Melly

Jim and kim (random names obviously) were dating for two years, they broke up because Jim cheated on kim. Both jim and kim dated/ slept with other people for a year while they were broken up. They got back together and have now been together for a year. Jim and kim consider their relationship to be going for four years now. Is that right? I was under the impression that when you break up and sleep/date other people that nulls the first two years. The day you get back together is now your new anniversary and you can't count those other two years part of that, right?

The question I really want answered is:

In your opinion should they be saying happy four year anniversary or one year anniversary?

I have bullied since the third grade by the same girl, let's call her Jane for the sake of the internet. I am not going to go into every account because there isn't nearly enough space or time.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years and live together, but his cousins family has recently gone out of their way to be pro Jane and invite her to family barbecues and on family camping trips. It makes me very upset and uncomfortable, but I don't say a thing and just remove my self from the situation. When i try to express to them in private that she bullied me from elementary school to high school they reply with "Oh she is a nice girl". My exact words were "she is the girl that bullied me my whole life until she graduated high school. When i was 11 she told me that I had to let her take my cell phone home or else she was going to tell the senior on the back of the bus i wanted to give him a ********. She would run up to me from behind and scream "I'm going to f*ck your day up b*tch". She would say everyday when she got on the bus "I just had to walk past her and I almost punched her in the face"." Why do they keep telling me she is a nice girl? Why can't they withhold from saying those things to me? It is great they feel that way, but why do they feel the need to say it after I just told them that? Would she she still be a nice girl if Jane bullied their child? PUT YOUR SELF IN MY SHOES BEFORE YOU ANSWER PLEASE

What is going to happen to my cousin? Is she going to do jail time, how long? She broke into a woman's house because her husband was there cheating on her and beat the lady up. She kicked her in the face with boots on while telling the woman she was going to kill her or something crazy. She was charged with burglary, two types of harassment, terroristic threats, and some more things that I can't remember. I don't have contact with her because this is exactly like her and she always threatens to beat me up and stuff. I think it's disgusting what she did to the other woman (especially since she is still with the cheating b@stard!!) but it has caused a lot of issues for her family and my grand parents are upset, so I want to know what is going to happen.

Idk if it makes a difference, but she is 23 and was expelled from high school for almost the same thing, but has a clean record after that.

No hate that I'm nosy and stuff. I am aware and don't care. Lol.

I need a leash that can walk both of my bichons at one time. Using two leashes does not work because they get all tangled together or around me. I know my dogs need to be leash trained, and I'm working on it. It would be stupid to buy a double dog leash if they get tangled up just as easy.

Does anyone own one??

(Obviously I know they will get tangled sometimes, but I mean less often than every ten seconds)

Every time I get fast food outside of my town my order is always correct. Any time I get food in my town my order is always messed up! Literally every time I've gotten fast food in the passed 6 months, my order has been so screwed up or completely forgotten period (my boyfriend and I have a weekend ritual of getting fast food drive through and eating in our car, then stop at gamestop). Funny thing is, My boyfriend's order is always correct, and our friends orders will always be right if they go with us.

For example Saturday we went to the local mcdonalds and he said our order as usual, she repeated it back wrong so he corrected her, and she fixed it; the order on the screen was then correct. We pull up to the window and all of my items had been taken off. But we witnessed the correct order on the screen, so what happened?This literally happens everytime. The taco bell across the street always gets me the same way too.

What is happening? It feels personal at this point :(

My boyfriend and I need game recommendations. I have a nintendo 3ds and he has a playstation 3.

I literally can not find one game on ps3 that I like. My boyfriend primarily plays ps3 while I play the ds, but we could always switch if we found options for the other's systems.

My Likes in order:

1) pokemon y

2) animal crossing new leaf

Or

2)mario and luigi dream team

4) is probably going to be super smash bros. I know it isn't out yet, but I'm betting I will love it because I love it on many previous systems

5) bowsers inside story for the first ds

6) fire emblem awakening

All on the Nintendo 3ds

His likes in order:

1) Batman: arkhem or something

2) cod: black ops

3) gta 5

4) cod: ghost

5) he likes the madden games

6) some boxing game

dislikes combined:

1) little big planet

2) I don't dislike COD, but it is difficult for me to play because idk I just suck at it

3) stuff like angry birds

Recommendations for either or both of us would be really nice.

So my cousin and I got into a fight a year ago and have not spoken since. she said a lot of horrible things to me because her fiancé embarrassed her by giving me a hug after she had just gone on how disgusting her fiancé thinks that I am because I live with my boyfriend. She is getting married, and yesterday she had her bridal shower. She has friends that are a lot older than us (I am 19, my cousin is 22, her friends are 40, 48, and 46, my boyfriend is 19, and her fiancé is 35). The older ladies used to be my friends as well, but recently have been sugar coating rude comments with a smile.

So yesterday she had her bridal shower and one of the older ladies facebook tagged me in the event. I was just wondering why she would do something like that? there is no way of it being an accident or a misunderstanding, so I'm completely bewildered.

Btw there is nothing wrong with me. I am 19, in college which I have to pay for by myself with money I earn from my job because I'm poor.

I am looking for a good face lotion with no fragrance, for young teenage skin. I use neutrogena facial lotion for sensitive skin, it's okay and prevents me from getting dry patches, but I want to try something new anyway. Does anyone have a face lotion they absolutely love? Or even face lotions to avoid? Nothing too super fancy please.

There is this guy that went to my highschool that is so rude and mean. He was known as the tough guy that could "beat up anyone", he is attractive (looks wise, and a normal height for a guy.

He once called me a ***** for not letting him butt in line but then took it back with a big smile and a I was just kidding. I barely knew him.

Two years after high school people are still following him around kissing his *** as he acts like a jerk to everyone. I find his behavior ridiculous and I don't understand why all the other girls find that so charming.

He is so horrible to people his house is broken into and destroyed once a month. I live in a very rural community with no crime at all, so that's really saying something.

I just want to know why all my girl friends like him so much?

I find everything embarrassing. I hate it. I can't do anything without blushing, feeling bashful, and even intimidated. I know it's attractive to be confident, but I find it so difficult when I constantly feel embarrassed... Why do I have this problem? What can I do to stop thinking this way?

I have mixed emotions about the selfie. I like taking selfies, but i get so annoyed when i see someone post five selfies a day in the same position with a different background. I also wonder what my boyfriend thinks when I'm taking a picture of myself in front of him and sometimes even sneak a photo with him. I can't ask him because he is too sweet to tell me i look like a nutcase lol. Ultimately my question is: What do guys (or girls) think of selfies?

I have mixed emotions about the selfie. I like taking selfies, but i get so annoyed when i see someone post five selfies a day in the same position with a different background. I also wonder what my boyfriend thinks when I'm taking a picture of myself in front of him and sometimes even sneak a photo with him. I can't ask him because he is too sweet to tell me i look like a nutcase lol. Ultimately my question is: What do guys (or girls) think of selfies?

My sister and I have birthdays two days apart. She is having a party and invited me, so I accepted. I did not expect to share the party at all, of course. Then early today she told me she is sharing the party with two other girls that have the same birthday as me. After I found out it is a joint birthday party, I asked if I could possibly be included. she got nasty and said no as if I was rude for asking. The other girls are my friends too, and would not mind at all. Was I rude to ask? Should my feelings be as hurt as they are? How do I toughen up a little? I don't want to go to the party anymore because I'm so hurt. Should I still go?

I'm 17 and at least 10 girls I've grown up with in school (varying in age between 16-19), are pregnant/parents. My question is, why has this started happening so quickly and why aren't these girls trying to prevent it harder? could they be doing it on purpose...? what really sparks my questions is that recently my friend was dating a girl, she was pregnant but lost it or something (she ended up not being prego) they broke up ; a month later his next girlfriend is now pregnant. was it intentional?

Before you judge me and say I shouldn't be doing this, you should hear my side of the story... so I started dating this guy and his parents lost their home so his parents moved in with his cousin, aunt and uncle, while my boyfriend moved in with me. His aunt and uncle didnt like this and wanted my bf to live there. well of course they couldnt force him to do this, so the aunt, uncle and cousins tried their hardest to try to break us up. the aunt called friends from the local highschool, making up lies that me and my bf were thieves, drug addicts(?) and not to let us into their homes. this happened repeatedly as I kept forgiving them because they are my bfs family... they said we stole an asthma inhaler(?), a marine flag, their knives, their medication, and their clothes. (which I later found out was their own daughter)

all the while I was being bullied in school by this girl, everyday she told me she was to going to f*ck my day up. I wasn't going to stoop to her level and tried to tell the school, just like we are taughtat school... well when the girl was called to the office my bf's aunt called, lied and said i bully the other girl and herself. (the aunt became friends with my bully and my bully musthavetexted her or something) cuz I was called to the office and they were like you are the liar you're the bully blah blah blah.

on top of trying to get me suspended from school, their daughter and her friend made up this story about me and my bf's best friend kissing. it didn't happen, all they did was place an even bigger strain on their relationship with my bf.

anyways idk what I did to these people but I don't want them in my life and now my parents have decided to be best friends with them. I don't know what I did as a daughter for my parents to want to hurt me so bad.

I have tried talking to my parents about the situation and they just keep saying why cant you get over it? the people refuse to admit they did wrong.

am I wrong? help please, affects me daily