times a week now its almost every day. problem is that no matter when we have sex he never cums or it takes quite a while for him to finish. we both go to the gym everyday so he'll say hes tired, its too early, too late in the day, he gets exhausted cuz he has a foam mattress & sinks in to it. he says he enjoys having sex with me so why cant he ever ***. i have gained weight so i figure he really isnt attracted to me but when i say that he says its not me & makes excuses. he 45..he does get excited very quickly & 95 % of the time keeps the erection the whole time ..just never finishes. i figure im doing something wrong

how soon did you move in with your boyfriend/girlfriend? i have been with my boyfriend for two years & he tells me all the time he is in love with me. i go to his house almost every single day till 11 pm however in these past two years he has never told me to sleep over & definetely has never given me a key to his place or talked about moving in together. with his ex girlfriend within a month of them dating they moved in together, yet with me he wont even mention it

since june 2012 ive been involved with ken;before him hadnt been involved with anyone in over 5 yrs simply because everyone i had ever been involved with were just cheating on their wives/girlfriends & id find out eventually. because of my past ive always expected the worst out of him. for the most part he has been there about 97% of the time no matter what ive needed from him.we go on trips together, spend all holidays together, we spend about 2-5 hrs a day together (we go to same gym & work together) he hates the beach but goes cause he knows i love it. my problem.. he is always talking to his ex that he was engaged to; i tell him it bothers me & says they just friends that it doesnt mean anything that he loves me. of couse we get in constant fights over it, he has cancelled our plans so he can babysit his ex daughter this weekend we got into a fight again & he gold me that he loves me but i want more than hes willing to give; we kept talking & decided wed work on the relationship once again. i love him, want to be with him , he says he loves me but doesnt want to label our relationship bf/gf. am i overreacting. would you stay in a relationship just to make the other person happy

i started seeing someone in june 2012. he did tell me he'd recently had a painful breakup with his fiance & didnt want a relationship. eventually we started hanging out spending 3-5- days a week together. no matter what i ask of him he does for me.since oct 2013 i keep getting into fights with him cuz he ALWAYS getting texts/calls from his ex fiance (i know for a fact they just friends). i told him i wanted to end it & he told me he loves me that he didnt want to get into another serious relationship but he did & doesnt want to lose me but its better we end it. we talked it through & decided to try again. his supervisor made a comment about us & against my better judgement i asked him what he tells the sup. his supervisor (they are very good friends) told me that what he says is that we are friends, that he likes me alot, he really likes me as a friend, he always has a great time with me but we just friends. he tells me he loves me & we dating. is he bs me?confused?friends w benefit?

i started seeing someone in june 2012. he did tell me he'd recently had a painful breakup with his fiance & didnt want a relationship. eventually we started hanging out spending 3-5- days a week together. no matter what i ask of him he does for me.since oct 2013 i keep getting into fights with him cuz he ALWAYS getting texts/calls from his ex fiance (i know for a fact they just friends). i told him i wanted to end it & he told me he loves me that he didnt want to get into another serious relationship but he did & doesnt want to lose me but its better we end it. we talked it through & decided to try again. his supervisor made a comment about us & against my better judgement i asked him what he tells the sup. his supervisor (they are very good friends) told me that what he says is that we are friends, that he likes me alot, he really likes me as a friend, he always has a great time with me but we just friends. he tells me he loves me & we dating. is he bs me?confused?friends w benefit?

say you are dating person A for over a year and start seeing other at the same time. Person A thinks the two of you are exclusive since you tell them there is no one else. would you admit to them that you are seeing other people if they ask you or you would deny it

Have been in a relationship since july 2012. since oct i havent been too happy with him cuz caught him in two lies that were a big deal to me (nothing serious). I love him so i stayed. Yesterday got in a fight with him and he told me he loves me, cares about me,has never cheated on me,but he had told me in the beginning he didnt want a relationship & we got into one anyways. That he is happy with what we have (going out...dinners..travel) but doesnt want to label our relationship. If he does love me why wouldnt he want more. When i tell him he doesnt love me or things would have progressed he says to not tell him what his feelings are that he does

Have been in a relationship since july 2012. since oct i havent been too happy with him cuz caught him in two lies that were a big deal to me (nothing serious). I love him so i stayed. Yesterday got in a fight with him and he told me he loves me, cares about me,has never cheated on me,but he had told me in the beginning he didnt want a relationship & we got into one anyways. That he is happy with what we have (going out...dinners..travel) but doesnt want to label our relationship. If he does love me why wouldnt he want more. When i tell him he doesnt love me or things would have progressed he says to not tell him what his feelings are that he does

Talking to friends they all tend to say that any woman who thinks a guy wont cheat on them if they have the chance/opportunity is fooling themselves. They say all guys regardless of age will cheat.

Is this true.

Have you cheated

how long were you in the relationship

why did you cheat

A few days ago my vagina started feeling little swollen & sore & was a little uncomfortable. Today i decided to check and saw that in the tip of my inner labia lips i have a small clear, pimple like ball. I have had numerous cysts in the past and yesterday had a clear discharge like if i had peed but ball still there. I do shave that area so could it be that i irritated it or something else

need some advice. in june 2012 after not dating for quite some time I met ken at work. we started dating but soon after told me he doesn't want a relationship cuz he had just gotten out of a 2 yr engagemen with a coworker of ours. as time passed we kept on talking. in sept 2012 it was my bday and he took me to Orlando to celebrate. after people at work found out we were dating and everyone would gossip saying how he a player, flirt, cheater, I started listening to it and would always be questioning our relationship. he always told me he wanted to be with me and people just jealous. everytime I turned around I would see him talking to his ex so that didn't help. since I listened to the gossip one day i looked threw his phone, he caught me and broke up with me but within 2 weeks we got back together..we continued to see each other but never as official bf/gf and im surprised of all the things that he does for me. think in the last year and a half he has never not done something ive asked of him. I love the beach and he goes with me even though he hates going. last year we went on a couple of trips together,for xmas I asked him for $1000 and he gave it to me this was after he had bought me a coach watch. my problem is that he is always telling me little lies..like every other day..he is always getting texts from people..the worst he has done is that over xmas (he is jewish) he told me he was going to Orlando with a friend of his and 2 days into the trip called to tell me he was actually in seattle. since them ive really questioned what Im doing with him. I love him and he tells me he loves me yet the lying is too much, lately while we spend 4-5 days together and have dinner a lot other than spending time together we aren't going out on dates besides dinner lately..he has cancelled the last 3,4 of them and then gives excuse when I get mad, I don't feel like he is cheating but I have asked opinions of 3 people..one said im an idiot for thinking he even takes me seriously he just playing me, one thinks he does like me but the fact that we never became gf/bf again that's weird. I want to be with him but I don't want to be taken for a fool..guys please help

need some advice. in june 2012 after not dating for quite some time I met ken at work. we started dating but soon after told me he doesn't want a relationship cuz he had just gotten out of a 2 yr engagemen with a coworker of ours. as time passed we kept on talking. in sept 2012 it was my bday and he took me to Orlando to celebrate. after people at work found out we were dating and everyone would gossip saying how he a player, flirt, cheater, I started listening to it and would always be questioning our relationship. he always told me he wanted to be with me and people just jealous. everytime I turned around I would see him talking to his ex so that didn't help. since I listened to the gossip one day i looked threw his phone, he caught me and broke up with me but within 2 weeks we got back together..we continued to see each other but never as official bf/gf and im surprised of all the things that he does for me. think in the last year and a half he has never not done something ive asked of him. I love the beach and he goes with me even though he hates going. last year we went on a couple of trips together,for xmas I asked him for $1000 and he gave it to me this was after he had bought me a coach watch. my problem is that he is always telling me little lies..like every other day..he is always getting texts from people..the worst he has done is that over xmas (he is jewish) he told me he was going to Orlando with a friend of his and 2 days into the trip called to tell me he was actually in seattle. since them ive really questioned what Im doing with him. I love him and he tells me he loves me yet the lying is too much, lately while we spend 4-5 days together and have dinner a lot other than spending time together we aren't going out on dates besides dinner lately..he has cancelled the last 3,4 of them and then gives excuse when I get mad, I don't feel like he is cheating but I have asked opinions of 3 people..one said im an idiot for thinking he even takes me seriously he just playing me, one thinks he does like me but the fact that we never became gf/bf again that's weird. I want to be with him but I don't want to be taken for a fool..guys please help