kim

I love my boyfriend so much, but I find it hard to express it more. And I think he's starting to notice. I'm a usual flirt, but around him I turn shy, and wary. I don't understand why I do it. He calls me darling, which I love but I don't give him a name back. What sort of things generally do guys like to be called? I'm thinking baby, but I'm not sure!

If anyone can help by suggesting things to say to him, or sort of ideas that will make him feel loved, then please help! He's too gorgeous to let down!

We went out once before, and broke up a while later. and then recently I said I wanted to be back together because it was heading that way, and I wanted to just make it official. But now that we are together, we don't seem to talk much, and I feel he's talking to other people more than me. And it has me hating girls who I've never had a problem with before, because they talk to him. I'll see him on monday since getting back together. Should I approach this with him or just try a bit more to be in the relationship and then if it hasn't changed, say something? Please help, this is circling my mind constantly.

the picture is taken, and then red and green and some colours is pulled from it to a sort of 3d effect. also, if anyone knows any photographers with online work that do this, that'd be great!

well its finally happening for me! my boyfriend and i are getting really close at the moment and this week we were in his bedroom watching a movie and started kissing and got really into it. hes very sweet and told me to tell him if i was uncomfortable at all and i wasnt. i mean i did stop him from getting too far with his hand but then after a while it was really good and i did some things i felt right to do in that moment...so i kind of went with my gut feeling?

but i am new to it and he has had a partner before me so i dont want to look stupid or do something embarrassing.. any suggestions to impress him? i dont want to go too far as its a new relationship and dont want to act too fast

i've had this dream about 3 times in a short space of time. i'm in a friends garden, and the back fence leads to a secluded beach with a rundown pier, and underneath standing is my ex, and hes playing his base and wearing no shoes, and when i reach him he asks me if i've moved on, and carries on playing. i keep looking to the floor, and i dont look at him throughout standing there. i then walk back to the garden and tell my friends i have to go, and then i leave.

what could that mean?

it isn't a very old film, but its about a girl who loves this guy and he goes away for some reason (its set out in a folk country way) and word of mouth is that the guys died but turns out he isnt as hes some sort of black masked pirate. and theres a big guy in it, and i think the film was called something like prince's tale or princess tales. something like that, if anyone needs any more details i'll try, but this is all i know for absolute certain happened in the film

anyone, but if i say what i feel now and whats happening to me, then maybe someone can point out what i have or dont have and point me in the right direction.

in my chest i feel a trapped sensation, running from my throat down to that nobbly bit (what you use in heimlich..sorry my anatomy knowledge is poor) and i feel tense and edgy, i'm happy one moment but i'm worrying about everything the next, i had a horrible start to the year, my family turned against me in a decision i made and forced me to break it off. yet i feel its unfinished and i need to be happy. my appetite is increased one day and the next its nothing. i shake alot and have a bad sleeping pattern, i have the window in my room open and i sleep in a shirt, but i wake up in cold sweat. i wring my hands constantly which i have done since as a child to cope with stuff, and i just want to cry most days. i get stomach pains alot and right now my legs feel weak and i feel lifeless and foreign to myself. i have a boyfriend but i dont want to be with him, but i dont want to be alone, i dont want to lose him either as hes my best friend. i want my ex but he seems to hate me although he and i texted a few times and then he went silent. im confused about that but really i just want to take a very long walk and not come back

like i said, i love biffy clyro. right this minute i'm listening to questions and answers!

what is your favourite biffy song, if you don't like biffy (no judgement) then what is your favourite band?

ohh songs just changed, eradicate the doubt :D

couple of months ago i broke up with a guy i really really liked because my family didnt like it for an obscure reason. i regreted it throughout the break up and he made it hard to move on for a couple of weeks by talking to me everyday and asking if we could try again. eventually he got the idea and as much to my pain he didn't talk to me anymore, last thing he said was if i ever wanted to be with him again just say. 2 months later i really want to get back with him, and i just don't know if he'd take me back. also if i do get back with him, my family will go mad. :/ i just want to be happy with him though. what do i do?

a while ago, i was crazy about this guy and we got together, and we were both really happy. it caused a lot of problems with my friends and family, and i ended it so things would patch up. it killed me to break up with him and i regret it so much. couple months later, i was asked out by my best friend. i think i said yes because i was lonely, and he offered me comfort. i only love him as a friend.

what i really want to do is talk to my ex again and pick it up, but i know it will cause so many problems all over again and i know it'll break my boyfriend and it'll never be the same again.

please tell me what i should do :/ thanks

in just over a month away, i have my 'prom' and i need to lose my stomach and thigh fat. my dress is beautiful and fitting and i look hideous around the middle. please can i have any exercise tips, food i should eat/avoid, i really want to look my best and i cant stop crying at how horrible i feel about it. does swimming lose fat? i'm going to start swimming after school as often as i can if it helps. please and thankyou

for years i grew closer to this guy who previously at different times have liked eachother. last night he told me over a message that he had feelings for me but he didnt think a relationship would work between us. i'm stuck, because he seems to have moved on from it and talking normally but it isnt fair to tell me that and expect me to digest and move on. we're very close, but sometimes i cant bring up things i need to know and i feel i come across as unbothered.. i want us to be together, although my friend will never forgive me (they just cant stand him for some reason) help please :/

years ago in a music lesson my teacher showed us videos of these people who made music out of banging bins and kitchen equipment and i want to watch their videos again but cant remember the name of them at all. one video was basketballs being thrown about and another in the kitchen of a restaurant. please help :) many thanks

breaking up is never easy, its even harder when you cant see why you should. i've been with my boyfriend for a while, and its caused so much hassle and problems with family and friends that i'm losing them. and even though i care for this guy alot, i'm not prepared to lose anyone anymore.

so, before i make things worse and dig in deeper, lads especially, what can i do to make this less of a blow. because as far as i think he knows, we're a bliss.

this is goign to be hard for me, i dont want to make it easier on me to do but just make it better for him :/

well, basically i asked my mum if i could go with my friend (we're both 16) as it would be an incredible experience and also my favourite ever ever ever band biffy clyro are headlining it this year. i missed the oppertunity to see them touring as i was away and this is a huge deal to me to see them. my friend says she would be allowed to go, she just needs to sort money which is pretty much done now. i asked my mum and she said that she wasnt going to say yes or no, as she needed to think about it. and i think that its really amazing that she's even considering it (or just saying it to not cause a fuss just yet) but the tickets are on sale in two days and i need her to let me go or they'll sell out. she knows how much the band means to me and also my brother has just had the same amount of money as the ticket spent on him for a tour with his rugby group and music tour.

i cant even begin to say how much i want this! please help!

well, basically i asked my mum if i could go with my friend (we're both 16) as it would be an incredible experience and also my favourite ever ever ever band biffy clyro are headlining it this year. i missed the oppertunity to see them touring as i was away and this is a huge deal to me to see them. my friend says she would be allowed to go, she just needs to sort money which is pretty much done now. i asked my mum and she said that she wasnt going to say yes or no, as she needed to think about it. and i think that its really amazing that she's even considering it (or just saying it to not cause a fuss just yet) but the tickets are on sale soon and i need her to let me go or they'll sell out. she knows how much the band means to me and also my brother has just had the same amount of money as the ticket spent on him for a tour with his rugby group and music tour.

i cant even begin to say how much i want this! please help!

well, basically i asked my mum if i could go with my friend (we're both 16) as it would be an incredible experience and also my favourite ever ever ever band biffy clyro are headlining it this year. i missed the oppertunity to see them touring as i was away and this is a huge deal to me to see them. my friend says she would be allowed to go, she just needs to sort money which is pretty much done now. i asked my mum and she said that she wasnt going to say yes or no, as she needed to think about it. and i think that its really amazing that she's even considering it (or just saying it to not cause a fuss just yet) but the tickets are on sale soon and i need her to let me go or they'll sell out. she knows how much the band means to me and also my brother has just had the same amount of money as the ticket spent on him for a tour with his rugby group and music tour.

i cant even begin to say how much i want this! please help!

i've been very good friends with this guy for about 4 years. we're really close and tell each other everything, i guess he's my best friend in guy terms. my friends don't like him at all though so it can cause problems. though i wouldn't do anything because my friends didn't like it.

anyway, hes quite into his music, same with me and he writes lyrics and sends them to me to read over and a conversation a while ago was about eyes and i told him mine were brown etc, and recently the lyrics he wrote were about being with a girl but missing opportunity every time (i went out with a guy, then he went out with a girl, now i'm with another guy) and that he just wanted her to be his tonight, talking about her brown eyes. normally i would have thought it was his ex, because they've just broken up and she has blue eyes i think. but he asked me to keep the lyrics because he said it was mine pretty much anyway. and before that i was writing him the lyrics of a song i liked and he would pitch in with different words. like 'you can't get what you want but you can get me' and he put in but i do want you. and then he said he was bit bored and i joked and rhymed about being with a pea, the sea, me. (i know we're weird but its fun) and i think he got serious and said if i was with him all words he would muster would be pointless because a kiss would say 3, a hug would say few, and my smile would be for him. i did get uncomfortable because i am with someone. and he doesn't like it very much that i am with this guy but sticks with me none the less.

we're also very attached, there isn't a thing we haven't talked about with each other at all. i mean literally we've talked about things from music to sex to going on holiday with each other.

also he let slip that he did think about me alot in if we were to ever have sex or be together.

so if anyone has any opinions over this i'd be grateful to see where it was standing, i have a few problems with the guy i'm with because no one approves of it really

i've been going out with a guy who i really liked, and we get on and he really likes me back a lot.

it caused a lot of trouble at home, regarding mainly my mum and brother. and recently, i told them they needed to trust me and believe i can sort it out if it ever went wrong. just now there was a big blowout about it and now my dad doesn't want to talk to me until its over with this guy because its caused problems. my mum has now said i can do what i like and doesn't want to know about it anymore. i really like this guy, and i don't want to have these problems with my parents. should i just swallow my feelings and end it or let it run its course?

any advise please?

my mum wants me to break it off with a guy in school due to him being a year younger than me (i'm 16 and he's 15) she is strict and is only following what she's seen in schools (she's a teacher in a high school) and i have no desire to break it off with him at all but my brother who is in the same year as me told her that i haven't broke it yet and she has me worried to she can do something to stop us seeing each other in school. she's already ground me from going out as she says she can't trust me. but my question is how can she stop us and do you think she really would go through all that trouble? also if you have any advise for me to convince her that i'm able to make my own decisions without her input?