Sue Ellen

SURVIVAL TECHNIQUE OF THE INDIGENOUS SPECIES OF NEW ZEALAND

Do you know about the mental disorder of Munchhausen by Proxy? It's when the parent or caregiver fakes or causes physical or mental conditions of their offspring so they themselves get the attention. Loving parent has to go through the ordeal of having this sick kid. Kid doesn't know the parent is doing this and nobody's got a clue, you know, kids get sick and succomb to undiagnosable afflictions all the time. When the child actually dies, they are the ones left to feel sorry for. Pity me, my baby died.

Something similar went on in my family. It wasn't so much about getting attention for sick kids but more about getting money. Look at my kids, they're going hungry, give me money or they will suffer. Take pity on them. Pity me, I'm making my kids starve.

Similar things go on here in New Zealand all the time. And we all know what type the families are but we dare not say too much, that would be racist. I'd like to rename it 'Munchhausen by DPB'. Neglected kids, walking around dirty without shoes, their parents on a benefit saying they need more money. Asking us to take pity on their kids.

Meanwhile they're grossly overweight, smoking ciggies, smoking weed, and on the piss most days. And instead of their kids dying, they multiply. Unlike the wildlife they ate to extinction, this is a renewable resource. This is what makes the world go around! Of course it's all about family. You need one kid to pay for the car, one to pay for the smokes, one to pay for the piss, one to pay for your Sky and then another one to rent a bigger house to put all them kids in. No wonder we are poor; we don't have enough kids!

That's probably what's keeping New Zealand in the Third World statistics for population growth. They breed by African standards because they need offspring to generate income when they don't work, but not for when they get old, but because they get too fat and useless from smoking weed and being on the piss all day. They have just enough energy and motivation to get pregnant, but that's about it. And let the school take care of educating and socialising the brood. They're too busy getting busy. Takes a lot of weed and drink to feel like you can't be f****d doing anything else. And did you hear about the suggestions of getting beneficiaries drug tested? It's probably the only thing they can get for free, and they are willing and know how to grow themselves. Keeps them calm and provides some income. The problem seems to be that there's not enough self control among people nowadays. They eat, they get fat; they drink, they become violent drunks; they smoke, they become vegetables; they have sex; they keep multiplying. How do you as a government take care of a population of self sabotagers? You don't, you sell off the country to the highest bidder when you don't see the population getting off their ass anymore anyway. Why would they for 13 dollars? It's easier and pays more to breed.

After the white man introduced welfare to the natives, who already ate everything that couldn't run, multiplying became the new solution for New Zealand life style sustainability. . At least you don't have to resort to starting to eat the Pukeko's, cos they taste gross. Not at all like KFC.

So as a conscientious government you first invite armies of foreign over achieving labourers into the country and do what your own people should be doing. Work. And then let them buy the country as well. With only the Maori really complaining. What if they can't even have their Pukeko and eat it too?

So there's a whole generation of kids that don't know basic stuff. Like when velcroe replaced shoe laces.They don't know what a real vegetable looks like, let alone where it comes from or how to cook it. Think chicken is made at KFC and fruit comes in a bag that says Pascoes. Plant the red one and you'll get a strawberry tree.

Girls think they think they should be starting multiplying, and not maths, as soon as they can, turning lesbian after having a herd of kids from a selection of abusive relationships. Boys think they should master weaponry and fighting skills, and then use it on the missus cos there's no zombies or aliens around.

Kids don't even know how to brush their teeth. They're too dumb (probably by inbreeding) to understand what the dentist tries teaching them and their parents don't do it either. Not that they're growing teeth properly anyway, because they haven't seen enough calcium since being breastfed. Which they only were cos it's free. judging by the look of their parents: First thing to start saving for; dentures. Or it should be, but everybody just seems to prefer to eat soft foods without teeth but drive a nice car. Buy KFC instead of condoms. Smokes instead of shoes. Buy Chinese, so we don't have to m

I bought it as a bit of a lemon, but it has had lots of work done. I know it will need a new cam belt soon, the interior is tidy, it could do with some work on the outside (two places where the paint job is damaged), it's done 287000 kms and it is registered and warranted. Runs well and cheap. I heard if I hold on to it it might be worth more in the future. Should I sell it now or wait? What does anyone think I should ask for it?

I have never met him, I only know his name, his parents name and where he last lived many years ago, in Australia. He's almost my last living relative, so I would really like to find him. Despiteee that he's a Japanese interpretor I have never been able to find anything on the internet. How and where do I get results?

He is already on probation(for drink and drive), he is seeing alcohol and drug counselling as a part of that, he has been caught and given final warning, but he even does his community service half drunk and drinks on his breaks. We already lost our job because he smokes weed in front of everyone, he is costing me lots of money, basically all I ever earn and manage to save gets wasted because we keep getting fired or he just quits our jobs for the reason of screwing it up and I have to pay for all his booze and weed.

I also have a drinking problem, I have enough trouble managing that. I just want him to sober up for a long time (he was only not sent to jail because he made an effort with counselling )and my anger over his behavior keeps me fighting to stay sober, that's why I don't get out. He was on pills that made him incapable of drinking, but now he has to take them without supervision he refuses. I have so much dirt on him I could have him in jail but he is all I have, although he is a not a nice person. I can tell you, nor am I, so it's not like I deserve better, but this is just way unfair, also because he is very bossy and an agressive and abusive drunk. The question is not how to get rid of him and his problem making manners, but force him to change. Should I tell counselling or probation about it?

This is actually a question of a friend that wants to stay anonimous: I lied about not having been in jail, but I have been convicted in another country for class A drug possession. I made my whole family and my wife and family lie, it has been 11 years but if they ever find out, can I be sent back from New Zealand and loose permenent residency? I got in trouble with the law recently, have not been paying child support and have no more contact with wife or son, now so it might come out.