Rose_Petal

Boyfriend of one year said we need to talk. During this talk he said how he doesn't feel like he's the dating type and that he doesn't meet what he finds the role of a boyfriend should be. He says I've done everything right and he wants me to find someone that would treat me better.

However, he also told me that we can do the same things we've been doing while we were dating, just without the boyfriend/girlfriend titles. Although this had been said, it still feels like he's trying to distance himself from me.

He says he still likes me, and most of me feels that he's afraid of my moving a few towns away more than anything else.

I currently have wheaten terriers right now and every now and then I recall how cute and fluffy they were as puppies. I'm just curious if there are any breeds that look like that when they're full-grown adults (even if they're bigger than wheaten puppies).

I just started birth control on October 14th because of extremely irregular periods (seeing as I only had ~ 3 this year). I had a period several days before starting the pill, but I ended up having my next period while still taking the actual pill (which I didn't expect and couldn't expect from my irregularity) that was insanely painful and awkward compared to normal periods.

I'm unsure if that period would have stopped on it's own a little late than normal because I then started on the sugar pill- getting myself on the period the medicine intended.

I'm currently on the 14th day of my period, still with a heavy flow. I'm hoping it will end when I start up the pill again, and I hope that it only happened this month because of how and when I started.

I'm doing a project for a class where I want a topic that would be most helpful to those in the college I'm at.

I'll be doing the research later, but I want some idea on what issues people either want more information available to them or want open.

Some ideas already brought to my attention was rape prevention and awareness of "Safe Space" where anyone can talk to certain teachers without any criticism due to any circumstances surrounding them.

All ideas will be greatly appreciated.

I've learned from experience that not bringing anything up won't get you anywhere, so I decided I wanted to tell the guy that I like just how I feel!

The only problem is how I'm going to tell him.

anything not face to face sounds like it would come off fake or as a joke (but if it worked out with someone else I'd like to know about that)

Would a letter work? What kind of things would you want in a letter if that was the case?

What about face-to-face? Would that put too much pressure on the situation unless they already knew their mind?

Any suggestions are greatly appreciated.

I read an article a while ago (not sure where) that was written by a nudist group, who said that when nudity is more exposed, more people won't be getting so tense and sexually active just by seeing someone nude.

When I was younger, I went to a nude beach with my parents, and there no one is making out, because they accept what they see, it's not something that's inappropriate and for private places only. In fact, they look at anyone clothed as if they were the odd ones who were probably getting aroused by just seeing them.

So, what's your opinion on the matter?