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Exercise helps me deal with my depression and anxiety. When my disc ruptured, it put further limits on my life and now I'm really frustrated. I was seeing if anyone that had a similar injury found ways to be able to exercise while not compromising further injury. I'm currently doing lighter weights without feeling a whole lot of pain, but I want to get back to my heavier routine...ugh this sucks

Ok I'll try to make this short…I'm a 30 year old good looking guy with a really good job and a house and car etc. I have my stuff together for the most part. Here's the catch. I quit drinking over 3 years ago due to getting 3 DUI's over the course of 8 years and countless other insanely poor decisions while under the influence. I haven't been on a date in 4 years and I lost all my friends due to my lifestyle change(I have zero friends now literally). I'm also bipolar and go through some pretty bad depression at times. I know I messed up and I've beat myself up so much for screwing up that my confidence and identity are pretty much gone. I'm doing my best to stay positive and make my life better. At work, there's this cute girl that says hi to me all the time and I get the feeling she might like me but I know she likes to drink. I don't go to aa because I think most of it is bullshit. I just deal with it myself so it's really hard to find girls that don't drink but I've realized thats just reality and I don't know what to do. I'm just wondering if anyone else has had any experience with this kind of scenario(a drinker dating a non-drinker not to mention all the other crap I said I guess). Should I even bother asking her out or should I just keep to myself. I have no one else to ask so I figured maybe someone could maybe help me with some advice :) Thanks for reading and have great day!

I was just thinking about this and couldn't find anything online. All I know is that the atmospheric pressure on the surface doesn't allow water to exist as a liquid and it either freezes into a solid or evaporates. So if this is the case and Mars One is going to send those people up there, how will their bodies allow them to survive if the water can't exist as a liquid(since we are composed mostly of water). Anyone have any idea???? Thanks

She broke up with me a year and a half ago and since then weve kinda just texted and sent emails formally and friendly. We havent spoke or sent emails or texts for like six months. She sent me an email the other day asking if i want to go work out with her. It was really hard for me after the break up, I'm still kinda hurtin a bit from it, i mean it was my fault i did a lot of stupid things that could have been done better. Im just afraid of getting attatched again and goingt through it all over again. The just friends thing never seems to bode to well for the one with "feelings" so to speak. Im just confused as to why after all this time all of a sudden she wants me to call her and start hanging out, doesnt make any sense to me. We do have a great connection and are fun to be around with and im thinkin she sees no big deal with it but i dont want thhis to backfire on me

I'm a 27 year old guy with addiction problems and obsessive tendencies. I've had alcohol and drug addiction problems for 12 years and it's cost me nearly my life recently. I'm currently seeking treatment and have been sober for 3 months now. In treatment the say that once you are an alcoholic you are always an alcoholic (addict). Since "love" releases chemicals in the brain that create a sense of euphoria or "high", would it be fair to assimiliate love to a type of drug?? Everytime I get in a relationship I become so infatuated with the person that I cant focus on anything else no matter how hard I try, just like alcohol it becomes like a dangerous obsession. I hate the fact that I'm like this I guess I was just born with a genetic defect....moeration of alcohol only works for a little while then it becomes a consumption which gets out of control. So if thats true and I'm always going to be an addict regardless of what I choose because of my unique condition then how the hell am I ever going to moderate the feelings I have towards a special person if thats just not possible? The last person I was with now hates me because of this and I dont blame that person at all I just fear that I'll never get a grip on how to control a substance that has psychoactive effects....even "love" for someone that I care so much about. Any advice is appreciated thanks and have a great day :)

I am a 27 year old guy and I am wondering if anyone else has defeated an addiction to alcohol and drugs and found a better life as a result. I have a great career....and thats about it. Due to 12 years of alcohol abuse I've racked up numerous run ins with the law and my most recent legal issue has ended my life socially and financially. I just couldn't seem to moderate my intake I guess, no matter how hard I tried to keep cool. I don't sleep much anymore just thinking about all the people I've hurt or let down as a result of my bs and trying to drink socially. With alcohol out of the picture it's like...sure I have my sobriety but what the hell am I going to do on New Years, St patty's day and every other fun event that involves drinking. It's like I drink and I'm fine for a while until I get too out of hand and get arrested for some dumb sh*t or I stay sober and I'm completely isolated no friends or going out and having fun just home alone watching movies being fu*king miserable wondering about how much fun all my friends are having. Soooo is there anyone out there that faced a similar dilemma at some point and then found a fun lifestyle that didn't involve going out and drinking with friends??? I appreciate any advice or experience you may have to offer :) Thanks

I am not looking for people to feel sorry for me or judge me. Im 27 and I have reached the end at my own hands...I understand this. I'm just looking for advice if there is any I guess idk... On Sept 3rd I received my 3rd dui (I will never forgive myself, I told myself I'd never do this again) and hit a telephone pole at 75 mph. I walked away with a scratch on my arm. Just thinking of the people I could have hurt or killed leaves a pain inside I can never forget. I have been an alcoholic since 14 years old and have been diagnosed with manic depression, anxiety disorders among other chemical imbalances. It has taken all I love my relationships, job, family, everything. I will soon go to jail and lose my job and means to pay for the damage which will lead to further jail time. In addition, I cant pay for my child support in another state so I will have to go to jail there too. The domino effect is lifelong and it is not possible to overcome, I DO realize this and it was my choice as hard as that is to comprehend. To repent to GOD for my actions means to live the rest of life here on earth in this self-manifested hell with no promise of redemption when HE decides it is time for me to check out. What good am I to my family, my child? Sitting in a never ending cycle of unpaid debts, unemployment and incarceration as a result of my actions. I am a lab research scientist so GOD has eluded my reasoning for some time but I have to consider the possibility that HE exists and is punishing me for my wrongs. I dont want to die but I feel I've only been placing a burden on those close to me for so long I can't stand hurting people anymore. People who die are only remembered for a few years at best so maybe it's best I get this over with. I miss my son and the thought of leaving him behind is unbearable. I cant leave this place but at the same time its like enslaving my own soul to hell. Thoughts control actions and my negative thinking led me here. Just when I was starting to think positive and turn my life around...is when I throw it all away like I'm afraid of having too much to lose because it always gets messed up. I envy positive people, they are so happy...the choices we make determine that...I hope GOD will forgive me for I am lost

I blew it....its been 4 months and i feel like it was just yesterday...unrequited love is hell on earth and I did it to myself and I cant focus or move on. Anyone that reads this whether you reply or not, when you meet that perfect person treat them as if they were gold, once in a lifetime doesnt happen twice.

I already deleted a ton of music from my itunes but my hard disk is down to 8kb!! Where do i find all the things to clear out space?

Ok so I'm a 26 year old male with a great job doing lab research, plus I dj and produce on the side. I am attractive, athletic, and have a very outgoing and good personality. But I am getting to the age where I feel like most of the women I will meet in the future will want to have kids. I have a 4 year old son that lives with his mother(my ex of 5 years we split 2 years ago) that I love very much and he wasnt planned and the whole experience was traumatizing for me since I was not ready at all. The child support alone is 800 a month and it almost put me under. Me n my last girlfriend just broke up for other reasons but this was one of them, that being she wants kids and I have a hard time with one. I guess I could have one more but two and the one I already have I feel will end up being overwhelming for me. Are there any women out there that maybe just want one or will be okay with just the one I have??? Its so hard to get this sort of thing right so I guess I will just live my life and if it happens it happens anyone ever deal with this sort of issue?? Thanks!! :)

I love sex, im a guy of course but no really i looove to have sex...im 26 attractive i have a great job makin 75000 a year but $ is not relevant i digress im just tryin to substantiate my stability i guess...anyway, do girls that are 26-27 like to have sex or are they all encompassed in their own goals and futures that they have no time to have a quick romp with their bf???? do busy girls just get tooo wrapped up in their biz and forget about it or wha is goin on??

Im a guy 26...So Ive been dating this girl for three months now and we both agree that we are exclusive(hold on dont jump to conclusions just yet lol) and we both have a lot of fun together. But she never gets horny!!! We hung out four days this week and only had sex twice. I brang it up this morning and she got pretty emotional and said its just that she is always busy and stressed and has a hard time getting aroused, and im horny a lot! When we do have sex I get her off at least twice and i get off too. Shes like "I wasnt ready to be this serious and i havent had sex for a while just cuz im so busy" which she is but when u go out with someone initially ur supposed to have more sex cuz yer not serious right!!!!..which we discussed were not serious, but her excuse is that it takes time and she just has a lot of stuff to do....wtf you cant sacrafice 30-45 min to have sex with ur boyfriend?? but ull do your laundry and "projects" that never get done all day long?? i think im bout ta call BS on this one but she is really affectionate and sweet ad never flakes on me like all the other girls ive dated, plus i said im not ready to be serious too but GD can i get laid by my own gf a bit more than twice a week?? is she just bangin the closest guy in her apt and just likes him for sex and me as her bf???

whats the best free online site for movies?

My old roomate owes me 560 for my deposit, 450 for my bed that I sold him before moving, and the electric company sent me a bill for 140$ for a mixup in the billing. Before leaving he signed a written agreement that he would pay me the 560 and 450...the electric bill is new but its the 1110 i need right now. That was Oct 22 2009...its now dec 10 and he still keeps putting it off..i still talk to him via txting and facebook but if it gets worse can I file small claims from across the country, i have so many bills i was supposed to pay with this what should I do? he's taking for ever

Im a guy, 26, Im attractive but not superficial although my facial scars have sent me into a lifelong battle of fighting off my insecurities. I dont show it but they bother me a lot. I used to live in some really bad neighborhoods growing up. They areent huge gashes or anything and a couple you cant even notice but the small one on my lip and under my left eyebrow make me feel like crap. So I just stay confident and be myself and try to help people when I can to kinda help myself feel better I guess...but what do girls think about the question???? thanks!!! ;)

It goes "Ohhhh look what you've done, you made a fool out of every one" Thanks!!!

I have a macbook and i want to be able to upload clips from youtube and other sites so i can make my own clips n stuff, what is the best program that will allow me to do this and import the clips to imovie?