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Hello and Good Morning ladies!

I am having a problem with my boyfriend, we have a 10 month old baby and when I was 8 months pregnant I caught him talking to another girl.. @ 8 months pregnant!! i could not believe it!!! we had such a fairytale relationship and when he did this it was devastating to me..

Now I have all these issues with him cheating! It always runs through my mind..

every time he leaves the house i think hes cheating!

I have alot of trust issues with men.... my father was verbally abusive my entire life and abandonded me @ 15...(im 24 now)

I was raped several times and I have Post Traumatic Stress Disorder

and I have a child by a previous relationship and he also abused me physically and emotionally..

How can I get over this? He told me that this is effecting our relationship and I need to get over it

But in my mind im thinking that if he will do it to me when im 8 months pregnant he will do it to me when i am not pregnant!

any ideas and has anyone been though this before???

Hello ALL... Me and my husband have 2 children ages 4 and 10 months and we are also both students.. He is the only one working full time as of right now.

I also have tempoary custody of my 3 year old neice because my brother is incarserated

The state gives me assistance buying food right now due to the fact that I am taking care of my brothers daughter, they give me .200.00 a month to help buy food.. OK SO..

My husbands aunt is currently taking care of her 2 grandchildren(ages 11 & 15) and lives around 30 miles from us in another county where they can go to public school there with NO PROBLEM BUT insists on bringing them to my house @ 6:45 am and pickes them up around 4:30pm when she gets out of work which she makes a excellent living at a job shes been working at for 20 something years

****HERES THE PROBLEM*****

These freaking 2 grandkids eat me out of house and home!!!!!! eat all the kids snacks.. even go as far as making a MEAL if im not here... I tell my husband that I cant afford to feed 7 mouths with the money and assistance that we currently have... and his aunt needs to pack them a after school snack because they will be here for 2-3 hours after school...

He told his aunt and she was FURIOUS.... mad at me.. because i asked her to help feed her own grandkids who are NOT my responciability. She already inconviences me everyday by sending them over to my home where they are total monsters and leave my house looking like a tornado hit it!!

Now.. the Aunt is mad at me... and trying to turn the other family members aginst me.. CHILDISH I KNOW!!!!!!

I was just wondering do you think im being too harsh or would you also ask the grandmother to help out? I mean i already have my hands full as it is

HELP PLEASE... i kinda feel like the bad guy!!

Hello ALL... Me and my husband have 2 children ages 4 and 10 months and we are also both students.. He is the only one working full time as of right now.

I also have tempoary custody of my 3 year old neice because my brother is incarserated

The state gives me assistance buying food right now due to the fact that I am taking care of my brothers daughter, they give me .200.00 a month to help buy food.. OK SO..

My husbands aunt is currently taking care of her 2 grandchildren(ages 11 & 15) and lives around 30 miles from us in another county where they can go to public school there with NO PROBLEM BUT insists on bringing them to my house @ 6:45 am and pickes them up around 4:30pm when she gets out of work which she makes a excellent living at a job shes been working at for 20 something years

****HERES THE PROBLEM*****

These freaking 2 grandkids eat me out of house and home!!!!!! eat all the kids snacks.. even go as far as making a MEAL if im not here... I tell my husband that I cant afford to feed 7 mouths with the money and assistance that we currently have... and his aunt needs to pack them a after school snack because they will be here for 2-3 hours after school...

He told his aunt and she was FURIOUS.... mad at me.. because i asked her to help feed her own grandkids who are NOT my responciability. She already inconviences me everyday by sending them over to my home where they are total monsters and leave my house looking like a tornado hit it!!

Now.. the Aunt is mad at me... and trying to turn the other family members aginst me.. CHILDISH I KNOW!!!!!!

I was just wondering do you think im being too harsh or would you also ask the grandmother to help out? I mean i already have my hands full as it is

HELP PLEASE... i kinda feel like the bad guy!!

Hello all... Ok my concern is the Oil Spill in the Gulf of Mexio... I am a resident of Florida and this to me is so sad,,, I mean why havent they stoped the leak? Are they waiting on people to die?? I am outraged at the fact it is been leaking for a month now with no end in sight. Do you think this could be the begining of the end?

I don't think man can predict something like that! Didn't people throw away the actual calendars years ago? Im just Curious because I see all these TV shows predicting "THE END" wondering how people felt about it.

ok.. Tuesday April 27th my husband went to the ER complaining of burning near his upper right rib cage... they gave him some pepcid and sent him home with orders to drink more water...

SOOO,,, April 29 he was in extream pain... bleeding from his stools... he lost 1/2 his blood suppy and needed 2 transfusions.... CT scan and a scope down his throat to see what is causing the problems.. the second doctor said he was very close to death...

my question is,.... Should the first doctor be liable for sending him away,,, he preformed NO EXAMS rectally... simpally a sonogram of his gall bladder...

Should we look into taking action aginst this hospital?

Ok so Ive been dating my boyfriend for close to 3 years now and we have a 9 month daughter together and he is my best friend! We have such a amazing relationship. BUT HERES THE PROBLEM:::::

There is a "local" SLUT who everyone in our neighborhood been with.. I mean all my boyfriends friends and everything...

I see her all the time because she is married to my boyfriends friend I go to their home,,, invited to her baby shower and visa versa... and my BF talks so much crap about her being a slut and come to find out.....

HE SLEPT WITH HER!!!!!!!!

now as a woman would you be mad?? simply at the fact you did not know?? and she comes around my BF and our kids still?? It makes me uncomfortable to say the least!! I got mad at him and we got in a HUGE arrgement about it... Now LADIES... would this make you mad?? and how would you feel about it?? I mean we are not little kids.. I feel if you have a past with someone who comes around and we go to their home i should know about it....ADVISE?

Hello all... Ok this is a tad embarrassing.. BUT last night me and my boyfriend where being intimate and I believe that I ripped my vagina. When I urinate it burns sooo bad!! We are monogamous and this has never happened before. I am not sure if I should go to my doctor because I am not sure how common it is. If any one has had any experience with this I would love to hear from you guys. Thanks!

**Also I don't know if I bleed because I am getting off my cycle**

Hello all... Ok this is a tad embarrassing.. BUT last night me and my boyfriend where being intimate and I believe that I ripped my vagina. When I urinate it burns sooo bad!! We are monogamous and this has never happened before. I am not sure if I should go to my doctor because I am not sure how common it is. If any one has had any experience with this I would love to hear from you guys. Thanks!

**Also I don't know if I bleed because I am getting off my cycle**

Hey guys! Ok i recently had a baby so to shed my baby weight ive been going to the gym. I go aat least2-3 times a week and i really enjoy it. Also ive been watching what i eat and portions. Ive been drinking TONS of green tea.. this all sounds great but...............

when i went to the doctor he said i gained 2 lbs... how the hell??? i see my weight coming off and my belly returning to normal.

ALSO does green tea really help i hear lots of things about it. Well thanks guys!

Hello ALL!! First i want to start by saying I recently had a baby with my boyfriend of 2 years. Out of those two years he has been the most amazing boyfriend anyone could ask for. When I was 8 months pregnant he was "TALKING' to another girl who works @ a gas station close to his place of work. I get on his Myspace to find that he was making plans on meeting with her to do GOD know what. Since then I have forgiven him and we now have a beautiful 7 month old daughter Teairra. Anyways.. my concern is now i feel so paranoid that he is cheating. When he goes to work.. I think hes cheating.. when he goes to school i think hes cheating.. Although he has never given me another reason to think he is in fact cheating. At times i proprobablyme off crazy because im accusing him. I just need some advise how do i control these "false" accusations?

I am currently prescribed .5 mg xanax 3x a day.. and it seems to take the edge off for maybe a hour or two then my anxiety comes back.. I have Post traumatic stress disorder and anxiety disorder from a unfortunate accident when i was a teenager. I want the doctor to bump up my dosage up but not seem like a "drug addict"... and I go see her tomorrow and I was wondering how do I bring it up to my doctor?

Ok.. I have anxiety disorder and Ive been precribed .5 mg of xanax 2 a day but Ive been taking two .5mg tablets 2x daily to get a complete grasp on my disorder and this means that I run out of medication before the end of the month. I go to my doctor on Thursday and I was wondering if I should tell my doctor about me needing more medication. I dont want to seem like im a drug addict because im not.. i actually need the medication to funtion. Any advise please?

Hello.. this is a little embarassing for me.. but when I shave my pubic hairs i get these little bumps. They are not painful bumps or anything like that but i notice that they have a white head on them. I recently had a STD test due to the fact that I've had a baby recently, and my husband and I are monogamous. Im not sure what this may be because all my pap smears came back normal. AND let me note.. it is not a wart like bump and it is not in my internal vagina area, only on the pubic bone itself. If any one has any thing similar please help...

I was recently changed to Atavan from Xanax and it does not do anything for me. I have PTSD and anxiety Disorder so I take 1 mg daily. How do I tell my doctor I want the old medication back?

Hello today that doctor prescribed me Lorazepam 1 mg tablet. I am wondering if it is similar to Xanax because that is what I was on and today out of no where they changed my medication. So I was wondering of the effects are the same and how is it going to make me feel.

Hello Mommys!! Ok I gave birth 9 weeks ago and I recently started my period. I am on Ortho Tri Cyclen for birth control and I was wondering if the first period after the birth of your baby was EXTREMELY painful? Like really bad cramping and alot of blood loss. Is this normal?

Just a little update for you guys... Teiyarras 9 weeks old already and beautiful!

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I gave birth 7 weeks ago and I only breast fed for 3 weeks before putting her on formula.

My Question is When Will I Get My Period Back????

Can some of your please share your stories about when your period returned after the birth of your baby,

How long did it take you to loose your baby weight? My baby is 6 weeks and I had a c section and now I tummy is not what I thought it was going to be.. Im depressed!

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