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  • Do mixed you do like more?? (color of eyes and hair?)?

    which one do you think is the sexiest? :)

    brown with blue, green, brown

    blonde with blue, green, brown

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • Is this girl attractive? :)?

    This isn't me but she is really nice...I just wanna know what people think :) be kind please

  • I'm upset that I feel for someone I will never be with...:( please help?

    I fell for my friend with benefit...but honestly there was no friendship or benefit because in the end I just got hurt and he could care less. I feel so bad that I did this to myself...and that I let HIM hurt me like this. He never let me in...(get to know him) at all..and I just wanted a chance to be his friend if anything so that I knew I meant something to him. He used me like a cheap piece of meat and I told him I was worth alot more then that and he said " I know you are worth more then that"...but I honesly didn't believe it because he conitued to not show up when he said he would...and hed text me all the time but he would never come over...hed always bail on the plans. He would never text me saying "hey sorry cant come over"...he just wouldnt say anything. So about 2 1/2 weeks ago I finally ended it...and it hurt because I didn't want to. I liked when he would text me because I knew I was on his mind in some way (as ****** as that sounds). I said "i really liked you and I dont know why...this relationship is really starting to hurt me and I dont deserve but me being me I thought you would maybe give me a chance to know you but you jusy don't care..im not even sure you know my last name...i dont wanna stop talking to you but please stop texting me.." so after that he said nothing to me...and hasnt since i sent him that text. I just dont know..im a nice girl, I have alot going for me and I'm just hurt :/ and I know its a friends with benefits but come on...atleast be friends ! He has TONS of friends that are girls...why am I so different?? :(

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • How do I get over this?! please help :(?

    I fell for my friend with benefit...but honestly there was no friendship or benefit because in the end I just got hurt and he could care less. I feel so bad that I did this to myself...and that I let HIM hurt me like this. He never let me in...(get to know him) at all..and I just wanted a chance to be his friend if anything so that I knew I meant something to him. He used me like a cheap piece of meat and I told him I was worth alot more then that and he said " I know you are worth more then that"...but I honesly didn't believe it because he conitued to not show up when he said he would...and hed text me all the time but he would never come over...hed always bail on the plans. He would never text me saying "hey sorry cant come over"...he just wouldnt say anything. So about 2 1/2 weeks ago I finally ended it...and it hurt because I didn't want to. I liked when he would text me because I knew I was on his mind in some way (as ****** as that sounds). I said "i really liked you and I dont know why...this relationship is really starting to hurt me and I dont deserve but me being me I thought you would maybe give me a chance to know you but you jusy don't care..im not even sure you know my last name...i dont wanna stop talking to you but please stop texting me.." so after that he said nothing to me...and hasnt since i sent him that text. I just dont know..im a nice girl, I have alot going for me and I'm just hurt :/ and I know its a friends with benefits but come on...atleast be friends ! He has TONS of friends that are girls...why am I so different?? :(

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Fell for my friend with benefit...please help :(?

    I fell for my friend with benefit...but honestly there was no friendship or benefit because in the end I just got hurt and he could care less. I feel so bad that I did this to myself...and that I let HIM hurt me like this. He never let me in...(get to know him) at all..and I just wanted a chance to be his friend if anything so that I knew I meant something to him. He used me like a cheap piece of meat and I told him I was worth alot more then that and he said " I know you are worth more then that"...but I honesly didn't believe it because he conitued to not show up when he said he would...and hed text me all the time but he would never come over...hed always bail on the plans. He would never text me saying "hey sorry cant come over"...he just wouldnt say anything. So about 2 1/2 weeks ago I finally ended it...and it hurt because I didn't want to. I liked when he would text me because I knew I was on his mind in some way (as ****** as that sounds). I said "i really liked you and I dont know why...this relationship is really starting to hurt me and I dont deserve but me being me I thought you would maybe give me a chance to know you but you jusy don't care..im not even sure you know my last name...i dont wanna stop talking to you but please stop texting me.." so after that he said nothing to me...and hasnt since i sent him that text. I just dont know..im a nice girl, I have alot going for me and I'm just hurt :/ and I know its a friends with benefits but come on...atleast be friends ! He has TONS of friends that are girls...why am I so different?? :(

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Would you have sex with someone you are NOT sexually attracted to?

    question for all you guys! and btw your sober and please explain why you would or would not

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • how to end a fwb relationship?

    I started a fwb relationship about 10 months ago and its been off and on but its killing me because Im really not getting anything out of it. I started forming feelings at the beginning and now I'm just hurting myself because I though maybe he would if we kept doing it..wrong....I just feel like hes using me and he doesn't treat me like a person but like an object, a toy. I am worth a lot more then that and he doesn't even wanna take the time to know me. I don't know what his problem is but he bails all the time and we start talking about him coming over and he just stops texting me..its driving me crazy. The other day he texted me telling me that he was thinking of coming over and he asked if I wanted it and I said yes..come over and he just stopped texting me..I texted him back saying " I don't know what you always stop a convo but it's starting to bother me. I feel like I'm being treated like a toy and I am not. You are the only person im doing this with and i hope you realize that. Have a good night" and I don't know if he will text me back or not...I just need some advice on how to move on and realize that this isn't what I want..I wanted a relationship and he didn't from the very beginning...I am just tired and there is no point in sticking around because he doesn't care and he probably has no real respect for me anyways.,which kills me too because I am not the kind of girl to sleep around but this time I did, with this one guy and now I'm feeling it...:/ so any advice...kind advice?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • how do I just let him go..?

    I started a friends with benefits relationship about a year ago and I am not getting any benefit Feelings started to form and I've realized that nothing will ever happen...even if I try to be too friendly its like he backs off..like I scare him? It's really starting to effect my daily life. I just wanna know why I'm not good enough to even get to know. I think I am a pretty awesome girl, good job, in school, good personality and I would say I'm pretty okay looking. He wont even give me a chance..nothing. I knew what I was getting into but I thought maybe feelings for me would happen..I guess not. It's so hard for me to end all of this and I don't know how..sounds dumb but its like hes a drug; even how bad it is or how bad he treats me..I just go right back. I am not something that he can just throw away...and I feel like that's what he thinks. I come from a good home, amazing parents and good siblings. I just wish he wanted to know that...:/ so... Some kind advice would be amazing...

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Made a choice i regret :( please help?

    I got myself into a situation about 9 months ago where i started a FB relationship (im 21) but that wasn't what i wanted from the beginning but i knew that's what he wanted. I started forming feelings a long time ago and I thought that by me sleeping with him maybe he would like me too..it just hurts because I never do stuff like this...and i know I deserve better. It sucks that I have feelings for someone who doesn't have them back.When he would come over he would walk into my room and wouldn't wanna talk to ask me how I'm doing, then right after it was all done he would literally just leave...i am a good catch but hes not taking the bate, I'm being treated like a piece of meat and its just not right :/ its been about a month since we last had sex and he texted me about a week later saying "hey" which he always does..never a convo (which hurt, because he didn't even wanna get to know me)The idea of him being with another girl just kills me..makes me feel like I wasnt good enough for him. i ignored that text and never replied back...its been a little over a month and still hasn't texted me or anything. I don't know what that means exactly but i might have a feeling i do :( i just feel so bad...he stood me up so many times, he sometimes doesn't even reply back after HE started the convo...I don't know what to do...i am just stuck and depressed with myself knowing that I did this to me..and I let someone make me feel this way...i need some advice :/

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • why did he stop texting me..? please help.?

    I got myself into a situation about 9 months ago where i started a FB relationship (im 21) but that wasn't what i wanted from the beginning but i knew that's what he wanted. I started forming feelings a long time ago and I thought that by me sleeping with him maybe he would like me too..it just hurts because I never do stuff like this...and i know I deserve better. It sucks that I have feelings for someone who doesn't have them back.When he would come over he would walk into my room and woudn't wanna talk to ask me how im doing, then right after it was all done he would literally just leave...i am a good catch but hes not taking the bate, I'm being treated like a piece of meat and its just not right :/ its been about a month since we last had sex and he texted me about a week later saying "hey" which he always does..never a convo (which hurt, because he didn't even wanna get to know me). i ignored that text and never replied back...its been a little over a month and still hasn't texted me or anything. I don't know what that means exactly but i might have a feeling i do :( i just feel so bad...he stood me up so many times, he sometimes doesn't even reply back after HE started the convo...I don't know what to do...i am just stuck and depressed with myself knowing that I did this to me..and I let someone make me feel this way...i need some advice :/

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Made a really big mistake.?

    For the past 8 months I have made a big mistake...I made the choice to have a sex friend..I am 21 (and a women). At the beginning we hung out a few times and it was awesome! We liked all the same things and it was great. Then he texted me saying that all he wanted or was interested in was a sex relationship...so being a girl I thought that maybe he would like me if we did or feelings would grow. I am not that kind of girl. I have a great job, very outgoing, in school...:/ he never really treated me very well..he would come over...pretty much get naked and then leave right after even if i wanted to talk for awhile. He would text me one day and Id reply and then he wouldn't text me back for days..then he would ditch me when i was expecting him to come over and would never text me letting me know he wasn't coming over, it sounds so bad and please don't judge :(...I knew what i was getting myself into but I didn't think it would be this bad. So now...its been about a month since he last texted me and that's the longest hes gone. I think hes actually interested in this girl and its killing me because then it makes me think, what was so wrong with me? why doesnt he wanna get to know me? ...i feel so used and that i gave a little bit of myself to someone who could care less and it doesn't help that the sex was good...(as terrible as that sounds) i just don't know what to do..

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • why does he keep bailing? :(?

    So i am starting to feel really bad..a few months ago i started a FB relationship. At the beginning i wanted a real relationship and i though he did too but a week later he told me that he really was just looking for sex kinda relationship. I am not super experienced and i thought that if i had sex with him then maybe a relationship would form. Now I am NOT that type of girl....at all...i just really liked him and i do like him..i am up set because he always texts me and says hey, whats up? and i reply...then he just never texts back...then 2 days later he says he, asked me what im doing and i try to start a convo then he doesn't text back again! its been going on for like 2 months where he just says he coming over then doesn't...its starting to make me feel bad and i don't know what hes thinking or doing :( it all just really sucks and im confused. i don't know what to do. I am a good girl, great job, school, house...i think im a great catch and i just feel so hurt, please help

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • why does he always bail?!?!?

    So i am starting to feel really bad..a few months ago i started a FB relationship. At the beginning i wanted a real relationship and i though he did too but a week later he told me that he really was just looking for sex kinda relationship. I am not super experienced and i thought that if i had sex with him then maybe a relationship would form. Now I am NOT that type of girl....at all...i just really liked him and i do like him..i am up set because he always texts me and says hey, whats up? and i reply...then he just never texts back...then 2 days later he says he, asked me what im doing and i try to start a convo then he doesn't text back again! its been going on for like 2 months where he just says he coming over then doesn't...its starting to make me feel bad and i don't know what hes thinking or doing :( it all just really sucks and im confused. i don't know what to do. I am a good girl, great job, school, house...i think im a great catch and i just feel so hurt, please help

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Had sex 4 days before period!!! pregnant?

    I had sex (with out a condom) 4 days before my period. I am currently on birth control and take it everyday. I had my period and all was good. Its been about 3 weeks and for some reason i just feel.terrible to my stomach for tge past 5 days. Idk if ots just stress or what tge likely hood of me being pregnant is but im worried...

    2 AnswersTrying to Conceive8 years ago
  • I am 5'2 and 185 pounds, but don't look it, why???!?

    I have been wanting to lose weight but i weighed myself and i am 185 pounds! BMI says I am obese but what i cant figure out is that I dont look 185 pounds and i might be a little chubby but not THAT heavy. Why? Is it my body structure? or what I just dont get it haha. I have photos. you judge! but please dont be mean...:/

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    10 AnswersDiet & Fitness8 years ago
  • had uprotected sex last saturday :( Please help!?

    He didn't wear a condom but I am on birth control but the night before we did it..i missed taking it by about 10 hours....about 2 days after we did it i went to CVS and took Plan B. I dont know how soon you can feel pregnancy symptoms but im starting to freak out a small amount...my boobs hurt, im getting headaches, my stomach kinda hurts and im having alot of alot of milky discharge. Im not sure if that's from the Plan b but I really need some comfort because I am freaking out and I don't have anyone to really talk to and im not ready to talk to my parents about it. btw im 21

    3 AnswersWomen's Health8 years ago
  • unprotected sex....chances of pregnancy?? freaking out!?

    on saturday I had unprotected sex. I am on birthconrtol but he did not wear a condom. We were mostly trying anal....sorry gross i know :/ and he came inside me. I had just ended my period last thursday (before that weekend)...and I took Plan B on monday morning. I just wanna know what the chances are that i could get pregnant :( I am really freaking out (btw im 21)

    3 AnswersPregnancy8 years ago
  • Anal sex??? pregnant?? :/?

    Lastnight me and my "sex friend" had anal sex. He was NOT wearing a condom...he came inside my anus and not my vagina. I dont think it dripped into my vagina but it might have gotten close because i mean what goes up must come down...im on birthcontrol and take it always but yesterday i was about 12 hours late taking it because the pharmacy wasnt open so i had to miss a night of it but took it as soon as I could (this was before the sex) I take it at night at 9 and took it at 12 that next day. What is the chances of me getting pregnant?? and the other thing is...that I like thus guys, I really do but he doesnt want a relationship at the moment and he doesnt like wearing condoms (and i know i feel stupid not making him use one)...i feel like i should tell him how I feel about it and say if there is no relationship then i think we should stop...I feel like I should say that :/ Thanks everyone

    5 AnswersPregnancy8 years ago
  • Pregnancy from anal sex possible???!! Help!?

    Lastnight me and my "sex friend" had anal sex. He was NOT wearing a condom...he came inside my anus and not my vagina. I dont think it dripped into my vagina but it might have gotten close because i mean what goes up must come down...im on birthcontrol and take it always but yesterday i was about 12 hours late taking it because the pharmacy wasnt open so i had to miss a night of it but took it as soon as I could (this was before the sex) I take it at night at 9 and took it at 12 that next day. What is the chances of me getting pregnant?? and the other thing is...that I like thus guys I really do but he doesnt want a relationship and he doesnt like wearing condoms...i feel like i should tell him how I feel about it and if hes a dick should I just stop??

    4 AnswersPregnancy8 years ago