trubluetaz1

Me and my child's father have been in a "relationship" for about 6 years. We have a 2 year old together. He has always accused me of cheating throughout the relationship but I never have and never will. However recently, he has began to start and stick to "his friends" (whom which I've never met) are saying that they see me around town at parties and sleeping around with them and other people. It's so hurtful. He even says he's seen men coming in and out of my home and rushes me off of the phone saying "call back when you're not busy I can hear you have company"...when that couldn't be further from the truth. He says he "doesn't trust" me. I'm at a loss for how to answer his continual accusations and how to help him to understand how hurtful these comments are to me and my child and re-build the trust. We're not married and do not live together. He's about 10 years older than me. Suggestions?

Me and my child's father have been in a "relationship" for about 6 years. We have a 2 year old together. He has always accused me of cheating throughout the relationship but I never have and never will. However recently, he has began to start and stick to "his friends" (whom which I've never met) are saying that they see me around town at parties and sleeping around with them and other people. It's so hurtful. He even says he's seen men coming in and out of my home and rushes me off of the phone saying "call back when you're not busy I can hear you have company"...when that couldn't be further from the truth. He says he "doesn't trust" me. I'm at a loss for how to answer his continual accusations and how to help him to understand how hurtful these comments are to me and my child and re-build the trust. Suggestions?

I was having sex with my bf, on the 2nd around 3pm. We were having protected sex, the condom broke. I rushed to the store and got Plan B around 12pm the next day. I just ended my period on the 29th of July. I was reading online that Plan B is not effective for women over 175lbs. Well, of course I'm asking because I'm in that category. Has anyone else heard of this?

My bf, who's about 16 yrs older than me is constantly accusing me of cheating. He says that's he's heard me having sex in my home and talking to men. I have NO idea why he's accused me of this. I often would tell him that I didn't want to be intimate with him because he would sexualize me and it didn't make me fe good. I expressed this to him and told him what I would need to feel "good" and it seems as though this worked against me. We have a small child and he even almost tears up saying that I'm having sex with a man who lives in my apartment neighborhood. It's so emotionally stressful. I've never been a cheater, I have no idea how to tell him with him believing me. He keeps telling me to tell him the truth, I tell him I am, and he calls me a liar and says that "I know you've been seeing someone". Ugh!!! What do I do??

I am convinced that my bf has delusional disorder jealous type. This is when individuals, even with no evidence, are convinced that their significant other is being unfaithful. Although it is finally nice to have a name to what he may be going through, I still feel at a loss. Long story short, it appears as though at least twice a month he tells me "you don't love me, you're talking to someone else"....This has gone on for YEARS. I had finally just started ignoring him when he did this. However, something happened a few weeks ago where he went into a rage, thinking that someone was in my home that was not, and that I was having sex with multiple people in front of our small child. I ended up calling the police because I was frightened....and was granted a TRO. . We go to court soon. Knowing that he possibly has this disorder, should I tell the judge he may possibly have this? I am really worried about child visitation because of the violent and frightening outbursts he is exhibiting. I'm not sure how to approach it.

Me and my bf share a cell phone bill, it's under my name/account. Recently, I've noticed an influx of calls and text messages for this one number, I know who the woman is. In the past, my bf would tell me she was a roommate of his, and that she was a family friend. I believed this, and when asked to meet her, she "lived out of state and was engaged". Fast forward to recently, my bf has been accusing me of seeing other people, telling me I don't love him etc, etc. I'm not, nor have I ever cheated on him. We have been together 5 years and have a young child. He is "currently not talking to me" after I asked him to leave my apt two weeks ago after he accused me of cheating, yet again. This is when the calls and texts messages increased, as they were previously sporadic. I want to text the woman and ask her what's up, in a no negative way. I honestly just want some perspective, that I already know I'm not going to get from him. Should I contact her? Also, would you let him know you see all of these messages/calls? He's denied it in the past.

Me and my bf share a cell phone bill, it's under my name/account. Recently, I've noticed an influx of calls and text messages for this one number, I know who the woman is. In the past, my bf would tell me she was a roommate of his, and that she was a family friend. I believed this, and when asked to meet her, she "lived out of state and was engaged". Fast forward to recently, my bf has been accusing me of seeing other people, telling me I don't love him etc, etc. I'm not, nor have I ever cheated on him. We have been together 5 years and have a young child. He is "currently not talking to me" after I asked him to leave my apt two weeks ago after he accused me of cheating, yet again. This is when the calls and texts messages increased, as they were previously sporadic. I want to text the woman and ask her what's up, in a no negative way. I honestly just want some perspective, that I already know I'm not going to get from him. Should I contact her?

Significant other may be using illicit drugs, however he will not take a drug test. Although I know my "Spidie" senses are probably not incorrect, I still need to know definitively.

He refuses to take the urine at home test. However I am wondering whether collecting his semen (say what you will about that, I don't care) and maybe mixing it with water and testing the solution will yield the same results as the urine?

Significant other may be using illicit drugs, however he will not take a drug test. Although I know my "Spidie" senses are probably not incorrect, I still need to know definitively.

He refuses to take the urine at home test. However I am wondering whether collecting his semen (say what you will about that, I don't care) and maybe mixing it with water and testing the solution will yield the same results as the urine?