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I met a gay guy online back in May. He's 30 who looks younger, is masculine, very much my type, we laugh at a lot of the same stuff. We gym together, cook a lot of dinners together, cuddle on the couch, hook up (not sex yet.. everything but), go on walks, dinners, etc. I'm only 21, and I look the same age as him. I've hinted about us possibly taking our friendship to the next level of dating, and he told me he's not sure if he's looking for a relationship right now and to just take things slow. I agreed. We text everyday, he says good morning every day. The thing is he still has an online account that I've creeped lately (I deleted mine after I met him), and he made a huge change up of new images and new caption saying he's looking for guys with similar interests.

I'm heavily attached to this guy and he knows that but I don't know if he's seeing us the same way I am. I've also asked him if he ever sees us going potentially further then just friends and he said I don't have an answer to that right now......... It's just really confusing to me because he talks to me all the time and we do "'couple stuff" (cuddles on the couch, warm hugs,etc.)

The second he gets a boyfriend, I'll be completely wrecked and for a long time too. The more I hang with him, the more attached I'm getting. School is coming up and I have ZERO time to be in a broken state. Should I let go of him right now so I can get over him in time for school?

Would be amazing if you could give me some tips,

thanks!

Met a guy a online, we're at a 10 age difference. He's really chill, masculine, and completely my type. He texts me a lot, calls me hot, jacked, stud, etc. and we've met up about 5 times now. Last 3 hangouts have been "movie nights" but ended up in a hookup (not all the way). He knows that I'm still not completely comfortable with being out and says that we need more time if we were to take it to the next level (a relationship). I understand that. We're havin a gym, dinner, movie night coming up-his idea. I really do want a relationship and my like for him is very high that I wouldn't care if I were to get harassed in public if that were to happen, so I'm ok with waiting but... The thing is, he has an online dating site account still and I saw him go online today.... I don't really feel comfortable/good about hooking up with someone while they're possibly hooking up with other people. I'm still a little confused if what he's doing is worth my time or not..... COMMENTS WOULD BE GREAT! thanks!

found him off a dating site (I know brutal but I can't find anyone straight/normal acting in my city). Anyways he's in his early 30s, and ended up texting each other. He's a really cute, good looking guy and looks gentle from his pics.He's only been with a few men, and I've never been with one (I am bi). Yesterday we were texting and he focused a lot on sex and he's asking to trade pics. We did, and we're both really interested in each other. But he doesn't even hint that he wants to get to know me first before hooking up, and just straight up talks about hooking up.

This guy is really hot and I want him, but I don't know if I'm confused or not. Don't know what I'm doing is right or wrong. If this guy was near my age, I'd be far more comfortable.... All I know is, if any of my friends found out, they'd lower their respect for me/laugh at me. Please give your advice or comments!

Also what are the benefits of the carbon tax vs. cap and trade? Is it working in BC?

Hey everyone, just wanted to see if someone can broaden my mind on a topic that I should choose for my tourism assignment...

The assignment: "Write a 10 page research paper on a topic of interest to you within the tourism industry. Choose a topic you would like to research in depth and that focuses on a particular aspect of the industry."

I work at a hotel as a front desk agent. So I'm thinking I could talk what goes on in a hotel and what my job is all about. Also about how I upsell rooms, and describe features, advantages and benefits of the rooms to gain customers.

However, I can 't see myself writing 10 pages on this....

can someone help me out??

Thanks!

I've been best friends with someone since September and I came out to him and 6 of my friends that I'm bisexual. Then a few weeks ago, when he was drunk he pecked me in the lips and tried kissing me and I didn't continue because I thought we were just friends. Then I started to think about it and I realized I had feelings for him and then I told him over text about those feelings.

His reply, Ewwww, this is ******, this is grossing me out, you're creeping me out..........

Was this the correct reply? I felt as if, "We are just friends, nothing more than that." would have been the correct reply. I'm still not full out of the closet with being bi because I'm not comfortable yet and what he said made me feel shi tty as hell. Now he says we can't be friends anymore...

Any comments?

Thank you.

I know he's a homophobe but said he'd change his views because I'm his best friend. We hang out nearly every day. Last night, we were bussing to the club with a few friends and he'd constantly kiss me on the cheek. Then at the club he got kicked out so I followed him. We went for a walk and he tried kissing me in the lips till I dodged it so he'd get me on the cheek instead. I told him noooo you're straight and this could ruin our friendship.

Do you think he was just really hammered or has feelings for me? I've heard "the truth comes out when your drunk" a lot :S

I came out of the closet to my closest friends a few days ago and the girls were fine with it but a couple of the guys were shocked that I'm not 100% and am bisexual. They now feel bad that they've always said "that's f*cking gay, or oh your soooooo gayy". I told them, "yeah it does bother me when you say that kinda stuff even though it's not directed at me but it still makes me feel like sh*t." They told me they're going to make a real effort to change their views on gay people just for me. (yes they're awesome friends)... but they keep accidentally blowing "that's so f*cking gay, etc." in front of me. Then they stop and say sh*t! I'm sorry! Then I go home feeling like crap.

Honestly, I'm so jelous of straight people because they don't have to go with us bi/gay people go through.. the constant harrasment everyday. Like I sometimes hate straight people for that reason. I feel lower than them and I can't help it.

Does anybody have any words to tell me to get my confidence up and feel rather good myself? I'm bisexual and am homophobic. Therefore, I hate myself.

Thanks all.

I'm trying to get ready for a big party I'm throwing and I have two sound systems. However when I attach the two AUX cords to my two available headphone jack ports on my laptop, it sounds like my computer is trying to even out the sounds between the two sound systems. What do I do to make the sound systems blast at the full ability of power? Or would I have to buy a splitter?

Please help,

you'd be a life saver!

Thanks!

So I'm in my late teens and I have a best friend, the bestest friend I've ever had. He's an amazing quality guy and we have a lot in common and we hangout pretty much every 2nd day. I'm deep in the closet, no one knows I'm bisexual. He literally knows everything about me besides my sexuality, but I'm scared I'll lose my best friend if I come out to him. He's been there for me so many times, we've even told each other we love each other (in a best friend way). Yes I do have feelings for him but I tell myself "nooo stop he's my best friend". How do I come out to him?

I've never felt this way about a guy before :S The thing is, I've had him tell me "once I made fun of this ****** at a party and so many people got mad at me." Then I couldn't help myself to admit, "So.. I have a gay cousin" and then he replied yeah my friend's brother is gay.... Then we switched conversations.

I don't understand though, because when he's drunk he always tells me he loves me, and we go to the pool quite a bit and I always catch him checking me out. He has a girlfriend though and talks about f*cking chicks all the time and he tells me stuff he does with girls.

What do I do? He barely leaves my mind and I try so hard to stop thinking about him but I just can't.

Also, if you had a quality best friend and he/she came out of the closet would you stop talking to your best friend?

A 15 pack of Beer A costs $20 and has 5% alcohol.

A 6 pack of Beer B costs $8 and has 8% alcohol.

If you assumed Beer B was at 5%, how much MORE cans of beer would you get than Beer A...

I hope you know what I mean...

Hi,

I finally went to a psychiatrist and got told I have a social anxiety disorder though I'm extremely awkward and uncomfortable when I meet new people. If someone was to invite me to a dinner with their friends, I would not go because I feel there is too much pressure and I feel like everyone is going to judge me at the table. I have a lot of friends but it took so much effort to not be awkward when I first met them.

I have a friend that I met a couple months ago, we're best buds now but I finally told him about my social anxiety disorder and he told me he noticed it when he first met me and said he didn't want to keep our first conversation for too long, because he could tell I was really uncomfortable. (I couldn't even relax my face.. like if I laughing, my cheeks got so tense) When he told me he noticed this, I felt like complete **** and even woke up at 6am this morning tearing up about it. I feel so embarassed.

I'm a 2nd year business student and having this anxiety disorder is really killing me. It's extremely hard for me to do a presentation in front of a class because I can't stop thinking what people are thinking about me while I'm presenting, which gets me off track for the words I want to come out of my mouth. I sweat like crazy, my heart goes at an unbelievable rate, my face goes beat red, my cheeks get really tense, and I panic about the upcoming presentation months in advance.

My question is, does cognitive behavioural therapy actually work? My psychiatrist told me I need about 6-9 months of group therapy. I also got my cipralex dosages (anxiety/depression) tripled.

A lot of people are surprised when I tell a close friend that I have anxiety, cause they think I'm so happy. But really, I'm not inside.

Please help answer my quesiton, and give me your thoughts or comments.

Thanks!

I'm a male, and a girl was harassing me and yelling right up in my face, so I pushed her back, then I got pushed back. Now she's telling the whole town over facebook that I'm a woman beater.

Is a push considered abuse?

Hey,

I'm wondering if anyone can tell me the reason for this...

I'm generally a shy person, but I have lots of friends (not trying to be cocky). However, sometimes my face tenses up when I talk to people, especially in the cheeks. For example; when someone tells me "funny" that isnt' actually funny, I'll fake a laugh but I can tell my face looks really awkard. It's not like this all the time, it's just some times :S

I heard it ties in with anxiety/depression which I believe I have a medium case of...

I've been wearing contacts for about 5 years now. As of a year ago, 1 in 3 pairs of contacts will develop a blur stain on them randomly in the day. Is this because of lack of nutrition? My doctor said that he's never had a patient like me that develops this stain the contact.

Any suggestions or comments? [my eye doctor is threatening me with switching to dailies.. but they're so expensive!]

thanks!

I'm a business student and I have a fast typing skill of 110 WPM, very strong organizational skills, I'm great at planning trips (as told by my family, friends), I have great customer service (liked by many at my previous cashier+grocery stocking job)...

however, I am in business school right now, and there are so many presentations.. and I'm just not the type of person that can present in front of a whole class without choking. What is a good job that doesn't require much schooling for my skills?

thanks!

a. $80

b. $8000

c. $800

d. $8

e. $80

please explain how you got the answer.

thanks!