OutcastOfTheNight

I'm 16, my boyfriend is 19. We've been together for 7 months now, we love each other very much and we're both ready to have full on sex (we've gone pretty far but not all the way yet).. We've spoken about it and all the risks, using protection, abortion, ect. Only thing is, I'm a virgin (he isn't) and I honestly dont know what to expect. (apart from the obvious ofcourse). Will it hurt alot? I'm kinda scared and nervous. I'm not on birth control because my parents don't know about this, will just a condom be good enough? Any tips? (Please, I don't want anyone calling me a slut or its a bad idea cuz of the age difference, we've sorted out the age difference long ago) Thanks!

Why are guys so obsessed with butts and boobs? I don't understand why they think they're so great. I mean, its just fat on a girls body.

Don't get me wrong, I don't doubt him. He's the best thing that has ever happened to me, I guess I just want some outside opinions :)

I'm 14 and he's 18, we have been dating for a month, we have both agreed to leave sex until I am 16. We are both atheist and we are both into the same music, we have the same views of life and yet we are completely different. We love talking to one another and we talk every day, he visits me whenever he can (basically once a week because my mother doesn't like him and doesn't trust us, which is complete BS) I have snuck out of the house to see him before, it was pretty fun :P

I had my first kiss with him (in my garden, it was magical ^w^) and it feels as if he's the only person i can really be myself around. He has kissed my neck (^w^) and grabbed my butt once (:/) but never gone any further than that, he really respects me and that's one of the many reasons why i love him.

He smokes and drinks, but he's a real sweetheart and has never taken me to a bar, and always makes sure he doesn't blow smoke in my face, and if he does, its by mistake and he apologizes immediately.

I guess my question is, do you think it is possible for an adult to love a kid like me? Thanks for taking time to read all this :) its really appreciated